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How do I make my girlfriend crazy in love with me again?

  1. profile image48
    ballislife20posted 6 years ago

    How do I make my girlfriend crazy in love with me again?

    How do I make my girlfriend crazy about me again? and make her want to spend all of her free time with me?

  2. stars439 profile image74
    stars439posted 6 years ago

    Good Question .  Take her out to dinner to places she likes to eat.  What does she like to do that you can do together ?  What are the things she would like to have. What does she like to do for fun, or pleasure ?  Does she seek any commitments ? Good Luck, and God Bless You.

  3. Valerie60 profile image60
    Valerie60posted 6 years ago

    Ignore her for awhile, she'll do the rest! Just be ready when she comes on strong!!! It'll surely blow your mind in amazement when she does everything she can to get your attention; women know how to get what they want, when they want it, its a natural instinct for a female to get what attention she wants. Also remember, the same thing it took to get her hooked, will be the same thing it'll  take to keep her in love with you.

  4. mdiggs1234 profile image77
    mdiggs1234posted 6 years ago

    sounds like a wishlist and not reality....you can't make a person stay or go or make them love you like crazy...It just doesnt work that way...either a person loves you or they don't ...you can't make someone feel or act a certain way...when you find the right person at the right time...you wont have to make things happen...it will be naturally

  5. ambassadornchains profile image60
    ambassadornchainsposted 6 years ago

    Just because she isn't spending "all of her free time" with you does not mean she is not crazy in love with you.  Personally, I don't have a lot of free time and if my man were to tell me I don't love him as much just because I don't spend enough time with him or I don't spend every moment of my free time with him, I would probably go flying off the handle and be VERY upset.  I'm crazy in love with my man, but I just do.not.have a lot of free time.  I definitely do not recommend ignoring her.  Unless she has told you she needs her space or some time away, if she's busy and doesn't have a lot of free time, she probably needs your support and encouragement even more.  Ignoring someone in a relationship only ruins a relationship.  You can't make, nor expect, someone to want to spend all their free time with you.  People in a relationship (and people in general) need to learn  to be content having some time to themselves.  Needing someone every moment shows unhealthy mindset, low self-esteem, clingyness, low confidence, etc. which are all EXTREMELY unattractive traits...no matter how "physically" attractive a person is.

    Women want a man.  Someone strong and stable.  Not someone who needs someone to need them. 

    Respect her free time - She has other relationships in her life other than just you (close friends, family, church members, maybe members of other organizations or activities).  Allow her to follow her passions without holding her back and offer encouragement and support.

    Maintaining relationships are extremely important to females.  Respect her passions and she will respect yours.

    You can't make someone love you.  Don't change who you are.  But you CAN make changes of improvement to better yourself and your relationship!!

    I hope this helps! smile)

    1. swastiksingh profile image61
      swastiksinghposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      nice.......

  6. sinebobo profile image60
    sineboboposted 4 years ago

    crazy about you and spend all of her free time with you are not thesame. if someone spend free time with you doesn't mean she is crazy about you. You may be funny and she want to listen to your joke or you do what she want always, she may send all days with you but still not crazy about you. For your information woman know how to use man to get what they are looking for. They are weaker but know how to convert there deficiency to efficiency.
    If you want her to crazy about you, you a have to take time to study her favourite, what she like doing and the time she need it. You must be accurate and be the best because if she see another man that can do more than you she will share your love hence the crazy will reduce. If she religious you must be and don't force your will on her else she will look at you as a beast.

    I think love is not 100% about what you do or effort to make her realised how much you care but love is celestial if she love you you don't need much work to do, but if she didn't love you can't force her. "You can force Dog to the river bank but you can't force him to drink the water" (Africa proverb)

  7. C.V.Rajan profile image78
    C.V.Rajanposted 4 years ago

    Don't be a bore. May be you are a very nice and good fellow. But many nice and good people are extremely boring.

    Are you really sure she should spend all of her free time with you? Beware! Soon you would want to be busy so that you can escape from her!

  8. rdown profile image76
    rdownposted 4 years ago

    You can't and shouldn't try.  Just be who you are and do the things you like to do.  If she loves you and wants to be with you then she will want to do them too.  You can't force someone to be crazy about you.

