Is having sex on the first date wrong?

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  1. Barine Sambaris profile image75
    Barine Sambarisposted 10 years ago

    Is having sex on the first date wrong?

    What is acceptable on the first date? What are the likely discussion topics? Will having sex on the first date make the lady look loose?

  2. DDE profile image45
    DDEposted 10 years ago

    Yes sex on the first date is totally wrong. It makes a woman look loose and that would mean she does it all the time.

    1. Barine Sambaris profile image75
      Barine Sambarisposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      What if the sex was like a spur on the moment thing? i mean the guy shouldn't just write her off for that.

    2. dashingscorpio profile image68
      dashingscorpioposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      How does it make (him) look? Loose? Like he does it all the time? Women will never be "equal" to men until they stop caring what (men) think about them. Men don't care what women think about them having sex on the first date!
      It's (your) life.

  3. NornsMercy profile image60
    NornsMercyposted 10 years ago

    In my opinion, it matters about the two people involved. Some people who have sex on the first date wind up being "soul mates" (or whatever you want to call it). Just because a woman/man had sex on a first date doesn't mean it's a habit. Every situation is different.

    1. Barine Sambaris profile image75
      Barine Sambarisposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I totally agree.

  4. junkseller profile image80
    junksellerposted 10 years ago

    There's no magic formula to life. That's much of the fun in my opinion. People on the outside, looking in, aren't going to be able to give you a yes or no to these sorts of questions. And if they do, what they are really doing is just sharing with you their own prejudices.

    The only thing that really matters is the intimate space between two lovers. While outsiders might be able to help you evaluate that intimate space, ultimately these sorts of decisions have to be made based upon that intimate space which is always unique for any two souls who ever come together. It can be wrong for some, right for others.

    Personally, I think life is short. If you have a chance for humping vs. talking about humping, I say error towards the former.

  5. dashingscorpio profile image68
    dashingscorpioposted 10 years ago

    It really depends on what the individual is looking for. If all you want is to relieve some sexual tension you have every right to have sex when (you) want to. On the other hand if you are concerned about what the other person may think of you then it may be best to wait until you know them better.
    All said it's your body and only you know what is "right" for you.
    Some people have had sex the first night they met and went onto get married and many others have sex the first night and it turned out to be the "only" night. In other instances people have been known to have vacation sex. They're not looking to establish relationships. Again it comes down to what (you) want.
    There is no "right" or "wrong" only "agree" or "disagree". Ultimately the goal is to find someone who (naturally) agrees with you!

  6. deecoleworld profile image63
    deecoleworldposted 10 years ago

    it depends its up to you (f society and what others think, its all up to you)... if you do decide to have sex on your first date use condoms and make sure you are protected smile

  7. profile image50
    Iliza6posted 7 years ago

    Yes. It's wrong. That means she slept with other men on the first date. Any man will tell no its fine to have sex on a first date because they want to take advantage of you.

    1. dashingscorpio profile image68
      dashingscorpioposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Men do it all the time! Only the individual can determine what is "right" or "wrong" for themselves. Women will never be equal to men as long as they worry about what (men) think. A woman should only have sex because (she) wants to period.


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