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How Your Spouse is Getting Away With Cheating!
"The Talk" discusses catching cheating spouses & text messages...
How Your Spouse is Covering Their Tracks!
Cheating spouses have been in the news a lot recently. Cheating celebrities like Tiger Woods, Jesse James, and Tony Park have made headlines with news of their infidelities, and the stories of how they were caught. Incriminating text messages and emails have been the downfall of many men who were caught with their "pants down", so to speak.
But what about those spouses that cheat, and don't get caught? There are many of them out there! It's not just because their spouse isn't suspicious, or hasn't been searching for the proof either. You might think that snooping through emails, and reading your spouses text messages is covering your bases - after all, that was how Tiger and other celebrities have been caught. Unfortunately, it's getting harder to catch an unfaithful spouse, because they are getting help. If your cheating spouse is smart, they've learned the secret of covering their tracks, and it's bad news for you; there are some programs, websites, and cell phone applications out there that are helping them! Some of them are even using the downfall of cheating celebrities like Tony Park to promote their product.
So you want to find out how your cheating spouse is covering their tracks? Read on!
The BlackBerry App for Cheaters
"BlackBook" - Your Spouses Secret Contact List & Hidden Text Messages!
Did you know there are apps out there for cellphones that make cheating (and covering your tracks) easy? When I found out about this cell phone app, I guess I wasn't necessarily surprised that someone made it, but I was surprised that I had never heard of it. It's one of the top selling apps on Blackberry App World, and there is so much in the news recently about cheating spouses being caught by text messages, that I wonder why no one has ever mentioned, or seem to have gotten angry about this application that basically makes cheating easy to hide.
The application I am referring to is "BlackBook", a mobile application for BlackBerry and Android cell phones, that completely hides any incriminating evidence on a cellphone. and I mean COMPLETELY. This app boasts not only a completely hidden contact list, and a fake name/number display for incoming calls, the app actually hides all emails, text messages, and phone calls from contacts in that list. They will not show up in logs on the phone, they are only accessible by launching the application, and here is the kicker; the application DOES NOT SHOW UP on the phone! You can't even snoop through your spouses app list and find this shady program. It is only accessible when launched using a customizable keypad combination on the phone. You won't even know it is there, and there is no way to find out.
I guess the upside to this app is that your spouse doesn't have a Blackberry or Android phone, then you really don't have to worry about it - yet, at least. There is an iPhone app, called TigerText, that also boasts being able to cover your cheating tracks, but when I heard the app promoting itself like that, I kind of laughed. First of all, the person they are cheating with would have to have an iPhone, would also have to install the program on their phone, and it shows up on the application list...so if you were already snooping through your spouses phone for evidence, having a self-proclaimed "cheating" app show up would be evidence enough of something fishy! Someone would have to be stupid to use a visible program like that to cheat. It doesn't even use text messages, it's just basically a chat program that auto-deletes the chat. That said, some cheaters are stupid though, so if your suspicious of your spouse, and they have an iPhone, check for TigerText!
The View talks about Ashley Madison
The Website That Helps Him (or Her) Cheat Discreetly - AshleyMadison.com
You might have heard about Ashley Madison and their rejected Super Bowl commercial debacle (see video discussing it on "The View"). They call themselves "The World's Premier Discreet Dating Service". The catch? Ashley Madison is a dating service for MARRIED people. They actually boast that they have an "Ashley Madison Affair Guarantee"! They claim to have over 7 million (that's right - MILLION!) anonymous members - that is A LOT of cheaters!
Now, your spouse doesn't have to go out looking for an affair by picking up a girl/guy in a bar - where they could be seen by someone they know. They don't have to worry about starting an affair with a woman or man who doesn't know they are married, and worry about trying to hide the truth from both of you, so it doesn't blow up in their face. The women and men on this website know your spouse is married, and they don't care. In fact, they are looking for other married partners to cheat with.
Now, maybe you think checking your browser history is enough, or even logging keystrokes; they have to visit the website, right? You can see what they are doing on the computer! The people who run Ashley Madison thought about that, and once again it all comes down to the cell phone - they've created a cellphone app, so your spouse doesn't have to worry about incriminating evidence on the computer. They can access their account and contact, speak with, and arrange all their "discreet encounters" via their cell phone, without leaving that pesky trail on the computer for you to find.
This controversial website may be disgusting millions of people, but as already mentioned, it's also tempting millions of people too.
Last But Not Least: Computer Programs That Erase The Evidence!
There are various computer programs around that will sort through all the files on your computer, and allow you to get rid of anything that might be hanging around on your computer that you don't want - including incriminating evidence of extra-martial affairs!
There are many programs like this available; Winclear, Evidence Eraser, and Evidence Nuker are some well-known ones. These programs mean that no matter how much you search on your spouse's computer, anything suspicious can be completely disposed of, and quite easily. Your spouse can erase all evidence of emails, chats, web history, photos... anything that might get them caught!