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Heart & Soul Connection

Updated on May 10, 2012

Soulmates Connection

When two persons in love once and still is and yet one of them not doing anything to bring the relationship forward because of fear or a million reasons created just to give excuse not to be with the person she loved. Yet deep in her heart she does love and miss and think of her true love all the time. Is frustrating to encounter this kind of love , you do not know you are going or coming and you didn't understand why this person love you in her heart and yet wont do anything about it. What she is feeling you feel it too and when she misses you , you miss her too.

The telepathic & soul connection is so strong , you could feel the person evens they are not in the room and you wonder whether you are going crazy and is driving you to despair , you try to tell yourself to forget this love and move on but each time you almost success to do that , she crept back in your dreams unexpectedly and you had visions & hear songs that remind you of the times you both spend together. All these make it impossible to build on a new love or new relationship and you wonder why is this person haunting you day and night. You start to question maybe it was just you who are obsess with this love , then again your instinct telling you that is not the case because you did try your very best to start a new relationship and there are times you never even think of her. She crept back suddenly and at the most intimate times in the night to remind you of her. Is like you are actually sharing one soul , she can feel whatever you think and feel and is like a part of you.  

Some psychic would tell you because of a past life together and the cord is not cut , meaning she still emotionally , spiritually tied to you so you feel her around even when she is not there , you keep wondering and pondering over this even you dint really believe in past life. Then again how people connect together is amazing , you can be seeing someone everyday and there is not any connection at all. You met someone and is like a lighting strike you so hard , you feel you found your other half and connection. What good is this strong love if there is no future unless a miracle happens and finally bring them back together. 

When you get frustrated with your strong feelings you will shout into the air and tell her not to think of you anymore or miss you so that your soul can move on and not be in pain. You wonder if one of them truly found another strong love this connection might eventually break away. You cant control how your heart feels for another and you cant tell your heart to try to love someone. Is a natural feelings and is pure from the honest heart. The mind can play tricks and give you a million reasons to stop what you are feeling but deep down you know what is the truth in your heart . You will not able to stop this strong love unless you go for a heart transplant and has someone else heart planted on you then perhaps things might be different because you have a change of heart and no longer feel the same , by then you believe the soul connection might somehow be broken. There are reports about how heart transplant patient feel differently after getting a new heart . Chances are our souls are connected to our organs and the most important organ is the heart , when our heart stops , everything dies except the soul. 

Changing a new heart would be too drastic just to forget a strong love , so how do you explain this crazy insane soul and heart connection with someone ?

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      Broken_Soul 5 months ago

      I started talking to this guy on a website that I use for my hobby back in October of 2016. Ever since we had started talking I had this feeling that this guy was different, I guess on some deep level I was feeling this connection but was denying it because I didn't believe in that stuff. Long story short(because this is a long and complicated story) after a few months of talking one night I felt this guys pain, then a few weeks later I experienced his pain again. And the more we got to know each other the more we both realized that we had a lot in common (especially when those common interest was when we were kids). By the time March came around we both claimed that we were soul mates. Now you would think we are together but no we are not because he deleted his account one day without a warning, we went a month without talking and I was in a lot of pain for the first 2 weeks of that month but things were getting better and that was when he decided to show back up again for 2 days and then delete his account yet again without warning! So here I am again trying to pick up the pieces . And to make matters worse, last week when I was reading something from that website, I was about to comment when I saw another persons comment and I felt this magnetic pull towards them (the only other person I have ever felt this pull too was to the guy I started talking to in October of 2016) so I looked at the persons profile and guess what? It was him! The guy I had been talking to for months before he disappeared, and to make it even worse he is with another person!

      I have no idea what to do here because i'm in so much pain and I have so many questions as to why he just disappeared without saying anything for a second time and how he was able to move on so easily without giving me a second thought! And how could he walk away from the connection knowing it was going it hurt me more than it probably would hurt him.

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      painful soul 6 months ago

      2 years no contact, something interesting is happening someone else is paying me a lot of attention I do like him not sure what is going on I will never be over Tony which makes the situation difficult very confused at the moment.

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      Sally 8 months ago

      I'm struggling at the moment , my journey has been a long one , this connection is so intense at the moment , im feeling him so much at this time , it's so draining , I'm not sure where it's going to end , it's been nearly 3 years since I had any contact with him but feel him every day , will this connection every leave me ?

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      painful soul 9 months ago

      Still here only just nearly ended it a few times not seeing him is killing me I am not living just surviving without my beloved.

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      Sally 11 months ago

      Painful soul , hope your ok? , you've said a few time the connection changes your life , it sure does I'm really struggling at the moment , this week the connection has felt very intense , also been having dreams at night too.

