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Have the Relationship You Want ebook My Personal Review

Updated on February 22, 2015

Have the Relationship You Want By Rori Raye

This is a review of Rori Raye's Have The Relationship You Want ebook. Is it good? Will it work? Will it tell me what I need to know? Is it a scam? Is it a waste of money?

These are some of the questions you may have about this book, and I will be answering these questions here.

Firstly this is not a typical dating advice / relationship advice e-book.... And that is why it caught and held my interest. Also 'Have the Relationship You Want' is not a scam. In fact it is a book, written by a lady called Rori Raye, which changed my life. Not just my dating life, but my WHOLE life and how I feel about myself. Of course it wasn't the book alone, there were other influences too that finally led me to make the changes to my personal life which led to a lot more fulfillment and happiness for me, and this book was the first cog in the wheel.

However it is NOT the book for everyone. It just so happens it was the book for me. So in this lens I intend to provide an overview, including all the pros and cons, and give you the information you need to decide whether it is the book for you.


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The Lowdown on the Book

In my opinion this book contains LIFE CHANGING information. It literally turns a lot of what we 'think' we know about relationships on it's head. It will challenge your views and your approach to romance and relationships and get you to look a little deeper at what is really holding you back.

This is also precisely the reason that I say the book is not for everyone. It is likely to bring up resistance in many people. Resistance to the ideas, approaches and tools, and for some people they will simply be unable, or unwilling to get past these.

However the reason I love this book, is because the advice ACTUALLY WORKS, if you can be open to trying out the new ideas and techniques.

The book is aimed at women and is written from the perspective of a woman who wants a relationship with a man (or wants to improve a relationship with a man she is already with). There is a focus on masculine and feminine roles within a relationship, no not who does the washing up, :-) but who is the feminine receiving/feeling partner, and who is the masculine, action oriented, giving partner. It also explains why things can get messed up when we women take over the masculine role and emasculate our men, and so you effectively end up with two men in the relationship. This can really upset the balance.

There is also a lot of deeper work focused on our 'emotions' so if you do not like this kind of thing this book may not be for you. However if you are willing to explore this and work on this deeper level the benefits are truly amazing.

Some of the tools shared are like magic, you will see results straight away in your relationship if you put them into practice.

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This book is also good for single ladies who are looking for love!

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A Little Success Story Using 'Have The Relationship You Want'

Yes My Little Success Story

My relationship history is pretty horrible. I went from dead end relationship to dead end relationship, feeling bad, staying too long and letting people treat me poorly. I chose men who were unwilling or unable to commit and I liked 'badboys'. Nice men made me feel bored, that was the mindset I had. But I was miserable. And tired. And sick of being struggling with men who either didn't really care about me or who were so caught up in their own issues they were impossible to have a relationship with.

Initially I blamed the men. And then I blamed me. In truth in was probably a mixture of the two.

But then I did something different. I got proactive. Now don't get me wrong. I had been 'trying' and 'doing' for ages, and getting nowhere, and it's just that I had been trying and doing the wrong things. My energy and efforts were misplaced. I needed a guide, some good advice.

So I started reading. Every dating book and article I could get my hands on. Some were OK, some were utter drivel. Some had helpful suggestions, but NOTHING really stuck or made any deep or lasing changes to my love life until I found 'Have the Relationship You Want'. And then EVERYTHING changed.

This was about two years ago. I started trying out Rori's tools and saw changes in the way men were with me straight away. Then I started dating in earnest. Using the suggestions in the book I was able to approach dating in a whole different way that actually made it fun, and I didn't get burnt out. I learned so much. But the biggest change was in myself and how I learned to handle my emotions. I became stronger inside.

Eventually I met my partner at work. He had to chase after me to get my attention, as there were several men after me at that point, however he was consistent and treated me like a Princess. He is a good man and he made me feel so good. We have been together for a year now. It is the happiest and most supportive relationship I have ever been in and I have much more fun than I ever did with any of those 'badboys'!. The other day he asked me to marry him.

So that is my little (well HUGE for me) success story that I wanted to share.

To read my full story and get more advice from me visit my website here:

The Pros of This E Book

Have The Relationship You Want Has:

> LIFE CHANGING information (the biggest benefit of all in my opinion)

> Loads of practical tools that you can use straight away to improve your relationship.

> Enjoyable to read.

> Totally new and different way of relating the dramatically improves your relationship with your man. It's nothing like what we are usually advised to do or what our friends think we should do.

