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How to get (harmless) revenge on a cheater ex-boyfriend

Updated on May 8, 2011

Cheating happens. Unfortunately I am one of the many people in this world that was betrayed by someone I loved and thought loved me. In a nutshell, after dating my boyfriend for 3 years, I discovered (via MySpace) that he had recently met a girl and started having a relationship with her. Needless to say, I was devastated, angry, sad, name it.

After meeting with "the other woman", we realized that neither of us did anything wrong and that he was the jerk in the situation. Instead of turning our energy against each other, we came up with several ideas on how to get some harmless revenge on a jerk who we knew needed to be taught a lesson. Enjoy!

Five Ideas for Harmless Revenge

  1. Sell all jewelry he gave you - What better way to get revenge than to get money for the jewelry he gave you. You most likely aren't going to wear it and it will just be sitting in a drawer somewhere. Letting go of the jewelry can be therapeutic and help you move on. Sell what you can and then donate the rest. Someone should enjoy it! Check out this site to get started. Sell Gold Online
  2. Post flyers in your local party area - Most likely the guy is going to feel the need to find someone new now that both women in his life are gone. Make sure the innocent girls out there know who he is! Use a recent picture, use his real name, perhaps a few choice adjectives and print on bright paper. Find the most populated bar or club in your area and post away!
  3. Go on the air - After everything went down, I sent an email to a local radio station telling them what happened. They were very interested in the story and wanted to make a morning skit out of it. I didn't go through with it because I was still very hurt, but for those who are in full anger mode, this could be great!
  4. Rent a Mobile Billboard - I'm sure you've seen them, the trucks that drive around the city with a billboard attached to the back. These are an effective way to make sure that nobody misses your message. It's a step up from posting flyers, but a little expensive. I got an estimate of $1200 for one weekend and I could use a picture and say whatever I wanted as long as there was no profanity or adult content.
  5. Warn new love interests - With online social networks, it is very easy to know who the ex might be involved with. Don't be afraid to send that person (whether you know them or not) a message letting them know what happpened. Chances are they have been lied to as well and should know what they are getting themselves into.


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      sarah 2 years ago

      My name is sarah dixon, am from Dublin. i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man DR.OLUWAKEMI brought my husband back to me, i had 2 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i shouldn't worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man phone number and his email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just two day and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully deed what this great man asked me to do and for sure after two days i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away,since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.that's why i want to say a big thank you to This great man made me to understand that there no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can email him

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      Helena 3 years ago

      Helena. I can see how many men here is me..Met guy Italian on date site.we fall in love all that amazing things. .iam 34 now he 39 we were nearly 2 y.together.lived in irl then .ove to my czech republic country.i left 10y

      behind and strategy new furniture fitted the apartment. .just everything. iam superb fitness bikini athlete. gorgeous woman. ..I feel comfident and very independent. He was happy in Czech more.i help him in his life in Ireland then in Czech. We loved eachother. .suddenly i had to return to irl again for while...but 2e never broke up.he invited me to go to Rome with him.i was up to my eyes.hd wanted me to be back to him b6 summer and we will remain together.

      But just about last month I 2as in Czech Republic again I saw his opened fb page.....and all was there. .New woman his new love.victim..I red it all.he never told me were over..I brake down tottaly and had to fly in 3h away...what an pain and betrey I got....He is asshole as coward. I hate him...I stil love him.but wana revenge. .I don't want him to be happy.

      .she is meeting him in our apartment that is all fitted by me

      eating from our plates. sleep in my bed. iam much and I wanted to curse him...what he done..They so happy together aim suffering how fast he dumped me..becose wasn't in the bed to make a pleasure that's all about it. ..fucking bastard. .now I'm in Prague sorting out the place and situation. it's 2.41am. can't sleep. He is in next room..

      even new girlfriend probably loves him she bought him roles for his 39th birthday. .and my card it's somewhere down in draw....He do damage to my soul . powerful mind and iam more angrier then ever.i wana destroy this love nest I create with his tiny low is that..having sex and ne girl without let me know. .iam grow up woman. .mother of 3 kids..and this is the worst that men could do...iam hate him hate..even still in love.

      she is new victim of his sleezy games. .fucker. .doesn't deserve any mind I full of anger and thoughts...I will punish him. .I have to..not to be in war.. but if he wants me for to be his best friend he's making choices and ain't gonna be he's second choice. .I wanted to be first. always and forever....kick him out of my country. .without. e he couldn't not start new life...I hate him..m6 children missing him..All fucked up..he's happy with new pussy and that's it. ..that is real truth. and what you want from Italian? ????

      my words are full of pain..suffer. .tomorrow he talk to me but my mind is cruel..and 8 wana be cruel to him.......

      There is no hope I keep calm..iam like the used tissue wiped and trown away....

      What ever happened tomorrow it will be on circumstances of my thoughts and feelings and wise....

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      Alexandra 3 years ago


      I just want to share my story from a bad x boyfriend. I had a relationship with a guy who I thought love me dearly. I didn't really know everything until we broke up that he has this thing of having an on and off relationship with different women. He is doing this an additional source of income to sustain his needs.

      This is just to give you an idea of what he does. He is really a bad person. Yes I am one of his victim and I decided to do this not just for me but also for the other girls he fooled and played around and also for the other persons he fooled when it comes to money.

      He is now working in Kuwait and I heard he is planning to court again a new girl on his company one on the HR department and also some Nurses. I think he is sick of doing this and should be given some lessons.

      Here is his facebook page:

      Company where he works:

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      Amanda 3 years ago

      After being in relationship with Harry for Five years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS.

