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'love' - A beautiful feeling
What is love?
In life, there comes a time when we meet a person and are instantly(or otherwise) drawn towards them. Maybe its the first time we are feeling this attracted to someone or maybe not! How do we know if this is what you call as "LOVE"? If What you are feeling is permanent or not? What if this feeling turns out to be nothing but infatuation or plainly an addiction?
Love is the only word which is so hard to explain. Love can never be easily defined. What then? How are we to know"What love really is?" So many questions in our minds and yet so complicated answers we usually get!
Here is my view on 'love' , though I can't explain the whole thing right, I'm just giving it a try:-
First of all 'Love' is not just a mere word but rather it's a feeling;a feeling that cannot be expressed even with the help of a million words.'Cause when you are in love, your heart starts feeling an unknown thing. The beat of your heart changes its rhythm and all your wounds start healing.
'Love' is when you feel an ocean full of care and affection for someone & you feel it without any conditions or promises in return. Not that u dont want anything in return but you are ready to accept whatever comes your way through that person, whether its acceptance or rejection, love or pain, without thinking even for a minute, for a teeny weeny second of stopping to love him/her. Because love is not a button you can press start or stop anytime you want.. True love remains in your heart forever without any conditions or quid pro-quo's.
'Love' is when you are furious with them and yet you forget everything and run into their arms, wen u see them kneeling in front of you. It's when you are ready to cross a thousand miles and a million oceans just to be there for them when he/she needs you.. It's all about caring for that one person who walks into your life and turns your whole world upside down. Its all about looking into that person's eyes and forgetting the rest of the world & getting drowned.
'Love' is all about the happiness that emanates from you when you are with that "One special someone". and when you are apart, you feel like a part of you is left behind. Love is all about sharing your worries, while taking away his/her tears and turning them into beautiful smiles. Its about knowing it from deep within your soul that no matter what happens, no matter how many obstacles come your way, you will always want that person forever... No matter what!!
We have often heard people say that Love is "Unconditional". But what does it actually mean? It means that love is not just based on attraction or compatibility or great chemistry..Well now, how can I say this with such confidence? I can say this because 'True love' stands all traps of time and for that we need something greater than just Attraction (What if we get attracted to another beautiful girl/guy?) Compatibility (What if we find someone more compatible than our current partner?), Great chemistry (What if we meet someone and are sure he/she is the one but out of the blue we discover that we don't share a great chemistry with them.Should we let go because of just one factor? Definitely not!). Isn't love supposed to be accepting and loving that person for who they actually are? Isn't it about discovering their true inner self?
Love is boundless of any conditions or factors. It is just the mere care you feel for someone and knowing with all your heart that u wanna wake up each morning beside them. It is knowing that He/she is the person u wanna kiss good night for the rest of your existence. It is to be aware that losing that person will be like losing yourself and that's why you would never wanna let them go inspite of all the bumps and hurdles you may have to come across. Loving someone is like you are signing an invisible bond with yourself; a bond that you would love that person inspite of all the negativities and will accept him/her even in their worst conditions/situations.
Love is not about loving today, fighting tomorrow & walking out the day after that. But its all about living today, forgiving tomorrow & holding on to them forever even when things get out of your hands. Love is not about wanting them now & losing interest the next second. But its all about Needing them now and loving them forever even when things are going bad..
So, guys love is basically about living with that special someone and life is about loving and caring for that one person always and forever, for the rest of your eternity.
© Copyright Hajira Ehsan
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