> You will finally be able to have boundaries and feel strong without coming across brash or hard.

> You will start to realize that you have options and you will start to feel empowered.

> Access to a support forum of women that use Rori's products where you can get unlimited advice and support and ask questions (this is a biggie too in my opinion).

The Cons of This Book E Book

> It can be a little bit long winded in places.

> It contains unconventional methods, which may go against what we have been programmed to believe about love. You have to be willing to be open and possible to rethink your approach.

> It takes you out of your comfort zone.

> It is written for women looking for a man and so is unlikely to be helpful for men looking for a woman. It may or may not be useful to a lesbian person, depending on whether you like to take a masculine or feminine role in a relationship, and the likely doesn't mean what you think it means, as what we think of as masculine and feminine roles/energy can be a bit skewed. The book goes into details.


So What Is The Final Conclusion About Rori Raye's 'Have The Relationship You Want'?

Only YOU can decide whether you think this book is for you and you would like to give it a try.

All I can tell you is my experience of it. What I would add is that when I first came across this book I had reservations. I was unsure if it was for me or if it would work.

I had tried other dating books, courses and products with SOME degree of success sometimes, but nothing that really worked long term, until this book. The things 'Have The Relationship You Want' has that other books don't is that it helps you to make DEEPER changes that stick for life.

If you have tried other methods and nothing has worked.

If you are fed up and are really open to trying something new now that will actually work.

If you finally want to make some real and lasting changes then my advice is to GO FOR IT.

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Have The Relationship You Want Success Story!

I am Engaged!

Update March 2013 -

So he proposed to me and I now have the ring. It is a little different from most engagement rings because I wanted something ethical so diamonds were out! And it is exactly what I wanted - made from welsh silver and gold and so pretty.

I feel really, really happy.

No date set yet, this will be money allowing, and yet I can feel his commitment to me and the relationship and it feels good


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    • PenguinGirl111 profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago

      @Margot_C: Hello Margot_c.

      Yes for sure different things for different people. And I know many, many women who have found great success through Rori's teachings, where other dating gurus fell short. For me no-one else compares and nothing works like Rori's tools.

      Also I think it is often *us* who have to change within ourselves, rather than looking to a man to change it all for us. The shift happens within yourself first.

      I don't believe in 'the one', I believe there are many possible 'the ones' and it is our job to pick someone who we feel great with...

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      7 years ago

      I think if it works for you, great. We are all different and you should never knock something until you've tried it. And sometimes, even if you've tried similar avenues in the past, you never know if the next one will be THE one to change it all.

    • PenguinGirl111 profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago

      @Girlwiththorns: Ah I will check him out.

      Thanks and glad you like the lens.

    • Girlwiththorns profile image


      7 years ago

      Reminds me of David Deida's work, very similar philosophy. I think you would dig it. Great lens :)

    • PenguinGirl111 profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago

      @Timsmansmall: Thank you Timsmansmall.

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      7 years ago

      Nice book review.

    • PenguinGirl111 profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago

      @bsalas lm: Hello. Yes it is a good book. Certainly worked for me and has also helped a lot of other women find happiness too.


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      bsalas lm 

      7 years ago

      Congratulations on finding something that worked for you. It sounds like a good book.

    • PenguinGirl111 profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago

      @Elsie Hagley: Hi Kiwinana71.

      Thanks for stopping by and yes, I know lots of people who would benefit too! Although it's not so easy to get them to consider it. So I thought I would just write it down, then people can decide for themselves.

      And thanks so much for the blessing! :-)


    • Elsie Hagley profile image

      Elsie Hagley 

      7 years ago from New Zealand

      Interesting subject, there are a lot of people. I know that this would be a great book to read. Thanks for sharing.

    • PenguinGirl111 profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago

      @Digory LM: Thank you Digory :-)

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      Digory LM 

      7 years ago

      Nice lens on having the relationship you want. You did a great job.

    • PenguinGirl111 profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago

      @kerbev: Hi Kab. Thanks for the positive feedback. OK re the bold. I tried the Big Arrow link and the trouble is the affiliate link (html code) is too long and so it makes it look funny. I feel unsure what to do.

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      Kerri Bee 

      7 years ago from Upstate, NY

      Nice lens. I see you tried to bold a module title - Click Here To Find Out More About Have The Relationship You Want. You can't use html in a module title. You might want to try the Big Arrow Link Module. I think it would be perfect for what you want.


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