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      NANCY 3 years ago

      Hello i want to appreciate Dr Iyama for all he has done for me when i lost my lover..i real pass through pains and i cry all days and night but when i contacted Dr IYAMA he brought him back without no here to tell you that Dr IYAMA is the right person to contact when ever you are passing throught any problem in life via IYAMATEMPLE@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348035166398 AM NANCY FROM CANADA Dr IYAMA CONTACT IYAMATEMPLE@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +23480351663

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      sarah 3 years ago

      my man is back to me. This is unbelievable the man i love so much left me for some months after will plans to get married he said he can't live the same roof with me i try all i could to get him back but nothing work for me. day and night i keep on crying because i love him so much and i can't do without him i was so ashamed because all will plans about our marriage was in Vail on faithful morning i was reading on internet blogs i saw testimony of a lady how dr. Anu bring back her husband and restored her marriage. After reading her testimony something came in my mind, that's was how i email Dr. Anu for help and two days after dr email me back that he was in the mountain. after that i explained my problem to him about my man and he told me not to worry that every thing will be fine that he will cast the spell for my man to come back and restore my marriage. I was very happy when he said that. i assist for his request for my work to be done after three days my man called me on phone, apologize for the pains he put me through ever since he left me. I was so happy because I love him so much two days after, my man came back home. and will got married the following week, now we live happily. i am so happy about my life and i will keep on testified about dr. Anu he is powerful spiritual Dr you can also email him for help!

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      zoa 4 years ago

      My boyfriend was dating to another girl while we were together and after a few days of crying I've decided to get even all I can say is he will never do that to a girl again or probualy show his face in his home town again

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      Sally Cordova Tennessee 4 years ago

      By the way girls if any of you would enjoy seeing some of the pictures of him in all his birthday suite glory, just email me at FunSally and I will send you the pics... Hehehe ........

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      Sally, Cordova Tennessee 4 years ago

      My sisters boyfriend , hung out a the local bar and everyone there knew him. one night on a girls night out, my friends and I saw him making out with someone we didn't know, they left together. when I told my sister she didn't believe me, she said Eddie would never cheat on her. No matter what I said she wouldn't believe me . I told her Id prove it to her if she was okay with it, and she said to go ahead he would never do anything wrong ever. I told her I could get him to strip naked and do what ever I wanted him to, she said no way would he do that so I told her if he does it I would take pictures of him to prove he did, but if he does it she had to break up with him and I could do anything I wanted with the pictures . well, after a while she agreed saying he would never do anything like that , so the next week at the bar I saw him and went over and talked to him . I ask what he was doing ,and he said he wasn't doing anything just stopped in for a drink to see who was there . well, after a few drinks I had gotten my nerve up and when to the rest room and called my friends and told them to meet me at my place in 30 mins they said they would . I went back out and told Eddie that I needed to go but if he wanted he could come with me and hangout at my place and do some jello shots I made, he said cool and followed me out of the bar. when we got to my place I got some of the jello out and we each did some , he did a lot more that me just as I planed, when my friends arrived we were just setting in the living room talking he was getting really drunk. I took my friends aside and told then what I had planed, they loved it and was willing to help, when we went back in the living room we got the jello shots and started playing cards soon I said let play for something more interesting , and he jump up and said I know lets play strip poker . we all laughed and said we were sure he'd like that him being the only guy with 5 women he said come on girls don't be chicken . and one of my friends said okay but what ever you lose the winner keeps and we all agreed and started playing all he had on was his shirt jeans and boots socks and underwear we said that things like shoes count only as one, anything that was a pair, like shoes or socks or anything like that we all agreed and we started playing , doing jello shots as we went , but each time we did a shot we would not let him know he was the only one taking them. first he lost his shoes and socks , then I lost my shoes , then a Friend lost her shoes I ran and got my camera so I could take picture of eachone of us as we lost something next he lost his shirt , he was down to his jeans and underwear we were all smiling and looking at each other as he did another jello shot then my other friend lost her socks witch made him feel good , and then it happen he lost his jeans. as he stood up to remove them I started taking pictures he turned his back to us and slid them down, We couldn't believe it when we saw he wasn't wearing any undies and his bear ass was now looking us in the face I keep snapping pictures as he kicked the jeans over to my friend and turned to face us we made him do two jello shots and set back down to play we told him seeing how he was already naked that if he lost again he would have to do what ever we told him to do he said okay and lost the very first hand we told him he had to play with himself while we watched and that I could take pictures of him with his dick hard he did it. It was so funny, I took a lot of pictures and when my friend said she had to go she picked up all his clothes and said she won them she was going to keep them , and left we all laughed at his naked ass and told him it was time for him to go we gave him his keys walked him to the door and pushed him out and lock the door behind him. we watched thru the window as he walked to his car naked the sun was coming up and he was driving home naked it was so funny . that day I printed all the pictures of him with his hard dick showing and took them to the bar, where he goes all the time I went into the womans room and taped them up in all the stalls that night when he came in to the bar all the girls that works there were laughing and smiling at him and he didn't understand it . all the women were it was so funny . Its been 2 weeks and the pictures are still there I love that will teach him for cheating on my sister , Ho, by the way she broke up with him as sone as I took her to the bar for a drink Hahaha.

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      Sally 4 years ago

      after reading all of the post here, I just have to tell everyone about my sisters ex-boyfriend and what I did to show her he was a cheater.