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      Neg 12 months ago

      My case is a bit weird, i met this guy 3 weeks ago and i found a tremendous energy towards him. couple of days later we went for a date and he said he have received this energy too but he got a girlfriend and i tried to stop thinking of him , but i still have this feeling and suddenly he comes to my mind, while i try not to think about him and i have some dreams at nights too.. my heart beats so fast and my hands sweat , i try to stop this , it works a day , then it comes back again.

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      sound11 13 months ago

      let it be what is it.

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      painful soul 13 months ago

      I know that pain sally so I can relate when it is your beloved's birthday and you are not speaking it hurts I am still in so much pain I do cry every day even keeping busy does not help he is the one I am just trying to survive without him.

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      Sally 15 months ago

      Having a really bad few days, my heart is breaking , missing him so much

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      Sally 15 months ago

      Today is his special day , I'm feeling very emotional , tired of this whole situation

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      Sally 15 months ago

      Still living this nightmare, two years without any contact , this week will be his birthday I do wish I could be with him on his special day

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      painful soul 15 months ago

      Just trying to survive without him but I can't I have never known pain like it, Sally, I will pray for us both.

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      sally 16 months ago

      Painful soul , hope you ok, well I have to say I think I had lost this connection, but the last 2 days have been hell, and it's back , I'm back feeling this awful loss and missing him so much , I've been very tearful, missing him again , why can't this nightmare just go away ?

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      painful soul 17 months ago

      The pain is too much to bare my eyes are swollen ,I can't take any more pain I am not strong enough to get through this , time does not heal believe me I am in more pain now the pain is so bad I can't breath food sticks in my throat and I want to be sick no man has ever effected me like him my whole body is suffering this has been the worst year of my life around people I act fake they do not know I am dying inside no one has noticed my pain because I hide it I have got no one to confide in I am on my own I feel numb I wish I could see a light at the end of this very dark tunnel I am in soul limbo he has run away from our connection which hurts the deepest part of my soul and heart I know he felt it he felt it strong like I did I wish I knew what he was scared of ? does he even know how much pain he has put me through ? How much he has hurt me ? his absence in my life has destroyed me this connection has pushed me to emotional breakdown just about made it through another day I am tired it is taking all my strenght what I have got left which is hardly any I am not happy I will never be happy again I carry around this sadness always I will stop this is turning into a novel so many broken people out there we don't deserve this pain.

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      painful soul 17 months ago

      Sally glad you are feeling better, for me, the pain is still very raw last week I was sobbing on the bathroom floor and I was physically sick this was at 3 in the morning I have never felt so much pain in all my life I have not seen him in a year feels like an eternity he is permanently on my mind like you I am exhausted I can't stop crying I have to cry silently because no knows what I am going through I have no one to talk too about him this is not normal heartbreak this is soul break my whole body is broken I try not break down in public but when you can't hold it in any longer the tears flow I will never recover I will have this sadness for the rest of my life people around me have know idea the two words I use the most are I am just tired or i'm fine and through all this I love him so deeply and I always will I am just trying to make through the day everyday is hard nights are painful so very painful sobbing into a pillow is what I do every night I am praying for my beloved to return to me.

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      sally 17 months ago

      Painful soul, you and I are going through the same thing , it's been nearly 2 years for me , I miss him so much , I have to say though this week I'm feeling a little better , I'm still thinking about him and still missing him , but I feel a little bit more human , maybe I'm beginning to realise I may never see him again , and I have to get on with my life , because some days it really does take over , and I feel exhausted with all this .

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      painful soul 17 months ago

      I have had this pain for a year now , I still cry every day I am a broken person he is the only one I Love him always will I don't want anybody else ever.

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      Sad 18 months ago

      no more words...

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      painful soul 18 months ago

      I can relate Sally , me and you are in the same situation waiting and hoping.

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      Sally 18 months ago

      I'm still living this nightmare , every day is a struggle , it's been so long since I last saw him but still think of him everyday , hoping one day we can be together

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      painful soul 19 months ago

      Hope is all I have.

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      painful soul 20 months ago

      Tears,pain,suffering,sadness,broken,not eating,not sleeping,heart pain,alone,laying on bathroom floor crying, crying in shower,crying in the bath,lost, lonely,drained, missing him, beloved, soul crying, deep pain,sore eyes,shattered,crying in the rain,numb, very weak,can't breath,him,missing him.

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      Sad 20 months ago

      Why we cannot avoid to feel it?

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      Connection 20 months ago

      I posted here about maybe 10 m ago. I was exactly like you all wondering in the What if's. I finally had the courage to reveal myself to him and emailed how I needed to let it out so I can move on. I certainly did right after confessing my feelings his reaction was to slam picture of him and his new partner on social media for me to see. Now this is just the sign I needed to move on a disappointment of seeing how he handle the entire situation. I knew it was a risky move for me to do but at least I can move on with no regrets and know that I'm no longer going to wonder if he thinks of me or remembered me or even if he cared. What we all need to be thankful for experiencing wonderful connection and that we experience true love. Not anyone leave this world with the experience. I know he has a new partner and all I saw in those pics was physical attraction from him to her and that just allows me to know he is in it for all the wrong reasons.