    Couples need their own time too so that they don't lose who they are as individuals.

  9. Crissylite profile image76
    Crissyliteposted 4 years ago

    Hmmm...Do you really want her to spend "all of her free time" with you?  It's all about balance. And it's not always about the quantity of time, but the quality. You don't want to smother her, but keep her excited.

    Listen to her and pay attention to the small things that make her happy. Plan a day for the two of you. Throw in a couple of surprises. Keep listening to her, & let her know you are there for her. 

    Hope this is helpful in some way.

  10. Kevin Khamati profile image55
    Kevin Khamatiposted 4 years ago

    The answer to that lies in very simple things you do. As far as relationships are concerned you need not move a mountain to make her crazy over you again. Spend quality time with her, take her out, buy her gifts to make her feel appreciated and loved, if you had messed up you need to say you are sorry for what you did. And you must satisfy her in bed, ladies want a man who rocks their world.

  11. jgwhite66 profile image84
    jgwhite66posted 4 years ago

    Get a new girlfriend. She'll then become madly jealous and for no reason she can explain, she'll be compelled to win you back.

  12. altruist profile image61
    altruistposted 4 years ago

    Women adore two things. Attention and affection. She is already your girlfriend so first and foremost, remove any feelings of pride or shyness or limitations. You must be willing to go all out for her. Constantly check in on her. make her laugh. be more selfless. the little things matter the most so show little acts of affection. And most importantly make her feel like she's special and she has all or at least all of your attention.

  13. vmd7878 profile image59
    vmd7878posted 4 years ago

    I can say some thing from a females point, If she really loves you then you have nothing to worry about. When you two first meet it may have seemed like crazy love, but to be honest there is not such thing. Yes you can love a person unconditionally and that is what makes it feel like crazy love. I have been with a guy for over four years now, and I love him the same way I loved him from the beginning, he doesn't shower me with gifts or pampers me. The reason I love him the way I love him is because he treats me with respect. If we have a problem we discuss it (yes we do argue) we talk it through. I have just been recently unemployed and I have all this free time while I look for another job. I don't expect him to spend every minute with me. He has his job and things do but with all that he will spend time with me, we set times where we will do things together what ever they may be. Even knowing he is working and I am not at the moment, I personally don't want to spend every free moment with him. He does his thing, I do my thing and then we spend time together. In the end it is all worth it. So when you guys are together make it worth her wild, talk to her, let her know that you love her and want to set times where you guys can do things together and the other times she is free to do what she wants. In the end you will see she does love you.

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    LindsayJennposted 4 years ago

    You have to take out your sincerity to make her believe you once again, and will deeply moved by you again .

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    1. Stephen Kalu profile image73
      Stephen Kaluposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      to make a woman love you till the end of time is very simple. just love her.

  16. Marc Babineau profile image76
    Marc Babineauposted 4 years ago

    multiple orgasms! make her toes stretch and her skin flush for at least 30 minutes per night on working nights, and she'll sleep like a baby and love you deeply!

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    Shelly Elliottposted 3 years ago

    It is simple, just plan a getaway. Most women are willing to try, unless you broke her heart. Remember the reasons why you fell in love and the places you went.. Go back and make it right.

  18. shanice whitter profile image76
    shanice whitterposted 3 years ago

    The best thing you can do is give her alots of attention IF she craves it.Take her out,treat her good and never tell her lies.

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    adrionna zecherposted 3 years ago

    You let her know you love her, you treat her right with respect, honesty. You let her know you trust her. You spend as much time as you can with her and understand things and her perspective. You put your feet in her shoes and be her for one day if she's having a tough time in her life to where she doesn't know what to do. Be sweet and charming with her. But its your choice if you want to be jealous of other guys when they are around her and it is also your choice if you want to be protective over her

  20. connorj profile image77
    connorjposted 3 years ago

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    Perhaps an approach you may not have considered. Some wise persons once wrote, "distance makes the heart fonder." There is some quantitative proof for this. I have attached one recent study from Cornell University worth perusing...
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    I eventually married an American; I am Canadian. Our distance seemed to mutually heighten our attraction and when we were together it was significantly focused on each other and seemed blissful. We have been married for 30 years now despite my hockey-habit...