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      Nameme 4 years ago

      My name is really not important here cos all i can say is that if you need a spell caster to help you with your problem then the best one is MUTTON OSUN. He is the only reliable spell caster i know.This is not just cos he helped me i mean if you are reading this comment on the internet, you will definitely see other comment about how he has saved relationship with his spell,helped people win lottery and i read one a man named Sandburg don't know if its his real name said MUTTON OSUN help with a spell to secure a job and bring back wife who left him.I am composing this comment to pin the fact that MUTTON OSUN has also helped me.After six years of marriage it hard to really understand when your wife is see another man and asking for a divorce just so see can be with him.It so hard for me cos i thought we were doing fine.Maybe i was too blind that i didn't know something was wrong with us or i wasn't giving her the attention she needed.Which ever which way there was something that i knew,she was breaking my heart and i still loved her with my life.I know people may probably say it unlike a man but i lost my virginity to her and sine then there have been no other in my life but her.I gave up everything for her My family, and everything and everyone that wanted us not to be.I could not imagine how she could be so heartless and so unfaithful i mean i gave her my life!.I was ready to let her go i left our house and her new painter boyfriend moved in.They turned my private store room to his art studio and started sharing my bed with my wife.He was practically living my life for me cos everything i had in our house was converted to his.With every day that passed grew mad at the painter cos i was still in love with my wife she is the only family i have left and in my head i thought i just lost her to another man after all the sacrifice i have made to see us together.Before i even thought of spell casting i tried the memory lane method but she was not even willing to talk to me for more than a minute or even have a bit with me it was almost like she was allergic to me after five years of marriage.The thought of another man making love to my wife consumed me i lost focus and was totally confused on what to do.I remember drowning myself with bottles of vodka to kill the pain and try to forget her but i pass out and wake up thinking about her.Just when i thought i needed to get rid of of my cheating wife with the help on the internet, i came across a lot of comment on how MTTON OSUN has helped to get exes back so at that moment i was no longer thinking of how to get rid of her instead i was thinking and willing to do anything just to have my wife back.When i contacted the spell caster that is MUTTON OSUN with the email i saw on the comment he called me, after i made him understand my problem.He told me he was sad for me cos i left my whole world and family for her.He asked that i get some materials i can disclose but it nothing to worry about cos they are totally harmless.I felt it was gonna be hard to send them down to him so i gave him the money for the materials.After two days he sent me a package containing my spell.He instructed me on how to make it effective and i swear on my dead sister grave the spell made my wife mine again,Its was so supernatural how it happened i can't just explain from how she left the painter and everything beats my imagination all i know is that MUTTON OSUN spell is was powerful enough to get me my wife back.Contact him here on his email address for solution to your own problem

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      kareena 4 years ago

      I met a guy at work 17yrs back and we clicked from day one he had a girlfriend and i was married we always stayed in touch spoke everyday and met sometimes but 7 years back i was single we got together and decided to make our relationship work, we started going out spending time together and then making love he would say i love you everytime we made love and this continued for 7 years. Recently we went for a holiday and he started flirting with another woman openly in front of me as well as her husband, he spend 4 full days with her ignoring me completely in the bargain, he would get irritated at me and pick on me for small issue.i did not want to spoil my holiday so kept mum once back i bombarded him and he goes all innocent saying i was just going along with HER and if it upsets you i will stop talking to her...what a coward, later i came to know he is a two faced guy all goody two shoes in front of me but behind my back flirting and picking up girls at the bar. i am shocked and angry at myself that for so many years i could not see his true self how can people fake for so long??

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      jennifer 4 years ago

      This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me....My name is jennifer benjamin and I base in london...“My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called prophet mike which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called happy,she testified about how prophet mike brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop his email After reading all these,I decided to give prophet mike a try. I contacted him through his email and explained my problem to him. In just three days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before, prophet mike is really a talented and gifted man of God and i will not stop publishing him name because he is a real man of God, A man that God answer any time he call on him

      is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great prophet mike today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact: or call his phone number, +2348037184677 Thank you great prophet man of God, And you can also Contact him for any the following:

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      vicky 4 years ago

      HELLO to my friends out there i am testifying about the good work of a man who help me it has been hell from the day my husband left me i am a woman with two kids my problem stated when the father of my kids travel i never help he was living but as at two weeks i did not set my eye on my husband i try calling but he was not taken my call some week he call me telling me that he has found love some where easy at first i never take to be serous but day after he came to the house to pick his things that was the time i notice that things is going bad i help he will come back but things was going bad day by day i needed to talk to someone about it so i went to his friend but there was no help so i give it up on him month later i met on the the internet a spell caster i never believe on this but i needed my men back so i gave the spell caster my problem at first i never trusted him so i was just doing it for doing sake but after three day my husband called me telling me that he his coming home i still do not believe but as at the six day the father to my kids came to the house asking me to for give him the spell work to said to my self from that day i was happy with my family thanks to the esango priest of (abamieghe)esango priest he his a great man you need to try him you can as well to tell him your problem so that he can be of help to you his content email is this indeed you are a priest thank you for making my home a happy home again. remember his email is

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      civia 4 years ago

      i want to testifies the great work of Dr Simon my husband left me and my kids for the past 9moths just because of 24years old girl and i was definitely confuse and because i don't no what to do.and just because of that all the spell casters i contacted were fakes. on-till i meet a good friend of my who told me abut Dr. Simon and i email him, i told him my problems he replied me and said my problems we be solved if am ready and i respond to him and do all he told me he said my husband will come back to me in two days time really it come to pass all he have said my husband really come to me and beg for forgiveness am so happy for the good work Dr. Simon has done in my life. if you need a truthful spell caster email him.

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      loveth williams e 5 years ago

      my testimony/john kelvin

      This is definitely a title well deserved!!! I just wanted to let you know that the Increase My

      Income spell has worked already!!! this afternoon my boss called me before I went

      home and told me that he was increasing my salary an additional $200.00 a week!!! I am

      extremely thankful to you!!!! I don't know how you do it, but it really works and fast! I am

      truly amazed. I received Reiki attunements a few months ago and would love you to do one

      help other people the way you do it for me ok. I also know that I have been blessed with a healing gift that needs to be developed. I would love to set a consultation with you so you can help

      me work on these things. Let's see what the other spells bring to me. I will be ordering

      more next week!thanks you can also contact him for help as well email. pls/john kelvin

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      faithkrotov 5 years ago

      Thanks once again the great Dr samura I am faith krotov I want to share my testimony to every one here about what this great man did for me I was married for more than six years now know child with this, my heart has been trouble so I don’t know what to do. And I have gone from one place to another still I did not found the solution of my problem on till one day in my office when a friend of mine came for a visit so I have been hiding this for every body not to share this problem to any one so when I see the situation on ground now my husband is about getting another woman, I try my best to share this with a friend so she advise me to contact this great man for a spell cast so I was not my self of telling her my problem so I ask her what we it take me? She said it we not take much time just three days it we be done then I look up and down were we I start from now? She insist for me to try him the I ask her for his contact she gave me his number and his email address his number +2347030410643 and here is the email SAMURATELLERSPELL100@GMAIL.COM so I called him first before I email him to know if his the write person so he cast the spell and am so happy with my husband with two kids with this, the man is great and his spell casting is real thanks to my friend may God almighty bless you all from Nana hill