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      painful soul 20 months ago

      I have also lost so much weight someone said to me "you look different" I am in a really bad place.

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      painful soul 20 months ago

      There are no words to express what I am feeling This connection has changed me forever I just take it one day at a time and try to get through the day without breaking down I still cry every night because I hold it in all day if I am around people I pretend and act like everything is fine I have to cope all alone with this and it is very hard having no one to talk to about it I am not a strong person and it is taking all my strength to get through this Last week I was at my lowest I had ever been since we separated it was the most pain I have ever felt in my life I do not know how I made it through the night it was that bad as I said I just take it one day at a time I have this permanent sadness and pain in my heart and soul.

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      minah 21 months ago

      thank you for this wonderful page, i met a man during my bachelorette party and it was his bachelor party, our connection was instant, it felt like we knew each other for years, we spent the most wonderful weekend together at our bachlelor/bachelorette party destination. we kept in touch for a few weeks but he pushed back because we were about to get married, its crazy to say but its been months and not a day goes by that i do not think about him. our conversations were like we knew each other and we connected in so many ways, we talked about songs that reminded us of each other and we both agreed we listened to the same songs, sometimes i think about him and i feel this sharp pain in my chest that i have never felt for anyone else. we are currently miles apart in different states and i still cannot stop thinking about him, sometimes i wish i would know if he is thinking of me as well. we both agreed before we cut off communication that we were each others soulmates, we both have been with out partners 6 years and all of a sudden we meet and it was an instant connection, the circumstances of the trip also led us to keep seeing each other, we would both end up at the same places throughout the weekend. it is very hard to accept the fact that you do not know your future and why you met this person, all i can do is appreciate meeting him and the wonderful feelings he brought to my life because i do believe he was my soulmate, since i am currently married to my life partner all i can do is keep loving him and if the universe wants to bring me and this man together i am sure it will one day, if not at least he gave me the best weekend of my life.

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      Irrelevant 21 months ago

      If they do not act on it then they are not that in to you, I guess.

      I do not believe in it anymore, it was my imagination

      I have to accept it-

      Gilla läget!

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      painful soul 21 months ago

      I just feel pain, tears, and intense love 24 hours a day.

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      painful soul 22 months ago

      I want him so much it is an ache that will not go away I love him so much and not seeing him is killing me inside out. My soul feels empty without him once you have had this connection it changes everything your life is changed forever I will never want anybody else he is my other half I love him and I always will. All I can do is pray he will come back to me I know he feels it too.

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      painful soul 22 months ago

      The pain has got more intense it is crippling me I am a lost soul without him I am so unhappy everyday is very hard.

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      Sally 22 months ago

      Where ever you go, what ever you do I'm always thinking of you , hoping to meet you again this year

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      Sally 24 months ago

      I'm also broken , I haven't set eyes on my soulmate for 16 months , it's very hard I miss him so much , and think of him all the time , I know I shall never see him again , it breaks my heart , but also I feel privlidged to have exsperensed something like this , I do wonder if he ever thinks of me , I hope he's well and happy

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      sarah 24 months ago

      I am sorry, I hope you be fine. Believe.

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      I am Broken.

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      It hurts with every heartbeat.

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      The connection is there the love is there forever even if you are not with him that is why being apart is so very painful your soul misses him it is the most heartbreaking , saddest things to have go through I am going through it now I will love him forever he is in my heart always I know I will never love anyone else he is my soul mate once you have found your soul mate it changes your life forever.

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      sarah 2 years ago

      Some day it will vanish.

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      I am thinking of the saying what does not kill you makes you stronger at the moment I do not feel strong not seeing him is killing me this pain is different he has a effect on me we have a powerful connection but he is scared of it all I can do is wait and pray he comes back to me I know he feels it to his eyes told me everyday is pain and tears .

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      kate 2 years ago

      I feel the pain everyday .

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      The intense pain never goes away my soul misses him and my heart misses him TRUE LOVE HURTS.

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      kate 2 years ago

      I am also going through the pain of not being with my soulmate it is painful I can't watch anything with couples or romance and love songs make me cry very hard painful soul , I know what you are going through I am going through the it .

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      Cried myself to sleep last night this pain is unbearable very hard to get through the day as well I wish he would come back to me.

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      Sally 2 years ago

      Painful soul , I can relate to what your saying and feeling , I have not seen my soulmate for 15 months , put think of him everyday it's so painful

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      I am missing my soulmate so much my heart and soul hurt I love him so much the pain never goes away .

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      hear455 2 years ago

      I feel everyday

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      I cry everyday .

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      hear455 2 years ago

      It hurts.

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      Is that you ?

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      2 years ago

      I still think of you.

