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importance of Love and Trust in a relationship

Updated on February 24, 2011

There is a lots of relationship in our life and in this world like - a relationship between husband and wife, friends, parents and children, classmates, workmates and even neighbors. A relationship is easy to make but it is so hard to make that relationship stronger and lasting. A long lasting relationship is very easy to establish if we put the spirit of trust and love in our hearts.because love and trust is the requirement in a relationship to make it lasting. When these two character leaves from our relation then that relation becomes weak. Relationship is the only thing on the basis of which the whole human being is lasting so if we think logically we can see that strong relationship gives born to an enjoyable living.among different types of relationship there are some specific relationship which should be strong and lasting to lead a better we must hope to last the relationship within our family or with our spouse. We should treat this relationship seriously in order to build a lasting, happy, strong and enjoyable partnership.

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Firstly Love :love is nothing but the greatest gift in the whole world. We can not define love specific. But we the people misuse the word "love". We misinterpret love with possessiveness and is of different types. Each unique relationship has its own type of love. Like love in the relationship between husband and wife, friends, classmates family etc. any person loves to share the blessings with anyone whom the person choose to spend his lifetime with. Love connects with our hearts. Love is the feeling which can be felt when it comes or lost. For the reason of love we walk towards anyone. When we love anyone from the bottom of our heart we give everything of our self instead of asking. Love is also a bridge .like a bridge connects one side of a river with another side as love is a bridge of the hearts. We communicate with others to make a bridge between the differences of our personalities with our partner. We create a bond with our partner and as a result we become one instead of two. We accept all the thinking of our partner though we know that our personality is different from one another. There is only one word in the world which has no definition and explanation is the word "love".

Secondly Trust :after love trust is the second requirement of a lasting relationship. When we love anyone then we trust him or her. Trust is the implied value of a relationship. We choose to trust our partner only for this trust. Trust is that thing which is broken on time is broken forever. Sometimes we think that trust can be picked up again but it is not true. When we lose trust from anyone we can not gain trust about him should be maintained by each side of a relationship. Rebuilding trust is the hardest work in life. It can be compared with a glass. When a glass is broken it's pieces can be picked up and can be joined again but the perfect glass can never be maid because the sign of broken pieces will alive. As trust is broken one time it can be rebuild after a long run and hard work but the sing of breaking trust will alive forever so it should be kept in mind that the trust should never be broken at any cost.because trust is the value within our self, is the character related with must trust one's partner but it does not mean that one will be passive. One must show to his partner that his trust should be respected by the partner. Losing trust is the first step of losing love. Any person can not continue loving to ensure that his trust is safe. Because when we love anyone we give respect to him, we let him enjoy his freedom, let him enjoy his life, we give him everything.and for exchange that person should also give the respect to our trust.

Trust is both reason of love and result of love. To make a relationship strong and lasting both love and trust is necessary.we should make such relationship where the freedom and happiness will exists.each and everyone wants such partner whom he can love and we must give importance to love and trust in our relationship and life.



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      azaz ahmad 2 years ago

      Love is a word DAT we cant expaint BT only d heart can do DAT cus wen there is no trust and no love sumtime we jst lost trust be us the heart has be played with love is wat u CNT stop from doin

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      Loveable 2 years ago

      Love is a word dat we cnt explain bt only d heart cn do dat cus wen there is no trust no luv .sumtime we jst lost trust becus the heart has be played with .love is wat u cnt stop frm doin

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      meer ochalla oman 2 years ago

      love is fundamental thing in life therefore true love needs commitment and trust. without trust love will not exist the way we want

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      Tiea 2 years ago

      It has so many typos I don't even want to share it. Geesh!

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      priya 3 years ago

      Life is nothing without love.............

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      solomon 3 years ago

      i love that

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      syd1021 5 years ago

      you have to build trust because that's the key to have a stronger relationship

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      folorunsho y. 5 years ago

      Spiritual lov is 2 wonderful, how can we no the real lover ?

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      Mui Do 5 years ago

      I think a real love always has sweet periods and suffers great misery. There are a lot of troubles waiting for everyone in love maybe it's some troubles from family or work and so forth so if if you don't have trust, you never have a real love.

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      Anukrit Raj 5 years ago

      love is indeed an undefined and have no any explaination. it happens only when it is done spiritually instead of being materialistically. becoz, today's trend of love have strong interest in material possession rather than spiritual values.

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      OSHE'A TOMS 5 years ago

      Lov comes from the heart

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      Alex Singleton 6 years ago from Surf City USA CA

      "When we love anyone from the bottom of our heart we give everything of our self instead of asking." I concur nicely written.

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      Angelllite 6 years ago from United States

      Wow! What a beautiful article!