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      sandra 5 years ago

      i never believe that is real,i see so many people testifying what Dr oduwa has done for them on the internet so i decided to contact him to help me cast my spell and after 3days i got my husband back which has left me and 3kids for 1 year and 6months coming to beg for forgiveness and said it was devils hand work but i am happy i got back my lover who bring joy to my heart if you want to know what i am saying try Dr oduwa and see what he can him via

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      bea 5 years ago

      sally..i know the feeling I broke up w my ex 7 weeks ago,,he was cheating and lieing alost the whole time and thought I would never find out..thank God he got sloppy and left his email open,,,I got all the dirt on him,,,perv,sex addict lieing cheat..and as much as it hurts to be betrayed by someone who promised to be loyal....its best to get over the pain and heal and then when the dust settles,,,You will see the true light.

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      sally 5 years ago

      My heart is so broken today. I know it's just a matter of time to heal. I was so in love with him and thought he loved me to. I feel like such a fool

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      leetowan 5 years ago

      Wow, there is so much broken hearts and revenge here. I understand the devastation of it.

      @John, I pray for your friend situation. He will find a better person. And yes, violence is not the answer to heal. It will create unhealthy cause and effect.

      @Hurt like hell , you do sound a very professional human being. 17 years in marriage is such a waste. But your children are not. You have a new better profession, be a loving mom to your children. My ex husband recently killed himself ( yes he is another cheater) but it was so sad for my kids that their father is no longer there. Speak love and understanding to your children. And I'm sure you already have. :)

      @Sophia, It's so a reality.. I don't understand that either.. why people choose someone like that, than you. It must be the rush of adrenaline or lack of frisky love? When my ex husband cheated on me, i knew myself I was a boring girl. So the next relationship I spiced myself up. But the last guy I mentioned who cheated on me turns out to be a real worthless, self centered hated man. So no reason to be him at all. Just move on Sophia. I hope there is no children involve. If so, then try the advice i passed to miss Hurt like hell. Good luck.

      @monica, I know that feeling. My ex BF was cheating on me with his friend's wife. And the wife is also his old friend since they both 11 years old. It's stupid and sick. Just be careful how you tell everyone. I tried that and yes some good and bad came out of it. So it's your choice sweetie how you want to move on and start to love your self again.

      @Michelle, love the story about casting spells. But I would be careful for what it wants in return. oxoxox

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      Michelle 5 years ago

      I recently found out my ex boyfriend of three years cheated on me. I did this by logging into facebook and adding this girl I suspected he cheated with me on facebook then asking her if she has hooked up with him. She unknowingly admitted she has and then I confronted him. I later found out it was not only her but many others. I believe karma will come around and the best thing to do is just move on and be happy this is the best from of revenge. I am glad to say he is out of my life and I hope I never have to see him again.

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      lizzy 5 years ago

      Hi drsabon.( just wanted to thank you for the spell and the effectiveness of it...I used the Leave My Man Alone, and then the Love Me Again but because I didn't see anything happening, I kind of gave up on the idea of the kit working. When I first finished the second spell kit first week of December, I went to contact my ex. Last time we spoke, he said to me that he wanted time to figure his feelings out about me, and his ex was still in the picture. He said that he would contact me once he takes care of things. Well, that day when I called him I got some info, which was that him and the ex girlfriend are back together, although things are a bit rocky. I was upset, and was depressed for few days, but was able to go on with my life, slowly, but surely. I wasn't going to call him or anything, until I was ready to accept the fact that he's with someone else.and I kind of was just concentrating on my life. Then, the night of January 15th, my phone rang. It was him. He told me how I was right all along about everything, and that he missed me, him and the other girl have been broken up for few weeks already, etc etc! I just wanted to let you know that at least the difficult part, which is to get back in touch with him, is done, and the other party is gone. Now, I need to have him to myself! Wish me luck...I'm sure I will be contacting you again soon.drsabon. you are really a gifted spell caster.

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      monica 5 years ago

      My boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on me I just want him to leave me alone and I just found out itz his friends girlfriend IM SO HURT I WILL TELL HER BOYFRIEND AND THEIR FRIENDS .

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      michelle 5 years ago

      My ex-boyfriend dumped me 4 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him.I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me.I was so confuse and don't know what to do,so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness.I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that,we are about to get married.once again thank you ultimate are truly talented and gifted Email: is the only answer.he can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man

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      Sophia 5 years ago

      I just found out my husband of 4 years has had a g/f for the past 2 months and she may be pregnant. We were "separated" during this time and he feels no remorse even though were are still married and niether had filed for divorce. Also during this whole time he kept begging me to take him back. I met with her and she had no idea he was married. The really bad part is he totally down-graded. This woman is on house arrest for selling drugs, cuts herself, does drugs, has 3 small kids, is a waitress, and is NOT attractive. I am a professional woman, have never done drugs or been in jail and even the other woman told my husband that I am beautiful. Why would my husband cheat on someone like me with someone like that??

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      Hurt like hell 6 years ago

      After 17 years with the same man and 2 children he has cheated on me 5 times.....this last time he got caught and still denies it...he has 2 woman now and I found out about the first one and she is his medical assistant at his Dr.'s office and the other I will find out who and also let her know what kind of pig he is. I thought he had changed and to chose p..ssy over his family is wrong. Why?

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      John 6 years ago

      It's women like you that encourage other females to inflate the situation. This gets people hurt (Including women with violence). I am not a gay man but have given up on cheap females due to the majority being cheaters and pretty pathetic human beings in general. I like real women not whores. I realise this is on a different topic but my best mate is being harassed by an ex girlfriend who is trying to make not just him suffer, but is trying to get all of his mates in trouble by spreading false statements, trying to get us fired from our jobs, in the end she will go too far and something nasty could happen. Think about it come on.