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    Dave36posted 3 years ago

    All I'd suggest is think back to when you met her, & do all the things you used to do when you was trying to seduce her....Have you let yourself go physically, or have you gotten lazy lately etc?....Whatever you do don't get complacent, & always try to stay in the honey moon period of the relationship....If she was crazy in love with you once, get back to that guy she fell in love with....If you have gotten lazy etc start doing some of the things you used to do for her, but do them bit by bit & not all at once....You don't want her to start wondering why your trying now, & getting suspicious, so introduce those things slowly but surely.

  22. padmendra profile image48
    padmendraposted 3 years ago

    It all depends on your habits,. the way of living and lifestyle as well. If you have planned every day with new ideas like visiting good places, eating something good for health and entertaining yourself with many other ways as carrying a light and happy mood every time. With all these good things and the true feeling for your girlfriend would certainly make her crazy to meet you everyday.

  23. Erin Trefz profile image85
    Erin Trefzposted 3 years ago

    I don't think you can "make" someone crazy about you.  I think your best option is to have open communication.  If you feel something has changed, ask her about it.  Maybe she is busy.  Maybe her feelings changed.  Without talking to her you will never know.
    I always respect my husband when he talks to me.  The fact that he notices something is different, and is man enough to talk to me about it really makes me feel like he cares. 

    You could always try to do those special things you may have stopped doing if you have been together a while.  Be spontaneous and plan a fun date.

    I think it is healthy for people to spend time apart and the fact that you use such intense words like "crazy about me" and "all of her free time" make me wonder if you are smothering her.  Maybe she sees that you are willing to fawn all over her and sees she doesn't need to try.  Don't treat her poorly, but make her work for it a little.   Tell her one night that you are going out with the guys, or don't call her every day.  Make her call you!

    Good luck, I hope this helps you.

  24. Im That Supi profile image73
    Im That Supiposted 3 years ago

    Its really just doing the small things. Most men are very big picture thinking, but woman love the small little things that shows them you care.

    A simple text saying while she's working that you're thinking about her and can't wait to see her.

    Surprise her with favorite her food.

    Buy her favorite flowers or candy

    My favorite thing to do is when my girlfriend comes home, on the bed I have my favorite outfit of hers ready on the bed with a note telling her to be ready by a certain time and I surprise her with a fun night out.

    You have to find a way to show you still care

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  26. ShivaniBharadwaj profile image61
    ShivaniBharadwajposted 3 years ago

    Take her on a really nice drive and dinner! Gift her something special

  27. KenDeanAgudo profile image80
    KenDeanAgudoposted 3 years ago

    There is no way of making her fall crazy again to you when you have hurt her so much and had given too much pain in the past but scientific and sexually. When you too have both good sexual relation before, she might crave for it on early days of breakups. Men produces pheromones, a sexual hormone which attracts opposite sexes and boost desires when smell. that is the first thing I have imagine after reading your question.

  28. Lindsey Nobles profile image61
    Lindsey Noblesposted 3 years ago

    I'm not sure you are going to like my answer, but I'll be nothing but honest here.

    If you have noticed her feelings have changed, they have. Secondly, if you want a woman who spends ALL her free time with you and dotes on you like a mother would you may need to look at why you feel you need this much attention. A symbiotic loving relationship should be that you are both individuals enhanced by the other.  When we get to a point of emotional attachment where either one can't take it if the other one grows more into who they are, there's something wrong there.  You should both be allowed to grow together, whether it's in the same direction or not. If the love is truly there you have nothing to worry about.

    On the other end, if the love isn't there it's nearly impossible to get it back if both parties aren't 110% fully invested in doing what it takes to achieve this.  Coming from a standpoint of a strong empowered woman, if I was with someone who felt my concentration on myself and my personal growth was affecting my partner in a negative way, it would be a total turn off for me. It is for most women. Unless they are co dependant.

    So, either back off and let her do her thing and come back to you in a natural way...or stop hanging on to something that might not be there anymore. You both deserve to be happy and be loved for who you are, not just in the moment, but who you will be tomorrow and so on.

    Good luck to you and I hope you find what your heart is craving.

