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Love Letters For Her

Updated on March 21, 2013

A man should always write a love letter to their love at least once in a relationship.

It might seem silly to some men but many of us girls live for romantic moments. And yes writing a love letter to your wife, girlfriend, or love will almost always score you some points. Well what ever that means to your relationship, but it will be something that most women will keep for a long time and will appreciate even if it is the cheesiest love letter ever.

You do not have to write a Hallmark worthy or even a love letter that is worthy of publication, it will be special to your love because it was written just for her. If she is a romantic she will love it, you can read a thousand beautifully crafted famous love notes and fancy love stories, but none can be a great as a love letter written just for you. Short, long, or in between it does not matter the meaning behind the letter is what counts.

Learning how to write a love letter for her is not as hard as it may seem. You will soon be on your way to writing her a love letter she deserves.

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How To Write A Love Letter To Her

A Few Pointers On How To Write A Love Letter To A Women

The first thing to do before you write a love letter is get the idea out of your head that it has to be perfect. If she loves you she will love the letter she wrote for you. I am sure most women would be heart broken to find out that their man wrote a love letter to her or even started to write one but she did not get it because he thought it was not perfect.

* It is best that the letter to written in your handwriting. It is just so much sexier to get a love letter in handwriting then it is a typed letter that looks impersonal and a little like junk mail.

* Write on a nice paper or a card. If writing less then a page a romantic card would be nice but if your going to run out of room writing on a regular sized paper is probably best.

* When writing a full love letter it should be at least three paragraphs. Anything else would be considered more of a love note but really if you want to keep it short that's good too. Any love letter is better then none when coming from your love.

Love Letters For Her
Love Letters For Her

Outline Of A Basic Love Letter

The Easiest Type Of Letter To Write For A Woman

If writing a love letter seems a little intimidating start off small. Remember you do not have to be totally original especially if this is your first letter you have written her. Use this outline of a basic love letter to get your feet wet. If you do not like what you have written you can always expand from there, sometimes you just have to get started before your ideas will come to your paper.

* Address her in a sweat manner: For example: To My love, Dear Love, My Sweetheart or maybe use a nickname you call her.

* Start with the reason why your writing a love letter: Go ahead and spell it out a bit. Are you writing this because it is her birthday, maybe an anniversary, or it could be just because you love her so much.

* Share something personal: For example you could tell her the first time you realized you loved her. Talk about your first day with her. Or maybe share how nervous you was the first date. For a longer relationship or marriage you can even get a little more personal.

* Don't be shy tell her why you love her: If you do not know the exact reason why tell her things you love about her. Be care full here and be very real about things you love about her. You do not want to sound like you are just putting things down on paper be genuine about things you love about her and you can really show her how much she means to you.

* Tell her what she means to you or how she has changed your life.

* End the love letter by affirming your love for her once more.

* Sign off with something that is meaningful to you. Such as You Loving Husband or Your Devoted Love.

Show Her How Much You Care

Show Her How Much You Care
Show Her How Much You Care

Ideas Of Things To Put In A Love Letter For A Women

Writing a love letter to a women is not about writing a bunch of cheesy lines to make her feel happy. Just say what is on your mind. But do not feel bad if you do not know where to start. Sometimes those things we initially call cheesy lines can be sweet and adorable if they are a starting out point of what is to come.

So what I am saying is avoid just using these lines to create your love letter, but instead use it as a platform to what to say. Express your love past the cute I love you's and just be the real you.

  1. You are the women of my dreams...
  2. When I think about you......
  3. I could look in year eyes for the rest of my life....
  4. My hand is yours to hold when ever you need it.....
  5. When thinking about the future you are always in it....
  6. The time I spend with you is what I look forward to all day.....
  7. You are in my heart forever.....
  8. The first time I saw you I knew.......
  9. Thank you for your love and letting me love you....
  10. Our relationship is the most important thing in my life......
  11. When I dream of beauty I dream of you....

Perfect Small Gift To Go With a Love Letter For Her

​Home Essentials 12 inch Lifelike Glass Roses Bouquet Red
​Home Essentials 12 inch Lifelike Glass Roses Bouquet Red

Glass roses last forever and are a perfect pair for a sweet romantic love letter for her.


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The Love Letter - A Romantic Movie To Get Your Creative Juices Flowing

Favorite Romantic Movie About A Love Letter

The Love Letter
The Love Letter

The love letter has to be one of my favorite movies. If you want to pick a romantic movie this is a classic favorite.

While the "Love Letter" is defeantily what we tend to call a chic flick its actual lovy dubby moments are very limited making the romance more fun and charming then too girly.


What Do You Think About Writing Love Letters to Your Significant Other?

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      pinoyrecipe 4 years ago

      i find it romantic

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      Fcuk Hub 4 years ago

      Writing love letter is essential when you want to impress someone you love. But be aware, letter not email.

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      Fcuk Hub 4 years ago

      Writing love letter is essential when you want to impress someone you love. But be aware, letter not email.

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      mrsclaus411 4 years ago

      It's always a nice idea to give a letter to your beloved once in a while. Great lens, Thank you for sharing this!

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      Bitbreaker 4 years ago

      very good idea..

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Thank you for sharing great information to us. I feel strongly about it and love learning more on this topic.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Thank you for sharing great information to us. I feel strongly about it and love learning more on this topic.

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      rohitshukla999 4 years ago

      I will keep in my these tips next time.

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      Vortrek Grafix 4 years ago

      Love is a major quality of life determining factor. Some are not so fortunate as to ever have experienced it, and a few others may take it for granted. Lenses such as this which reenforce communication of love in relationships are a welcome addition. Thank you

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      I really liked this article on relationship and familyâ¦..its great information..contents are understandable and worth to be noticedâ¦it is going to help people find their next insight into their families and relativesâ¦and Love

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