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      bubblezzz 6 years ago

      just go out with best friend der

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      Leetowan 6 years ago

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      London girl 6 years ago

      Leetowan thank you so much for sharing. As u say revenge isn't sweet even tho right now I want to hurt my ex so much. We were together 8 months then after a wonderful night of loving he stopped answering my calls then a week later he changed his FB status to in a relationship with another woman! I was so hurt as he never told me he didn't want me. While we were together he told me how he had slept with his friends wife a few years ago. This friend is mutual to us both and I wanted to tell him so badly but who would I be hurting? Only the friend. My ex will get his but not from me...I'm getting stringer every day and intend to move forward and find true love. My ex is not worth my energy. Good luck to all you will find peace And love eventually but u have to take it one Step at a time.

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      Leetowan 6 years ago

      To Jem90

      I remember feeling exactly that way. The first news I found out the truth. Revenge was on my plan. I was in rage and in anger. For all the lies created to cover their faults. I want to hurt him so bad. I actually did A revenge. But feeling guilty at the end, sriously. Cause there were others who are connected to this. Then my head wants to find peace and silence. But its hard. All i could say. MOVE ON! don't do what I did. Move on and live well. FIND a better person. Get out of town. Do something that your always wanting to do. Ever since your small or what not. Just do it. clear your mind, breath deep and inhale with all that anger. Scream if you have too. It's a good step. Listen to some motivating music to start with. Swim if you like, run across the forest if you can. Get a pet or start a hobbie that you always want to try. it's not worth the energy to spend on someone like that. Believe me, you will be better than that person. Good luck


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      Jem90 6 years ago

      My girlfriend cheated on me after 6 years. We were about to live together, spoke about having a child, and decided to move to live in Paris. Suddenly, she broke up per msn and skype, she insulted and humiliated me, making advantage of some problems I had. My grandma died, I was ill and had yet a lot of things to do for the university since I was about to hand in my MA. thesis. I found out only some days later she had another guy, and that they were flirting even when she broke up with me per msn. She just replaced me, as if I were an object. Within the space of a week we, who used to talk every day for 6 years, ceased every contact. It's incredible! Two days before the mess she told me I would be the perfect man, two days after she told she had never been happy with me, that I would be "a fairly good person" and even ceased to greet me! I did a great deal for her, always helped her, whenever she had a problem I was there to help her, and after a couple of days after the mess she dealt with me as if I were a hostile stranger. I even knew all the family, but nothing had importance, she simply massacred me and continued with another guy. Now you say me the best revenge would be to live well? After a year I live better, yes, but I want revenge, I want to know they suffer for what they did to me, all I asked was the truth, I’ve always been honest I just wanted the truth and that she told me whatever didn’t work between us for her. And they poke fun on me. How can I get my revenge?

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      leetowan 6 years ago

      to scorned for life,

      I know 3 years is one freaking painful and an a scar to live with for life. I learn this on a long long long way. We need these scars to make us a better person. To love more, to travel more, go beyond on many places you never been before. And that my friend is revenge. You become a better person where many faces will love you for who you are. You will pass a wise advise to someone who will need it. The kindness you will provide will kill the negativity in your mind and those who wants to make you mad. I'm always love people where ever i go. Then I met Bob for 4 in a very hard relationship i was nothing but hate and sadness EVERYDAY. When he broke those promises. I felt so relieve that i can go away from him. Because he is a person who does not appreciate kindness and compassion. whether one believes in a religion or not, and whether one believes in rebirth or not, there isn't anyone who doesn't appreciates kindness and compassion. Start taking care of you. Start believing of love again. So the sadness wont hurt you anymore.

      -Love leetowan

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      scorned for life 6 years ago

      I was with a guy for 3 years and it turns out he lied about his last name his age and many more things he really hurt me and mistreated me that it led me to the point in trying to commit suicide he did not evben come to the hospital to see me he decided to take the easy way out and changed his cell number and I never saw him again it has been 7 months now and I am still bitter and hurt and I wish him ill will because he deserves to suffer 100 times more then I suffered :(

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      Leetowan 6 years ago

      I just broked up my ex boyfriend who is a surfer who lies to me ever since we met. It turns out Bob and his old friend since 11 were suppose to be like brothers and sisters. The friend got married and had two boys. Then an affair started somewhere or maybe before the marriage. That was 7 years ago. Two years ago March of 2009, I saw his cell phone of videos of him and the wife having sex. SO MUCH VIDEOS. I confronted him and he promise in his heart and swears on his father's grave that he wont lie or cheat. It was only mutual sex. He also said if I told the husband which is my friend, i will ruin the two boys life. ANd it will be my fault. I was soo naïve and beleive it. Two years was tough and I thought I was going crazy. Some weird coincidence during two years. Then last year November 2011, the husband contacted me. He was wondering why we lost contact each other? Thought were friends. I told him sorry I'm not suppose to talk to you. Then he told me something that only me and BOb knows. A secret in my childhood past that scar me for life. My boyfriend promise that he wont tell. But he told the woman he was having an affair ( Kris ). And they both use that to the husband to cover their secret affair. They did that to me about the husband's mom killed herself, to cover form other people the husband who he talked to, cause he has suspicion about the two best friends. It was an awful awful experience with someone like that. It turns out that Bob broke two promise. One keep my childhood secret, two he promise wont cheat again. Last time i heard, the husband caught him jumping out the husband and Kris's bedroom window after the husband came back from he kid's karate class. I'm glad I left him and his drama world. By the way, i did a small revenge, me and the husband date together for fun. After that we stop dating. He was so better lover than Bob. :)

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      Heff 6 years ago

      I believe in revenge as long as it doesn't physically harm someone. Too many married men are cheating on their wives and getting away with it. Mental games and mild property damage can go a long way...I believe in hurting a man financially. That's the best payback.

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      Angie 6 years ago

      Hello - I also recently made a sizeable order from you Dr.Gboco. and was very pleased with the results of the items I used. As a matter of fact the spell worked so well they were the key factor in getting me healthy again. I saw through using them that the relationship wasn't healthy for me at all. The break-up was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. I've gained strength and peace because of the spell you cast on me Dr.( Thank you so much. And the spell kit to keep my ex-partner's mother from moving in and harming the emotional health of our 7-year-old worked great, too! Thanks again.