  29. lostohanababy profile image59
    lostohanababyposted 3 years ago

    Personality, Character, Appearance.  May help!

  30. Moanikeala Tyler profile image74
    Moanikeala Tylerposted 3 years ago

    Very interesting question ....

    I would first like to address your question and point out the fact that "making" someone in love with you is impossible. Why you might ask? because LOVE is an ACTION not a possesion. It is unattainable by purchase , bribery , manipulation or deceptive means and can only be given away willfully and freely.

    Now that we cleared that up I believe I can offer very sound advice in what you ask. First of all step back and evaluate the relationship and ask yourself these question's:

    • Is this relationship mutually and monogomously committed?
    • Is the relationship free from ALL forms of abuse physical, mental, verbal , emotional or sexual?
    • Is the relationship free of any dangerous addictions such as alcohol   addiction , drugs or sexual addictions or disorders?
    • Is the relationship free of any and all forms of violence ?

    If you answered NO to any or all of these questions it is indicative that you are in a very unhealthy relationship and I advise you to really search your heart and study the true meaning of love.

    But..... If you answered YES to all of the question's asked then I believe the relationship is worth fighting for so here is my advice to answer your question in it's proper context...

    Question: How do I show my girlfriend I am crazy in love with her?

    Answer:
    SHOW HER, SHOW HER, SHOW HER!!...Never stop being faithful in careing for her. Always be loyal in loving her. Make love to her every chance you have. Appreciate her and show it by ALWAYS being kind and gracious with her. HUG her often "just because" tell her that you LOVE her and back it up by your actions and faithfulness. Be a good provider and a man of your word. Protect her especially her heart....

    If you can do all of this... I promise you that you will be given the heart of the right woman made just for you!!....

  31. Janani Shankar profile image61
    Janani Shankarposted 3 years ago

    Surprise her with gifts
    Meet her often
    crack jokes for her
    Describe her beauty
    Understand her
    Care for her
    Do not take her mistakes seriously
    Find solutions to her problems
    Be good to her
    Never ever fight with her

    1. systotech profile image61
      systotechposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      You mean for that he need to make her fool :p

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    vikramkhatawalposted 3 years ago

    sorry to say.... you write here "How do I make my girlfriend crazy in love with me again?" what you mean by again?????? word...

    is there happens something wrong???

  33. Che Rogers profile image60
    Che Rogersposted 3 years ago

    Do the things that made her fall in love with you initially and build on that.

  34. CuAllaidh profile image86
    CuAllaidhposted 3 years ago

    You can't. Pure and simple. But love is not spending all your free time with each other, love is more than that, if you are just looking to hang out with someone all the time that's easy.

  35. mightyhub profile image62
    mightyhubposted 3 years ago

    Just remember this: Men are in love with women, women love being in love. Think about it.

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    Crystal Eye Candiposted 3 years ago

    You realize that in the end, whether or not she loves you, you are a whole person.

    Don't try to make her do anything. Let yourself free by focusing on things you love to do.

    DO NOT CONTACT HER CONSTANTLY. Give her space. Let her feel what life is like without you constantly there. Do not smother her. Neediness is an instant and automatic love killer.

    Do things that you used to do when you began the relationship. Focus on the positive, not the negative.

    Appreciate her but only about things that you genuinely find endearing.

    ABOVE ALL: Live life, love life, laugh and don't take yourself too seriously. Make light of situations that might seem dramatic and difficult. Smile, make her smile and cuddle.

    Also, press your lips gently but firmly against hers and tease the hell out of her.

  37. erorantes profile image49
    erorantesposted 3 years ago

    Sometimes one person life style changes. You have to find the perfect time  to call, and you need to find out what they can offer you. You have to talk to your girlfriend and find out what  plans she has for the future. Ask her if you are in her plans.

  38. Chey1997 LM profile image61
    Chey1997 LMposted 3 years ago

    be yourself, if she doesn't love you she never will. but if you are to be loved, it should be for who you are!

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    kyjdsposted 3 years ago

    You can only ask her to spend time with you, and that means if she gives you an answer, such as "No", then you have no choice but to back off. You can't 'make' someone crazy in love with you again, unless they want to feel that way.

