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How to Play Hard to Get with a Guy you’ve Already Slept with

Updated on April 12, 2013

You need to avoid sleeping with a guy on the first day out until you have known and understood each other well. But most ladies find themselves having going to bed with guys on the first day out. Men, being known as natural hunters, are the ones who always make the first move but due to the ladies being afraid of losing them, they give in to their sexual advances.

But even if you have already given in, you can still play hard and get the guys chasing you all the time. But what are some of the tips which can assist you know how to play hard to get with a guy you've already slept with?

The first tip on how to play hard to get with a guy you've already slept with is to never lose hope with your relationship. Simply because you went to bed with him on the first day does not mean that your relationship will fail. Give yourself time and stop putting him under pressure because this can make him to feel that he has a responsibility towards you.

If he does not call you after sleeping with him, you can ignore him for about one to two weeks before sending him a short text message. Always stay cool and don't try to accuse him for what happened or for not calling you. This is the time you need to remain confident and face the world. What happened should never make you lose your self-esteem.

Another tip on how to play hard to get with a guy you've already slept with is to stop being available and not to cling too much. Going out and telling friends what happened or how much you love him may make the guy embarrassed hence leading to rejection. You need to forget what happened and move on because it may make him lose respect for you and think that you are too easy. You need to stop being available and even switch off your phone. You may be missing him and feel the urge of calling him but don't do it.

Instead of showing that you love him, keep him wondering if you truly do love him. Always be in a company of other guys so that you he can know that sleeping with him alone does not make you his. This will make him to do as much as possible to ensure that he gets you. It will also make him want you more than you want him hence keep on chasing you.

If his interest in you gets strong, show him your interest so that you can encourage him but don't go to bed with him. This will make him see that he still has a chance hence continue chasing you. It will also give him hope of winning your heart in future. You need time to understand each other well before you sleep with him again. By following these tips on how to play hard to get with a guy you've already slept with will make him know that you were not that easy and fast.


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    • Lizam1 profile image


      5 years ago from Scotland

      Any one who sleeps with a man on a first date to please him is doing a diservice to herself. No one should ever feel pressured to say yes. Say no until you are ready.


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