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      100ktrainer 6 years ago from Michigan

      If your man cheats on you, the best revenge is to let her have him...

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      Paul B 6 years ago

      Ive had two 4 yr relationships that have ended the same way .. ie .. a name change of a work colleague on a phone disguised as a called 'male friends' ... in both cases i was cheated on and found out about it .. the hurt is teriffic and i have thought of revenge .. i have naked pics of my ex's but i don't think id be proud of myself to use them ! .. i want to believe in what goes around comes around but im a bit impatient .. i want her to pay for the heartache,pain she has caused ...but ive done nothing yet ..only living and hoping things turn around quickly.

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      GMcH 6 years ago

      my (ex)wife cheated, multiple times, during our marriage, she was so proud of her self, she made sure there were digital pictures. Too bad she was stupid enough to assume that her last soul-mate (married too) wasn't so sloppy and left enough evidence that his wife found said pictures. I believe that the least offensive one is posted on cheaterville dot com. No revenge here, I just got to sit back and watch the drama, but with much disinterest. She's a f*cked up life time looser. Good riddance

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      Jenna 6 years ago

      I sincerely hope no guy ever cheats on me. For his sake. My father was a serial cheater so I became very very angry over the whole cheating thing. I look at someone who cheats the same way I look at a pedophile. Total and complete disgust. It sounds totally psycho but I tell every gy i'm with that I will kill them if they cheat. If they want to be with someone else they can just break up with meOtherwise they will die. PERIOD!!

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      Anna 6 years ago

      My sweet, loving boyfriend has been sleeping with his ex for the past year of our relationship. She's one of my bosses. I hate going to work. Since I found out las week he has changed into a monster I don't even know. He blames me for his cheating. I wish I could get great revenge but I'm too broken right now to come up with a good plan.

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      Anna 6 years ago

      My sweet, loving boyfriend has been sleeping with his ex for the past year of our relationship. She's one of my bosses. I hate going to work. Since I found out las week he has changed into a monster I don't even know. He blames me for his cheating. I wish I could get great revenge but I'm too broken right now to come up with a good plan.

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      lucy 6 years ago

      i have had something similar happen to me but it was to a friend of mine who had been in a relationship with a married man and they even took a holiday together to visit me but she didn't find out until a few months into their relationship she found out about it through his phone where there was a message from his wife saying "i miss you xxxx" however she got her revenge by calling his wife about it from his phone and told her all about the affair and how sorry she was about everything.

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      Rich 6 years ago

      My wife of 11 months started cheating with a co-worker( a real ugly dude) on me at the 6 month mark. She stole money and was still in love with her ex. So I ask myself do I want revenge? After a long time plotting my revenge by exposing her. I decided that I didn't want revenge at all. I actually felt bad that she was so corrupted and she would have to live the rest of her life knowing how much of a dirty, cheating, lying, stealing bit$h she really is. One day I may thank her boyfriend for taking her off my hands and giving me a chance to find my real wife. Plus I'm no brad Pitt but I was too good-looking for her anyway and just a couple nights ago she saw me on a date with a girl iv been seeing for a while now and this girl is way Hotter... Lol... Sweet satisfaction.

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      under chock 6 years ago

      my husband who is 20 years old than me cheated on me with a woman older than him ,on her menopause phase,lololol i can`t believe ....she was a friend of his older sister .she is married,living far away but sending him emails and photos of love ,flowers,and bears hahaha seriously this is funny husband ignored her in the beginning then couldn`t resist her .all he did is answering her mails .no sex physically but i feel so angry.he couldn`t deny because i showed him all the emails but he cried and ask forgiveness.honestly i can`t forgive him i`m just under shock......i have her home and cell phone but i feel stupid fighting with an old woman for a man even if he is my husband.she is old i`m very young i can easily get better hhhhhhhh

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      Lyveren 6 years ago

      My husband cheated on me...

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      ilovedalooser 6 years ago

      hello All,

      I truly loved someone, he had fun with me and dumped me saying his parents wont agree. I broke my relationship with friends and family for him and he s marring a girl whom his parents are searching for... so totally a looser... If you were me i am sure u would want a revange.

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      Hmmm 6 years ago

      My ex lied, cheated and stole from me. He lied so many times and slept with two other women. Well the ding dong gave me all his passwords so I went to town on his Facebook. I was so upset and basically I was destroying any reconciliation. The whole thing- what he did and my revenge created just ugliness and it's finally over. I regret seeking revenge but it did help me get away from him. He was bad ...

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      skey 6 years ago

      2 days ago i found my boyfriend in bed wit a prostitute.i got so hurt that i freaked out n couldn't react.right now ia confused i wanna revenge and he got to pay for all he has done.i dnt care how but i got to do something hel live to remember

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      karen in MD 6 years ago

      my husband of 25+ years cheated on me. lied to the faces of me, our children, my sister, etc... he is shacked up with the CSGS that he cheated on me with. she is an anger therapist but advised him to end his marriage. is she a licensed psychologist?? the betrayal and lack of respect has hurt me and the kids to the core. please tell me he will get what is coming to him. he has destroyed our family. i don't know if the kids will ever talk to him again. we are all on rx meds becuase of this and he is happily scr#$ing his brains out with this Wh$re. i think the betrayal and lying is what hurts the most. give me a web site where i can expose their names.

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      Georgia 6 years ago

      Haha, well, I think this page is bril! I love these ideas, cuz my best friend was just scammed by a boy who was already with someone else, so we aren't gonna let it go. Say what you will, but to be old and wise and make the chioce to move on and be the bigger person, you first have to be young and stupid and do the complete opposite!!!!! :)))) Thanks again for the suggestions. ;)

      Pretty sure we're doing the Number 2 on Facebook

      Wink wink

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      Jon Doe 7 years ago

      PS: I really need to proof read my posts before I post them up.