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      I went to see him today I needed to I was at breaking point I am so glad I did his eyes still told me everything . The way he looked at me said it all I am in a better place now I know we will be with each other one day he is my soulmate my beloved I wish I was with him now but he is not ready to be with me yet I will wait for my beloved as long as it takes he is the only man I will ever love I do not want anybody else ever.

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      painful soul 2 years ago

      It has been 3 weeks without my soulmate the pain nearly killing me and missing him so much thinking about 24/7 I am lost without him .

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      Sally 2 years ago

      I'm still thinking about my soulmate on a daily basis , it's been 1 year now since any contact, but I still think of him all the time, some days are so intense and very draining , it's his birthday this week, so I know it's going to be hard , just wish I could spend that day with him

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      Sally 2 years ago

      @SRQ, I really know how your feeling, it's sometimes hard to get on with everyday routines , I've been going through this for 3 plus years , you've only met this special person a short time ago, maybe she's scared because she can feel some connection , I know it's hard but please sit back and wait , and see what happens, my special person has been away out of my life for 1 year now , but I can feel him all the time , it's very hard and I have some bad days , but I also feel very privlidged to have exsperensed something like this .

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      sunny 3rd 2 years ago

      @Srq - life goes round and round... I grasp what you meant. Souls that connect never separate actually, they just change places, but come back as gifts.

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      Srq 2 years ago

      So i met this girl a month or so ago,and immediately felt something. I was peaceful, felt safe, relaxed with her. I'm 38 y/o,had countless relationships before, but never had this feeling. Sometimes i have such a craving for her, it really blocks my mind and body. Unfortunately she's out of my life right now, and for some reason she stopped email me back. But i can feel,that she still reads my mails. I just know it in my heart. I c signs of her everywhere i go. I tried to forget her,but something keeps pulling me back. It's like running in circles. It really took my life over. I feel helpless hopeless, desperate.

      Don't know what to do anymore. She might think I'm a weirdo or a stalker. But deep down i think, feel, hope,that's not the case

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      Tamara Robbo 2 years ago from Yeppoon, Queensland

      Hello - I truly hope I am not too late to get a response to this question as I have long been searching for an understanding. While I can draw from the comments above none seem accurate enough to my situation.

      I met a bloke who at first I shut down due to an age gap and I had a daughter and was not wanting to bring anyone into our lives. This man was persistant and from the very beginning made me laugh and stop and look at him in sheer amazement, which in turn would make him stop and laugh. It was fun and extremely easy to be around him. This charade went on over a period of time and I had a deep list for him that I fought and quite often wish I hadnt. Nothing sexual ever came from this as I didn't allow it because I just felt that this was different and so I wanted to discover him without physical emotions clouding our connection a was feeling so strongly. Eventually we were agreed we needed to start something serious and call it something so we started to date exclusively. By this time I was, or felt so very in love with him and was sure I had been correct in my feelings of this from the beginning even though it made no sense to me at the time.

      Where it gets messy, and another reason I remained guarded, is he had recently come out of a high school sweetheart relationship he was struggling to let go. She had little interest in him and I knew that I was challenging him with new paths and emotions he wanted to explore. Eventually it became very clear he was starting to develope strong feelings for me and the ex girlfriend picked up on this. She decided to show just enough interest that he struggled with a decision over myself who was easy to be around, fun, new and starting to become deep even without the physical intimacy or to return to the girl he had been with for many years that he had been so distraught over for so long which is what he had wanted for so long. I knew everything he was feeling and struggling with so I spoke with him and told him should see where it leads and if there is still anything between them and if it's still what he definitely wanted. I knew from experience how hard it is with past hurts too move forward if there is the remaining question of what if and I was deeply crushed inside however remained composed as if I couldn't be with this man, for the first time in my life, I wanted to remain friends with him in my life. I was more concerned with him healing then my own desires. This was all so new all new feelings and wants that I had never before experience for another person outside my family. I truely cared for him. He went back to her and they r still together many years later. They seem like they have worked through mass amounts together and e now very very close and great mates.

      Shortly after this I saw I ran I to him at a soacial gathering and was extremely nervous. As soon as he saw me he came straight to me and spent the remainder of the evening by my side ever so interested in my life and me. I had his undecided attention which of course was natural however confusing as I had decided I may have imagined all the feelings I felt for him and the connection we shared. I often dreamt of him and these dreams were so real with such beautiful conversations that I remembered so vividly it messed with my mind as it had been a few years on and if I wanted to be cut and dry about what we had - nothing really happened except that we talked day and night and spent loads of time together hanging out dancing and we're friends that wanted more and I kept stopping with all my might - why I do not no now.

      I told no one of these dreams as I felt a little silly about them and I also was with someone now who I was very in love with and he was very kind however very different to me.

