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Is He Interested In Me?

Updated on July 2, 2013

Is He Interested In Me?

Is He Interested in Me? Definitive Signs to Look for in a Man

There is no woman in the world who wouldn't like to understand or know how men feel about them. The only problem is lots of women rake their brains on wondering how they can learn the truth. For instance, in case concerning the man they are interested in, you will surely be disturbed and will want to learn whether the guy of her dreams is also interested with her or not.

If you don't know how to see or read the signs, there is the possibility that you will lead a miserable life especially when you believe that the man you like doesn't feel that same feeling you have towards him. So, in order to know what the guy feels about you, it is important that you read the important signs. There are some indicators which will betray the true emotions of a guy and this will help you in making a decision.

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What It Means:

"Is he interested in me?" is a question that lots of women want some answers, and when a woman asked this question, she actually wants to know whether:

* The guy she is interested with likes her. Or,

* Whether a particular guy she's gone dating with sees her as marriage material/long-term relationship or not.

When it comes to the first case concerning the question, "is he interested in me?," you will know that a guy is interested when he does some things such as:

* Checks you out constantly

* Always hangs around with you

* Exerts efforts to interact

* When you're around, he gets nervous

* Tries hard in order to keep a longer conversation

* Shares private feelings or thoughts with you

* When you are having a conversation, he touches you

* He flirts around with you

* Sends a friend request on Facebook

When it comes to the second instance, this happens when you've already been going out with the guy, and you're wondering "is he interested in me?" Or "does he want to commit a serious relationship with me?" However, you have to be very careful to look at the behavior of the man and see the following:

Definitive Signs if He is Interested

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Bottom Line:

Definitive Signs if He is Interested

* Guys who are truly interested to have a relationship with women are happy and willing to ask you out on dates where they spend money and valuable time in that process. If a guy spends only little money on dates and split with the girl when it comes to the bill, he is not interested to commit a serious relationship. Furthermore, men won't waste their money and time to organize a date and the time they spend is focused on what they actually want. So during your first date, make it inexpensive by having coffee together as this will not burden the man when it comes to the cost.

* Men who like to spend more time with you or talk with you are interested, while those men who aren't interested will only show their interest in getting physical and stay at home.

* If the man shows that he is genuinely interested on how you're feeling and you as a woman, this indicates that the guy is really interested with you. But if he is completely self-absorbed and self-centered, it's an indication that he'll just utilize you and when he's done the man will leave you.

* Men that are really interested with you will talk about his dreams, his future and aspirations with you in order to increase intimacy over time. Those who aren't interested will never tell everything about their deepest desires and dreams with you. This is true as they don't want to get hurt that much when your relationship ends.

* When a man talks about some future events such as Christmas, purchasing a house, summer vacations and others, it's a clear indication that he is genuinely interested maybe for the involved time or much longer.

* If you have already spend one week or more with the man and he hasn't yet introduced you to his friends, this is an indication that the man either does not have one, very busy or he doesn't consider you as a long term partner or relationship.

* Men who want to spend the future with you will spend time to introduce his family to you and this is a clear indication that he is serious. However, men will not take home casual girlfriends since they don't want look like a player especially to their parents. And they also don't want to disappoint their parents when your relationship suddenly ends.

These are some of the ideas that have probably answered the question, "is he interested in me?" In order for these tips to be applicable, you have to ensure that you're the kind that guys are genuinely interested to have a serious relationship with. You have to act as a woman and that you are worthy for their love and affection.

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    • Prince Bethel profile image

      prince bethel 

      3 years ago from Africa

      Interesting tips, awesome and useful!

    • caossquidoo profile image


      4 years ago

      Great tips! I wish I had seen this before! Thanks for sharing :)

    • profile image


      4 years ago

      a good read! perfect for those who are confused if the person they like feels the same way too.

    • profile image


      5 years ago

      Great Lens

      Lisa -

    • socialcx1 profile image


      5 years ago

      So many questions!

    • seodress profile image


      5 years ago

      Interesting stuff.

    • carolinarobin profile image


      5 years ago

      Congrats! You are in the number one spot on Google! Well deserved I must say.

    • LaptopLeader profile image


      5 years ago

      Thanks for sharing these tips. :O

    • VspaBotanicals profile image


      5 years ago

      I love this lens. Many teens need to see this as well.

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      5 years ago

      Men who are interested always show signs. Compare his' and other guys' treatment to you as well as how he treats other women. Just pay close attention... But then, most women can only be assured with words.

    • profile image


      5 years ago

      @CristianStan: I agree...if he's paying particular attention to you then you know he's particularly interested in you

    • profile image


      5 years ago

      I'd say that the best sign to look for is how he treats other women compared to how he treats you

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      5 years ago

      oh how i wish this is it..

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      5 years ago

      In talking with many of my clients I have found that many of us actually already know what to do to win that special someone over. Our intuition will steer us in the right direction if we take a moment to really listen to it. But it's listening to that little voice that we have the hardest time with. Be authentic, let the real you shine, and love will come when you least expect it but are the most ready for it.

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      5 years ago

      girls, don't sweat it. If we are interested in a relationship we'll let you know. Just don't do any desperate things to get our attention. If you are that great we'll know it.

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      5 years ago

      Great tips and advice,love to read out your article.

    • choosehappy profile image


      5 years ago from US

      Great tips and advice; love the books featured as well ;)

    • profile image


      5 years ago

      Very nice pointers and very well said!

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      5 years ago

      Simple, if the guy is taking you out, he is interested. If you have find yourself always at home watching movies, not interested.

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      5 years ago

      Any advise for someone, like me who actually told the guy that I hate dating but would kinda and kinda not like to see him again? I know I am messed up.....

    • profile image


      5 years ago

      I agree if you really have to ask then you probably should be asking yourself if he's the right guy for you.

    • kiratalley profile image


      5 years ago

      Oh! I wish I saw this lens back when I was in High School haha!

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      5 years ago

      If you have to ask if he's interested in dating you, he's probably not. Just my two cents! :)

      Love your lens by the way.

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      6 years ago

      I'd say this lens is pretty accurate :)

    • profile image


      6 years ago

      Great lens, nice job!

    • BillyPilgrim LM profile image

      BillyPilgrim LM 

      6 years ago

      Good lens, learned a lot!


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