      *cheating on me, (not) "Cheating for me" lol

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      Jon Doe 7 years ago

      I just found out that my wife has been cheating for me. I thought she was a good Christian and never thought that this could happen to me. She betrayed me and Gods covenant of marriage. Even though she was the one who made the choice, I feel it is best to not get revenge. Let God take care of that. I still love her and miss her, but I must move on with my life. I am now in the middle of getting the divorce papers. My heart goes out to anyone, male or female who has had their heart broken by their spouse from cheating. This world is a sinful world. don't add to it by getting revenge, just move on and who knows maybe we will find someone better and find love again.

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      Jane 7 years ago

      Really depress..i Found it out again that my bf whom i eventually loved lied and cheated me again..not just happen 3X but so many times, He even texted my bestfriend and flirted her and then again i found it out she was in dating site again...Can you give me advice how to get revenge on him?

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      Jean 7 years ago

      I guess it's nice to know that you aren't the only one in this situation, but that really doesn't lessen the hurt. I am torn between stopping him from doing it to someone else, or just trying to let go and get on with my life. I was divorced 5 years ago from a man who chose to have sex with his students (college professor), after 18 years of marriage. Two years later, I started dating the "perfect" guy who told me he had just separated from his wife, who had been cheating on him, and was pursuing divorce. 3 years later, I find that was all a lie, he was still married, his wife never cheated on him, and knew nothing about us. This happened one month after he proposed and we set a date. I should have been wary after he met my whole family, but always found a reason why I couldn't yet meet his. We live in different states, so he probably could have gone through the marriage and who knows? I may haven't found out for years. I want to rip his heart out and feed it to my dog, but that is too good for him.

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      bonfiredancer 7 years ago

      If someone cheats on me they deserve to be exposed! I absolutely believe in "harmless revenge" -- it does not make you psycho! Too many men get away with extremely poor, criminal behavior because we just turn a blind eye and *hope* Karma is served. Well, guess what - I am part of that Karma! I will post fliers, post on their FB what they did (if possible), make an entry on site like and, contact the women they were cheating with and call them out. I deserver to be heard! Cheating is wrong in SO many ways and our society tolerates it TOO much!!

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      miss m 7 years ago

      i too av gne threw this 7 yrs and 2 kids my ex cheated on me and hurt me so bad, i thought it was all my fault it just turns out its him, he now has 2 kids wiv the other girl and cheating on her they av bin togeva 4 2 yrs and they are avin problems she feels insecure and thinks hes sleepin wiv me haha wot goes rownd cums rownd and im gettin my life on track wiv my beautiful kids that he really dunt bova wiv but im happy free and single and love it that way xx chin up life will get better x

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      niceguy 7 years ago

      I know they say what comes around goes around, but my ex wife seems to manipulitive for that. I should just move on and be happy, which I am, but still would like to see something happen to her since I had to start all over again.

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      Beautiful24 7 years ago

      Well I found this thread by chance and I must say it made me wake up,I have been with this guy for 7 months now and just about two weeks ago I found out that he had lied to me saying he was going to see his mom in georgia for xmas,found out he was in virginia with this other woman,whom he has been seeing for 10 months,I also found out that wasn't the first time he had been to see her since we got together,he denied it of course and I stayed and wanted to work things out!!!! Then for new years he said he was going to see his family in nj,just found out today that he was somewhere else with two other girls,he denies that but I have proof,So in all,the past two weeks I have found out about 4 other women,one who possibly might be pregnant,none of them he used condoms with,and has also been trying to get me pregnant!!! I don't know what to do next!!! Any advice????

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      kallini2010 7 years ago from Toronto, Canada

      There is a Russian saying "if your bride leaves you for another man, it is not clear who is the lucky one." Meaning actually that it is you (the groom) who is lucky. Better sooner than later. Goes both ways. If a cheater leaves you, ask yourself, is this such a bad thing?

      I know it hurts. Like hell. Rejection hurts. Lies hurt, when you are being lied to, the other person does not respect you. At all. But in every situation, there are two sides. That means you chose to be blind.

      Revenge? My ex-husband? He was not a cheater, I broke the marriage, but when I saw how soon he replaced me, I was so hurt! Because I was told for so many years that he loved me so much and I believed him.

      But! I did not sell the jewelery. Quite the opposite. I returned my wedding ring to him on our wedding anniversary, February 6th, 2005, and we only divorced in December 2009. Now I wear the wedding ring, and the other jewelery he bought me. Why? I don't know. I find it amusing. It is my history, it is part of me. Besides, nobody gets it - we wear our wedding rings on the right hand.

      The revenge? I am afraid, that it is his new wife who has to suffer, but she makes her own choices. He? He remarried way too soon, and the probability of his second marriage working is next to nothing. He did not let the dust settle, he did not think what went wrong. He is going to repeat the same mistakes. It is going to be a rerun. But I still hope that it won't, I want him to be happy, because my son is involved, he does not need another family disaster.

      Boyfriends? Oh, boy! Men are men, women are women. Both cheat, both lie, it is my responsibility to learn to be more selective and learn how to tell the good from the bad. But if cheating happens, it happens, just leave. Maybe with a little bit of sting. I am writing my "Armando Story" - about a guy who is a player and a serial dater. I met one of his former girlfriends and I am grateful for the whole thing, the story, the lesson and the consequences. It is only life. Live, learn, move on.

      All the best to everyone,

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      HI MY NAMES REVENGE 8 years ago

      my ex-boyfriend dumped me for no reason he told his friend to tell me i got dumped so what do i do now plus it seems like he was trying to get to my best friends cause when my best friends go in side i try to talk to him i say hey he walks in side plus people says hes using me for my kisses and he said at a buliding when me and my best friends are he said''iwill be right back'' i see him with my cousin(boy) up the road he should say that to my FACE that he going to dump me! LETS GET REVENGE!XD!!!

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      sativa 8 years ago

      my boyfriend goes on myspace and flirts with girls. his friend list is all female. and he sees nothing wrong with this. even though i have told him it hurts me. what should i do?

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      tryone 8 years ago

      By moving on. Or get his engine hot and cool him down with water.