    What if one of your friends that are girls, that you've known most of your life came up to you and tried to make you crazy for them, while you don't want to? Imagine that girl feeling the same thing you are.

    But if you really insist, you have to talk about what she likes, and less about what you like. If you are full or yourself(not saying you are), then she may think that her interests aren't important to you.

    Best of luck to ya bud.

    P.S. You can't make your girlfriend spend all her free time with you, and just because she doesn't spend all of her free time with you doesn't mean she isn't 'crazy in-love with you'.

  40. JasminRace profile image67
    JasminRaceposted 3 years ago

    You can't make her want to spend all of her free time with you, being together constantly and not having time for yourselves is not healthy, don't live in each others pockets, make some plans for yourself. Arrange nice dates, and be more thoughtful, not too full on though. Think back to when you first got together what made her fall in love with you?

  41. gerremarc profile image59
    gerremarcposted 3 years ago

    You wear again the attire that you had worn the first time you had met her, then you set up her an invitation to be appeared in the same place you'd met before, you should set an exact hour of your meeting, same month and date as well as same chairs that you had sat down before, same order, same topic to be discussed and same position of chairs . It will works, just try and believe.

  42. howlermunkey profile image91
    howlermunkeyposted 3 years ago

    Stalk her, they love that. Follow her Everywhere. Surprise her all the time at places she would never expect you to be. Sing to her from her front yard. Call her ten times a day, even if you have nothing to say. Don't even say Anything, just call her and breath heavy. They love that too. Show up at her place of work and tell (yell), proclaim loudly, to everyone that you are madly in love with her, and that you will NEVER leave her side, no matter what. When you get arrested, tell everyone at the police station that you will not leave this woman alone, because you love her SO much. Tell this to the judge, her family, the Jury. Tell everyone. When your in jail, tattoo her picture to your forehead, then take a picture of that and send it to her.

  43. Emilynicoley profile image60
    Emilynicoleyposted 3 years ago

    You can't MAKE someone go crazy over you, its gonna happen or its not. And if its not happening, Move on. Its never healthy for a couple to spend ALL their free time together. You will get sick of her, she will get sick of you. enjoy your time apart. Its not the end of the world if you can't spend every second with her. Seriously.

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      urbanfakirposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      do you think this act will help , I think this is more of compatibility which make you crazy for each other..

  44. ForLoveofCupcakes profile image86
    ForLoveofCupcakesposted 3 years ago

    Read The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman!  It can seriously transform a relationship.  My husband and I have a pretty great marriage as it is, but this book made us even stronger!  smile

  45. Kristine Kozin profile image60
    Kristine Kozinposted 3 years ago

    Make some changes in yourself !
    Be superior lover and spoil her.
    But remember, to much of anything could make her sick.

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    Diana Markmanposted 3 years ago

    You simply cannot make her fall crazy in love with you again if she just doesn't want to. Everyone is entitled to be in full control of their emotions and choices. You cannot change her feelings because you are not in her mind and cannot rewire her emotions for her. However, you can talk to her, and let her aware of your feelings and work it out. Communication is the key to healthy relationship. Good luck!

  47. Tina Asalina profile image60
    Tina Asalinaposted 3 years ago

    Sorry, but you can't make her do anything. She must desire you as much as you desire her. But, I think you can rekindle the relationship by making her remember why she fell in love with you in the first place.

  48. hydee misiona profile image60
    hydee misionaposted 3 years ago

    Do things that she never expect to happen, make a surprise, and most of all let her feel your love. Do not give her reasons to be far from you just like making her jealous or if you are over protected it is not good just feel her that she's free.

  49. Rahulvilla profile image59
    Rahulvillaposted 3 years ago

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  50. beyoulou profile image61
    beyoulouposted 3 years ago

    sounds like you need to look inside yourself to discover whether you are putting your best foot forward. Sometimes when we form strong attachments to people it is because we see something in them that we wish we possessed ourselves. After looking inwards, then you can find out what your girl friend is looking for in a relationship and life in general. Really listen to what she says and respect her wishes (even if that includes a life without you). I was in a similar situation to you years ago, and I wish that I had reached out as you have. Value yourself first, then people will begin radiating towards you.
    I hope this has been helpful. good luck.

 
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