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When I Met You, I Found Love!
Thinking back to when I first met you there I was, an empty piece of a shell wondering around in my own world. Searching for a brand-new beginning as I was afraid of love as everyone knows it. As my soul-shake to be pull from behind a thick brick wall, but you took my hand and showed me that my life does not have to consist of alone, fear, abuse or full of barriers. Through you I found love can be a gift as well as imperfect, mind-blowing. Over a period of time, you'd brought me out of my shell, gave me a reason for my being; I got to know the real you. A loving, caring and gentle soul with a heart so true and it was then I knew that I was so in love with you.
What I share with you taught me what it takes to makes a man feel a strong connection with a woman – is also the kind of relationship that makes him fall in love with her. Also, it is so easy to get lost on the way to a relationship you desire. For that reason, it is important to learn the right way to connect truly with a man in such a way that he can relate and feels compelled to devote himself to you. Every woman or man at one time or another has taken the wrong road in an attempts to get close to the person they love. I have surprised to learn there are many ways to manipulate love.
However, to hear the main way to manipulate love are through counterfeits, which is when a female impress a man and make him enjoy her company in a way to get him to meet her needs. However, to find love is not easy but it can give many a second chance to love more beautiful than a blossom spring flowers.
Nonetheless, this type of relationship never quite gets off the ground, because one person has taken the wrong road to the path of love. When a person cannot purely love another like they need to be loved because they more value theirs needs it not always done consciously, it comes from their own brokenness. If a woman or man want to discover finally how to create the kind of loving relationship that will lead to a husband or wife, it starts with taking the right road to the path of love. That means he or she has to get off the wrong path which begins with changing of the mind, your way of thinking. Come to know with any relationship a person will not love another for what they can do for them; they have chosen to love the other freely because that whom they want to love and share their life with. Nonetheless, to love is nothing...to be loved is something...to love and be loved in return is everything. However, when I met you, I found love.
Know that everyone wants and needs to be loved, it is man’s desire. God made man to be loved in the beginning when he created Eve from Adam’s rib as his companion and helpmate. God created man to love and to be loved. However, before a person can fully love someone he or she must first start with loving and fully acceptance of them self. Take the time to know yourself and understanding of whom you are and stay away from the ways of people who want to be pleased, control, withholding love or know how to make a person feel guilty through love. Allow Christ to take away all fear of rejection know you are a lovable person, you are capable of loving and need to be loved; fully embrace to bring out the beauty in you. Know, to love is nothing...to be loved is something...to love and be loved in return is everything.
We experience so many surprises during our lifetime, and they are still occasionally so breathtaking that it's hard to realize how lucky we are. Most of us felt as if our hearts were taken from us in some cases.
On the other hand, many people always have the good fortune in their corner. The point is that luck and lack of it are not on the opposites. Both of them are very distinct entities that have different forms. Man or woman can never comprehend how they will fall in love; no one can teach us or tell us how this will happen. The fact remains that love is above everything and tramples all the obstacles in its way.
On life’s rocky road, succumbing to love both perplex us and makes us fortunate. I use the term ‘fortunate’ because people feel good in their skin and at peace with their soul. Consequently, this state was something that affected saints and commoners alike, and it persisted in their hearts no matter how long it lasted or how intensive it was. As the saying goes, love does not care about years or skin color, or even our religious beliefs. From this day forward, individuals got rid of their social or religious views because loving someone for the entire life and being happy with them is the greatest gift we as people can receive and give.
Whoever is reading this, there is a big chance that you either love someone or that you are on a good track to do so. The main issue is, when and how to give yourself to this feeling. The second thing we wonder about is the place where we will find our soul mate and whether we will end up happily ever after. Now to share the surprising way I found my true love.
My love tale, at first, seemed more like friendship, as something that will not bring any emotions, let alone love. In my case, it spread its wing and began flying.
While traveling from Abu Dhabi to Los Angeles, during a cold winter day, a few things happened to me. One of them would make me the person that I am today and mold my existence and life path. I never stood out in a crowd, and I never felt comfortable in the presence of a male I am attractive to; the courage that came from within me puzzles me to this day.
Like every traveler that flies from time to time because of work, I waited for the airplane to ascend, so I could kick back and relax in my seat. I was listening to music, my preferred playlist, as the plane soared into the sky. Something was missing, but the air attendants were flawless. At one point, an attractive male that spoke English and Spanish approached me. I had a burning desire to speak Spanish as well because it looked so natural and it seems this a chance to learn some new phrases.
After he had addressed my issue, a friendly flight attendant poured me my favorite wine. Then she walks the attractive male to the front of the plane, and when she returned after some time, she behaved as if everything is in order. Although she was cordial and polite in every manner, something just seemed off. I decided to ask her for the handsome man name. She answered in a warm voice and whispered to me John; he is the pilot.
I was unaware of how a flight attendant should behave if there were any rules of engagement, so I fret. I understand correctly. My impatience got the better of me, and I was slowly losing my cool. I caught myself thinking about his magnificent voice as I lost track of time. After learning, he was single I want to find out more about the pilot and knew I had to capture the opportunity somehow.
At that moment, we were high above the clouds. I realized that I need to wait for the flight attendant to return and take my empty glass. Alas, it comes to pass. My stomach was tied in knots. The last thing that I could have tried was asking to speak to the pilot once we reach our destination. I imagined us together in a warm embrace. I left my business cards with him hoping he will call me later.
A pleasant voice asked for me by name one month later, naturally that voice being his. I received a call from the attractive pilot that took my heart. I pulled it off. Today we have a family together, with two kids, a boy, and a girl. From the surprising way, I found my true love; I established to love is nothing...to be loved is something...to love and be loved in return is everything. However, "The greatest thing you will ever learn is just to love and be loved in return." Moulin Rouge.
Do you believe in true love?
I Found Love (Cindy's Song) by BeBe Winans " BeBe & CeCe Winans Album Still" ,
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"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return" || Moulin Rouge
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