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Another Anniversary is Coming Up for Me
October 5, 2011 was the date Greg and I tied the knot; so aside from the fact that today, September 27, 2012, marks my first anniversary with HubPages, my own wedding anniversary actually follows shortly.
Yes, this was the time of the year in 2011 that my life had started kicking off again. I was very optimistic for the year 2012 for things to continue into the expected progress but…
In January this year, I wrote my self-prediction in a monthly basis but none of those came true. http://jynzly.hubpages.com/hub/My_Self_Prediction_for_2012
If I didn’t know how my life works in any major changes, I would have been depressed again. The fact that my husband is very patient with the situation and with me, only shows that I just have to learn humility, patience, and persistence.
October is fast approaching and it looks like the whole year 2012 is a hibernation year for me. It’s almost a year now since he left and the papers are still in the process, very slow.
But regardless of the situation my husband and I are still holding on to each other in the way that we both can manage.
This is the most important thing between me and my husband; we never give up on each other regardless of the distance and the intervention of the bureaucracy of both our governments.
My wish for our anniversary regardless of the situation;
1. I wish that my husband will be here for our first wedding anniversary celebration;
2. If, because of circumstances he cannot come, I will understand but I wish that regardless of the situation, my husband will be loyal to our marriage vows as I am;
3. Last but not the least, I wish that we will continue to love each other for the rest of our lives.
Summary of how my husband came to be.
First, we met in Tagged where he was one of the five who requested friendship from me.
I have had received some 10,000 requests for friendship at the time but I was very careful to scrutinize these people. From these numbers of ‘applicants’ I chose and chatted with five where there were three ‘finalists’; I chatted only three times with one of the three and ignored him because for me he lacked depth and sincerity. This left two contingents where between these two, I chose the other to become my ‘virtual fiancé’. He seemed to be sincere to start with but I had become gradually suspicious of his sincerity so I agreed with the other (who is now my husband) when he said that he would come to see me last February 14, 2011.
Before Greg came in February 14, we were really not “lovers” or having any romantic relationship in the net. He is a planner and I was 100% impressed with his sincerity.
When I met him in the airport at midnight, when the clock stroke 12:00 on that “Valentine’s Day”, I felt like I was a teen-ager again. I cannot believe that this man from Tagged is as real and lovable in all that he is…I categorically fell for him the first time I saw him.
Now, I have no regrets Greg is my husband and the love of my life.
Happy Anniversary My Love.