      The dreams kept coming over then next year and I was now pregnant. I ran I to him a second time in a soacial situation and the same thing happened only this time I was 6 mth pregnant. Well this just amazed him. He told me how he would love with all his heart to start a family but how the girlfriend wanted to travel the world and wasn't interested in children he asked to touch my belly and spoke to me, after 4 yrs and only seeing or speaking on the second occation now, with a pure love in his tone and mannerisms. He was never rude or disrespectful to me or my partner who was present but very compelled to sit quite close to me and my baby belly and stared at it with amazement and delight on his face. This reaction and coincidental meeting with him along with the very real dreams I had been having of him for over a year now was making me question everything. Why? So I saw a phycic who told me the dreams were symbolic of how I wanted my new partner to act towards me and I craved the feelings I felt for myself when around this other man only he was symbolic of my now fiancé and I need not worry about feeling disloyal to my fiancé or thinking I had unfinished business with this other man.

      So I went home and tried my hardest to forget about it even though I felt like I was grieving because the strange and strong connection I was feeling in my dreams and in his presence was not something I could convince myself to be one sided any more. I was shocked at his actions on the two chance meetings I had with him and the feelings that I had suppressed coming in hard and strong. It saddened me greatly and was now pregnant and engaged to another man and I did love him but he did not make me feel these feelings.

      Finally I had another dream of him close to my sons birth and if I never believed in Astro travel before I do now. A new shopping centre was being built in our town and was close to being opened however it hadn't been yet. In my dream I went up an escalator to be met face to face with him at the top. I could see clearly what shops were where and what they were and how they were build and layed out. He told me he loved me and made a terrible mistake and want me so badly. Told me we were connected and was quite openly affectionate. I was terrified of being seen by someone And told him I was with someone else starting a family. He lured me down a service hallway that I could smell the new fabrication and paint still. He tried to kiss me so many times acting and speaking to me in such a he tall and loving caring manner the way he was speaking to me on our meetings those few times. Only with greater depth this time. I didn't know what was happening and how this was so real but I finally couldn't resist him any longer and allowed him a perfect kiss just as I was woken. I was sweating and had a feeling I can't not describe even still when I woke. I stared researching Astro travel and what it may mean and couldn't find anything on it. That was the last time I saw him in the past 6 years, in my dream. The shopping centre finally opened a few weeks later and out of sheer curiosity I went to check it out and see if my dream was anything more then my imagination. As I drove into the underground car park and walked in the doors and approached the escalated my heart was pounding visibly through my skin as I reached the top and realised it was located amongst the shops in my dream. Everything was identical. How can I have a dream of a place that my mine does not know? How can I know the exact layout of somewhere I have never been and that is brand new? The service hallway was there and although the smells were not as prominent in real life they were there - I could smell them. I cried I was so over whelmed I put it down to pregnancy hormones but I was overwhelmed and confused.

      Please help me understand this. He is still with the same girl and I still with my now husband and I am extremely blessed and fortunate in the husband department and I know it. He is a great father and amazing friend and partner. My soul man and his high school sweet heart have trVeled the world now and built a home together. He contacted me once since this dream and I had no other dreams after this one. I do think of him from time to time but I see his GF doesn't want kids and he says he doesn't ether now. Please help me put this in perspective. If it's nothing or something please.

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      Sally 2 years ago

      Lala, what you say is so true, my twin came back into my life briefly, but has gone again, you do have to get on with your life , I also miss him and will always love him , I'm hoping one day he will come back again and stop running away from me .

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      lala 2 years ago

      Things do get better, it's going 2yrs now and i still think about him everyday. However some days are better than others. it wasnt like the it was in the beginning which is non stop. Now i have a life and his stops comes to me randomly during the day, but i try not to dwell on those thoughts and divert my attention to something else, and it helps.

      I know i will always miss and love him no doubt, but i have my life to live, and it looks like he his living his too. So why dwell on it.

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      Artist 2 years ago

      The old song "Diary" by the group Bread use to be my favorite when I was very young . I didn't understand it since I had never been in love when it came out but I loved the melody . Now I think about the lyrics since I don't want to finally let another man into my heart and still be writing about the love that I can't seem to forget . : (

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      Artist 2 years ago

      I feel the same soul and heart connection with the one I loved deeply .

      It's been a year and I can't seem to get him out of my mind. He lives in the same town and we have even passed each other on the road .

      I am an artist and I paint and draw. I sell my work to a local store . This past Christmas I painted cypress knees into little Santa Clauses . Well I did not realize until the store owner said that they all resembled the guy I use to date but with a white beard. When I paint I don't realize he is coming threw into my art work.

      A few months ago I had a series if events that happened that led me to him . I went to a fast good restaurant that I never go to late in the evening and never noticed his truck in the parking lot since I was aggravated that the drive threw was roped off. My kids insisted on getting food from there so when I walked in he was standing in front of me . He smiled and got his food and wished me well . He told me he knows how to shut down feelings when I was with him so I suppose he is shitting feelings down for me . When he has seem me he stares at me but doesn't say a word. It's like he sees into my heart and feels it but can walk away .