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      Little_miss_sunshine 8 years ago

      I know how you all feel coz i have been there to.

      i was completely in love with this boy and he broke my heart. everyone says high school relationships don't work but i really thought it was going to with him. he was sweet and understanding. only now do i realise what a complete manipulating arsehole he was.

      he told me he loved me... and then cheated on me

      he said he would always tell me the truth.. and lied

      he told me he was clean and against drugs... he was using weed

      he said forever and always... and broke my heart

      i agree with what comes around goes around but there is nothing more i would love than to get some revenge on him.

      he has a new girlfriend now and i feel so sorry for her and what she has coming :( i would love to tell her what he is like but i don't want to ruin their relationship.. but i can tell you now if he ever even dares cheat on her he is going to have my fist in his face.

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      Fifi333 8 years ago

      I just found out that after a 6months relationship with a guy at work, that he was cheating on me with 2 other women. I trusted him so much and I believed all his lies, bit when I agreed to meet the other woman so I can really find put the truth, what does he do when he sees me, bother other than run me down in his car. Revenge isent on my mind but getting justice is. Some people can just turn out to be nothing like what u ever thought they were. Yes I did love h and he even proposed but trust me people, once a cheater always a cheater. All I know is my life will go on but he will end up a very sad lonly man in the end.

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      sunshine_girl 8 years ago

      I was totally played by the guy I fell in love with. Unbeknown to me he had a girlfriend. I ended up finding out over the internet and chatted with her a bit. At the time I wasn't completely honest with her as I didn't want to hurt her feelings but I was so crushed. He of course has denied everything and then dumped me completely. From being in contact with him nearly every hour of the day to dead silence. Well I'm not going to let him off that easy. My revenge is to write a letter to his girlfriend and be totally honest with her about what was going on between Jerame and I. Well she has the right to know doesn't she? He is a sneaky lying bastard and to top it off he had told me he wants to be with me but as he cant support himself at the moment he has to stay with her...when he is better organised then we can be together. Can you beleive that? This guy deserves what's coming to him...

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      lamps33 8 years ago from Southern California

      Thanks everyone for the feedback. Even though it's a tough thing to go through, it helps to know there are others out there who can relate. I agree that living well is the best's the path I ultimately chose to take, but after seriously considering some revenge tactics! :)

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      Robert Storm 8 years ago

      Im in the Army... my wife cheated on me with 4 men while i was deployed to the middle east. she lied to me the entire time i was gone and i didn't find out the actual truth till i got home and one of her female friends told me. She was hurt that she betrayed my wife's friendship but felt it was the right thing to do. Sadly she was living with the last guy and in a "serious" relationship with him. The guy knew we were married and just didn't care. Why anyone would want to be with a women who is capable of such things is beyond me. That was the hardest thing i have ever gone through in my life. harder then losing friends in action... women are the devil! lol

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      Corrina 8 years ago

      Omg...! I ended my realationship 2 days ago and I am still in shock we were gonna merry and do it all, well deep down in my heart I always knew he wasn't right or completely honest, so I shoulnt really be that surprice but what can I say as much as I felt in my heart it was bound to happen still was not what I wanted well this is the sad part about it he called me to my office early in the morning we were sopouse to spend the weekend together but yeah ok well he call my boss is standing right next to me ant he had the nerve to tell me that he did something that will break us apart, I stopped him before he said anything I told him it's not the time and place , I asked him not to say it , just to end it and asked to never call me back I knew he had cheated I just didn't want to hear about it so I said my quick goodbyes and clicked that scumb bag call back and just screamed it his words were I didn't go home alone and I called him out and told how selfish and selfsenor he is he had ruin a great day I just can't get over the fact why when I ask not to say it just to end it he will really want to rubb it in my face db him I was honest loving and caring with him am just confuse... Plz help with some good feed back!!!

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      sk 8 years ago

      I had the same experience and broke up with the liar 2 months back. Still in recovery stage. The worst part is that I have to work with him and see him everyday...showing how happy he is with the girl that he cheated me with. He is telling everyone that he is happily in love and never felt like this before and plan to get marry next year... what an inconsiderate jerk..

      All my friends told me 'what comes around, goes around' and the time will come..and I hope it comes soon cos i am not the 1st victim that he cheated on..

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      Ralph Braddock 9 years ago

      I think this could be dangerous advice to some, haha. I broke up with a girl a little while back who would do something like that even though I was as supportive and helpful as I possibly could be throughout the whole process. She probably wouldn't even stop at exaggeration either, she'd make something up..

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      AndyBaker 9 years ago from UK

      Evolve beyond revenge :)

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      francina 9 years ago

      Yes, I guess the best revenge is keeping my baby and live well...

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      LondonGirl 9 years ago from London

      The best revenge is living well.

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      dee 9 years ago

      I agree with you Trish1048, what goes around will come back around again!!! I also have been very hurt by my ex boyfriend he is older. He was just a totally liar!!JERK. We were living together for 1 year he had lied to me about so many things and he thought I wouldn't find out, BUT I found out all about his dirty lies and secrets. He have scammed so many women and even his own family. A part of me wanted to get revenge but deep down inside some thing tells me he will be very sorry in the longer run! I am so happy for you! wish you all the best!!!!

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      trish1048 10 years ago


      While the above are some ways to 'get even',,,the best is doing nothing. There is much truth to 'what comes around, goes around' (or vice-versa).

      I once had a 'best friend' in high school. I was dating a guy a bit older than me, and we had a date around the holidays. So, he picked me up, and after about an hour, was heading back to my house. I asked, what are you doing? his reply, 'I'm not fit company today'. Sooooo he dumps me off, leaves. I am so upset I hop in my car and drive to my 'best friend's' house. As I pull up, what do I see but MY boyfriend escorting her out to his car along with her parents! They did end up marrying.

      I eventually got over it, and after I had been married for a number years, ran into my old 'best friend'. I said hi, how are you and Bob doing? She replied, oh, we're divorced. In my head I was saying 'it serves you right'. She inquired about me, and I gleefully told her I was happily married with two children. You couldn't have wiped the smile from my face, I was glowing the rest of the day :)

      Happy hubbing!


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