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How to Attract Women Without Blowing It

Updated on December 10, 2012

Attracting Women Does Not Have to Be So Hard

So many guys find that once they get out into the real world and are off into adulthood, attracting women is not as easy as it used to be. Of course, there are also those men who NEVER found it easy to attract women. For them, dating has ALWAYS been a struggle. The thing is, it does not have to be. There is no steadfast rule that says that it has to be hard to learn how to attract a woman you like. In fact, it can actually be kind of easy AND fun if you know what you are doing.

Just remember, if it seems terribly difficult and you feel like you are not having fun, you are doing it wrong. Once you make a few changes, you just might find that it suddenly stops being hard and does get easier. And that is what you really want for yourself, right?

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3 Easy Female Attraction Tips

Make It Simple On Yourself

While it is good to learn as much about female psychology as you can, you certainly do not have to rise to the level of an expert to have some fun and success attracting women. Just learning the basics about what women tend to be attracted to can be enough to make some drastic changes in the results that you get from the opposite sex. Yeah, you may still strike out once in a while, but at least you will be confident in being optimistic that the next one might work out.

These 3 female attraction tips can make it EASY for you to attract women:

1) Most women are attracted to men who do not appear to have the need for their approval.

A sure fire way to lose a woman's interest really quickly is to make her feel like you just have to have her approval. She might like a little bit of that kind of thing, but too much is just that. Too much. If you want to get women attracted to you, then you have to make it certain to her that you are not another guy with no self esteem that needs her constant approval and validation.

2) You will attract more women to pay attention to you IF you are able to start conversations cold.

It's kind of rare for a guy to be able to start conversations cold and not come off like just another wannabe pick up artist. So, if you can do this, then you will have a much easier time getting attention from women. And of course, it is the attention that you seek. Get used to making cold approaches and starting conversations that last. It helps a LOT.

3) Gear up as best you can.

By gearing up, I mean that you need to do your best to look your best. You don't have to wear Gucci or Armani, but you do want to look as if you know how to shower and shave. Although some women certainly do like the rugged look, if you want to go out to a club or a bar, you will usually do much better if you clean up and look the best that you can.

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Learn From Rejection

It Sucks, But It Can Help

Most guys hate the idea of rejection from a woman, but I want to suggest that you begin to like it to some extent. Why? Because it is only feedback and every rejection is a chance that you have to learn something more, to grow more, and to get used to approaching women without any guarantees of success. The more women you approach, the more you will date, and the more likely it is that you will eventually find the one that you have been searching for.

The funny thing is, it is the guy who doesn't mind getting rejected all of the time in the beginning that winds up getting to a point where he gets described as being a natural with women. It's not the guys that shy away from rejection that end up like that. Don't be afraid to bite the bullet and walk on over to that woman you have had your eye on. You never know what might happen. Of course, if you don't approach her at all - you already know what will happen - Nothing.

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