      My heart hurts for him and I miss him but I know I have to move on.

      I'm thinking of going to a hypnotist to help me get him out of my mind .

      I practice the power of attraction and I know there is a reason for all this . I'm learning from that relationship and staying positive .

      I've had other men approach me that want to date but I can't till I get my mind out of this fog of thoughts about him.

      Love is very powerful and when you connect with their soul that bond is hard to break . He will always be in my heart but the hurt is so deep when you don't know how he feels nor offers to talk. So it's time after a year to move on . Life's lessons that help us grow and learn .

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      Light 2 years ago

      Continued.........

      1] At times you inspire (or offend) others altering their perspective through your actions or words knowingly or unknowingly. If you created a mess in someone’s life you ought to clear it. However, sometimes you can better do it by not going back in their lives or by just being there at the time of their need. The world is going the way it was meant to go. It is better to ‘Be’ than to ‘Do’.

      1] The only permanent thing in this world is change. Sometimes these things happen to get you to do something or take you somewhere, you would otherwise have never done & gone but needed to. Other times it comes to check your stability. It can be both ways. There are always two sides of a coin.

      1] Helping humanity in whichever way will open your heart and this is good for you.

      1] Sometimes the wrong time gets you to the right place. And when the time is right, the right person will walk into your life.

      1] Love yourself but love truth more than you love yourself even if it is against you. It has the power to change you. Having faced the truth all beliefs are shaken up & everything else seems too small & unimportant.

      1] Once you lose your ego you have lost all & beyond this you don’t lose anything.

      1] Everything happens in accordance to God’s will. Obey GOD’s will & trust universal intelligence and justice.

      1] Learn from everything & everyone. Be your own teacher.

      Small things; but they helped me. I know it is better said than done. Even I haven’t yet followed all. But I can try.

      All of the above are my inferences from my experiences. So I run disclaimers that if any of this does not fit your own understanding kindly reject it. I wrote (not sure if it has been put up well) all this exhaustive stuff here because I thought that it is my way of repaying back (otherwise feeling burdened) whatever the universe provided me at the time of need with gratitude. If this makes the right difference to even one it can serve the purpose of my time & experience. The sole reason I am writing this on every site I visited earlier is to balance out the negativity I created then and replace it with positivity.

      Thank you for reading! All the best!

      Regards,

      Tranquil Light

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      Light 2 years ago

      Hi,

      I am coming back after gaining some perspective on this. From writing my story, to sharing experiences & finally to inferring something from all this is how it takes place, I guess. I thought that this was about finding your love but this is a whole lot bigger than that. This is spirituality, enlightenment & science. It is philosophy & I don’t know if this is an appropriate place to post this but since we are talking on sole levels, I thought it isn’t that bad an idea. This is about gaining freedom from the cycles of birth & death or should I say the cycles of making an illusion, authenticating it & then breaking it. In the end you know that everything was an illusion. The prime reason for a soul to incarnate in an existence is for experience. If you do not understand life then what use would your incarnation be? You will keep collecting karmic balances and the cycle of life & death continues endlessly.

      Life’s deeper meaning had to be experienced & understood. Life’s lessons have to be learnt & that is the prime reason we (spirits in human existence) are here. Energies can neither be created nor destroyed. The sole purpose of energy to come to existence is learning & experiencing. Some might reason that energies already know everything. To which I answer that, to know that you know is equally important.

      The current time is probably going to be the most momentous time in the history of this planet. One can sense that from whatever is happening around currently. Prophesies of the end of one & the beginning of another era seems to be coming true.

      When we part from the source we become ‘I’ & before we can get back to the source we have to leave the ‘I’ behind. Understanding life will conclude the cycle of birth and death for you. When you learn to cope & deal with the past & dump your ego, harmony & equilibrium are restored.

      So I have taken this fact that all this was for clearing impressions that we accumulated over a period of lifetime(s).

      I fully accept that a Twin Flame relation is very divine & powerful as compared (actually it cannot be compared at all) to a soulmate connection. A twin is born with you & of you before the cycle of birth & death began while a soulmate comes with such cycles. Actually speaking there is just a Twin Flame connection while everybody else is a soulmate (as all souls are connected to each other through the creator). TFs are not in memories, they are in your system. You can’t get rid of then & you are never alone. But we are not God to know for sure as to who it is. The energy released with the union of these two parts of the same soul has a tremendous effect & power on everything around. So just imagine the impact that a negative effect can have. It is world consuming. You have to wait until both of you are in a position of providing the correct & positive effect.

      But facing the facts is very important for moving forward. You can’t remain in any one state of mind for long & must get out of it. A list of how I tried to overcome all this emotional mess is as follows (all numbered 1 on purpose). I hope it brings help to someone.

      If I may suggest, I would say the following,

      1] Begin with writing down points on what you have learnt from the turmoil and experience. This solves almost 75% of the problems and begins the process of understanding, healing and spiritual progress.

