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He hasn't called?! Relax, I'll tell you why.
Hello there, so, he hasn't called huh? what a Son of a Beach!, I bet that's what you are thinking?, or you might be sad and confused and wondering what did i do wrong?.
I'll tell you what's going on if you are dating or in a relationship with Him
If you are dating Him: you were having a good time, being yourself, he said he liked you, kissed you, everything was perfect, he said he'll call you... but didn't...
Mmm...you might think maybe he lost your phone number, lost his phone, someone died, really busy?
No one is that busy, i mean think about it... not even a text? hmm, nope.
You know what's possible?
That He might be doing the 3 day or one week rule guys have! (pretty childish if you ask me) but is true, guys do this!
They have this rule to see what type of girl you are! yes he is testing you, he wants to see if you are the desperate, needy or the type he wants! "the independent one".
You want him to call back?
Be that Independent woman he wants, he likes you!, now he just wants to see if you are THAT girl.
But how? Show him you have a live, that you are not thinking about him everyday, every hour!, you are busy too, show him you are not desperate, and you'll see with your own eyes the magic happen.
If he really likes you, I promise you he will call in a couple of days or a week!
Now if he doesn't call you in a week and you still interested, send him a friendly, cool, funny text, like " I just wanted to make sure you still alive"...
If you are in a relationship with him:
And got into a fight? take your time and think... who's fault it was? if it was yours, is time to say "I'm sorry babe"
If it was his, give him time and he'll come around, If he doesn't tell him what you feel, do this one time! and wait.
If he just stopped contacting you out of the blue...
try to contact him, once!, if he doesn't answer, give him time and space, don't call or text more than one time a day or better yet wait a couple of days and call or text once!
Give him space to think and miss you, sometimes guys need that.
Trust me... "been there done that".
if you have any questions let me know and be very specific to help you out better. Relax and live your life, go out with girls and have fun, and when least expected, he"ll call!.