      1] Transform emotions (fear, anger, grief, etc) to understanding. Emotions take you to the place you were meant to be in at that time and knowledge brings you back on the tracks. To solve problems use intellect and not emotions.

      1] You can’t read a book from very close; similarly you can’t understand a situation from very close. That is where distance helps. But when you want to solve a situation then you will have to approach it closely. I strongly suggest first understand & then try to solve or say, with understanding it gets solved on its own.

      1] Time heals everything. To give something time can reward you better without compromising on self respect & dignity. So don’t be in a hurry to solve anything for anyone and always put your security first. You are the most important person in your life. Love yourself.

      1] Face your fears. Past impressions get cleared that ways. Dump self pity. What happened in the past cannot be changed. Remember, if it leaves you then it doesn’t love you. Forgive and free yourself.

      1] Accept reality and be practical but do not ignore intuition. Trust your own intuitive feelings. It’s a more precise guide. But understanding what it is actually telling you is a greater challenge.

      1] Whatever is happening is going perfectly according to plans. We decide our destiny & course of action before we, in spirit form, enter existence. The spirit takes correct decisions. Accept that it was to happen exactly like this. But don’t forget that you do have free will.

      1] Ask, don’t assume. Clear communication is very important. Sometimes you lose more by not communicating or not having confessed. When two people don’t communicate well then others do it on their behalf (& create rifts).

      1] Do not confuse emotions (pain is pain; don’t try to put up an act of being comfortable when actually not). Do not suppress. Accepting can only bring healing.

      1] Everything has a time to manifest. Things will happen at the right time. If they are not happening now then you have something to work on still. God opens the right door at the right time. If He has not yet answered your request, then it is for your own well being & benefit. Trust Him.

      1] As much as an understanding is required a completion of a karmic balance is also required. As I understand, it is like; once you have completed paying up for whatever you did the understanding follows. It is simply amazing. And it is science.

      1] There is this one thing with the mind that if you don’t control it then it starts controlling you. And the greater thing than that is that you always have the first choice.

      1] You see the world as you are & not as it is because without you the world actually isn’t at all. You exist – the world exists & you don’t exist – the world doesn’t exist at all.

      1] Some people understand at once; others have to be told a second (even a third) time. It’s ok to take time until it really goes inside your head & becomes a habit.

      1] Observe repetitive cycles in your life. The universe is conveying something to you that requires your attention.

      1] Respect each thought (even those of others) & express without fear of acceptance. Respect your own self & protect your own interests. Societal acceptances aren’t a necessary thing at all.

      1] Sometimes truth comes disguised as illusion & sometimes untruth comes masked as the truth. Learn to discriminate. People & situations have facades. You are encouraged by the universe to see behind deceptive appearances. That is what is meant by seeing in 4D, 5D, 6D, etc.

      1] Neither good nor bad luck is permanent. Happy faces are not always so (& it shows in their eyes). Don’t feel sorry for yourself. You can choose to be happy in every situation. Scientifically, being sorry for your position affects your root chakra. Try to correct it.

      1] Illusions get shattered, dreams never get shattered. So if something got shattered be sure that it was an illusion. Illusions are the tests that life throws at us. To be able to look deep within yourself & others is the lesson learnt from it.

      1] You are with the people around you due to some past karma. When that circle completes these people leave from your life. This could be a temporary attachment (probably only this birth or even less). But you do have a duty towards those who you are connected with or without karmic balances. Do not compromise on your dharma. Dharma is more important than karma.

      1] We are shown the worst; so that when the not so bad comes, it gets accepted easily. Otherwise we keep looking out for perfections.

      1] At times you inspire (or offend) others altering their perspective through your actions or words knowingly or unknowingly. If you created a mess in someone’s life you ought to clear it. However, sometimes you can better do it by not going back in their live

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      Sally 2 years ago

      He's back in my life, after all this time, couldn't be happier .

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      Sally 2 years ago

      It's been 4 weeks since i last posted, I been feeling really good the last 2 weeks, very positive, not thinking off him 24/7

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      Sally 2 years ago

      Well I'm still here, still suffering, it's been 6 months since a last saw him, my heart is truly breaking, I'm feeling so bad at the moment, I thinking about him all the time, he's haunting me day and night, it's starting to get me down, but I carnt get him out of my head, I starting to feel I'm getting obsessed, but I carnt seem to move on, I wonder if he thinks about me, and if he will get in touch( he lives 400 miles away from me)sometimes I get the feeling he could be thinking of me, but not sure if this all in my head, how can I move on from this nightmare I'm living?

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      Quest 2 years ago

      Miss _ so much.

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      Sally 2 years ago

      Well it some weeks since I posted, nothing's changed still living this nightmare, with christmas just a few days away, I'm feeling emotional just wondering how he's going to be spending his holiday, wishing I could be with him , or just hear from him to know he's ok, and wondering if he misses me or even still thinks of me

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      Sally 2 years ago

      Somagnetic , thank-you for your kind words, I will take on board what you have said, wow 7 years , would you be able to share your experience with me

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      somagnetic 2 years ago

      Hello! Sally in my case I can say it's been 7 years all ready for my own experience I can tell you It does not mean you two suppose to be together it's simply there is a stronger connection between you two, whether or not mentioned past life no one have any recollection of it that I am aware of, as long is deep connection with some one you look in the eyes for the fist time and you felt it and not some guy that look hot and work out that a different story that is infatuation, now about the psychic if you were gone to any member of your family or friends they would tell you the same thing as the "psychic" for free the only connection a psychic have ever had before is a deep connection with money I called deep pocket connection, you probably have the same confusion but with a little less buckaroos in your pocket. Sally I wish you all the best and remember your not alone in the middle of the ocean. God bless you and keep looking forward.

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      Sally 2 years ago

      Well it's been a few weeks since I posted, nothing's changed I've been out of the country for a while, and this guy has haunted me day and night, so I did something I've not done before and that's spoken to a physic, she said we have a connection maybe a past life connection , the has confused me as I don't know if I believe in this kind of thing, but I carnt stop thinking of the guy from morning till night does any one have any thoughts.

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      Quest 3 years ago

      It is energy. Nothing can change it.

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      Sally 3 years ago

      Quest, can you please explain what you mean by it's like a wave, and silence matters

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      Quest 3 years ago

      Sally, is it like a wave? I can relate many things I read here. Lately, just silence matters. Also, I feel lost.

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      Sally 3 years ago

      Well, 3 weeks on, my thoughts for this guy have been so intense, I seem to have taken a step back, I'm sure I can feel him , it's so strange I'm beginning to think, he could be my soulmate, even though I know we will never be together, I get shudders, shivers from no where, was wondering if this could be him thinking of me or is this my own emotions, I'm sure I'm going crazy.

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      Sally 3 years ago

      I've been posting on here for the last few weeks, since I last posted last week, I have been really strong and had a good week, I still been thinking about this guy, but not as much, then tonight when I finished work I got in my car and got this overwhelming thought of him which made me cry , it just came from nowhere , now I feel so down as I thought I could be moving on after two and a half years , does anyone have any ideas why this has happened to me today, would love to hear your thoughts

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      3 years ago

      Well it's good to find i'm not the only one who feels crazy...I as well have this overwhelming feeling was beginning to think its obsession, I came across this and felt a little better about my situation. I was 22 when I met this guy he was 15 at the time, but I felt the connection..I was in a relationship at the time and didnt think much on it at the time plus it would be against the law..We had been friends for many years, when he was 19 I was seeing someone it didnt work out of course, One day The guy had made a comment to me and we had fooled around a little but nothing ever came of it and we continued to be friends all this time..I have had these feelings deeply all this time Have tried and tried to forget but seems I can't no matter what i try. He is very aware of how I feel Not sure he feels the same way, but I go every day with this pain in my heart , I'm strong most days but there are some days when I just cant take it. This guy knows that I will do anything under the sun for him all he has to do is ask... Recently we havent spoken to each other he unfriended me on facebook and doesnt reply to any messages I have sent... Yet I still cant seem to shake the feeling that we are meant to be..This is a terrible pain to go through especially for those of us that have been experiencing it for many years. Does it ever end?

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      Sally 3 years ago

      Resh 14 , I really think you should let this guy know how you feel, and not let it slip you by, like I have done I would do anything to turn the clock back and do that, I know how you may feel scared, but please do it you never know what will happen, I know I will never see this guy again my heart is breaking I'm sure, I think about him every day, and for the last 4 nights I've been dreaming about him , I still have the vibes he's thinking about me too, maybe not as much as I think of him, I wish I could read his mind, please don't let this slip by and act on it soon or maybe it will be too late. Good luck x

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      resh14 3 years ago

      Hii

      please help me out of this . i have also facing that connection with that person . he knows that i like him after that i tried to move on so many times . i tried to ignore him , disappear for some time , no contact rule nothing is working . i saw him each and every day . i think he likes me to but no one is making any move . and day time suddenly i am facing some kind of weird vibration in chest part i dont know what is that meaning either , some times when i purly think about him i got a causal message from his side and that makes me happy some time when we are not talking to each other ..... how can i explain that feeling ? but i am to much thinking or is it mean to be ? please help me what i suppose to do ..

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      Sally 3 years ago

      I posted a few days ago, but today I'm having a really bad day, I Carn't get this guy out of my head, I feel so sad knowing I will never see him again, I been thinking of him all day, getting vibes he may be aware of this, and he's sending vibes back, because I feel all tingly , I feel we have a connection in someway, what do you think? Has any one else had these feelings, or do you think it's in my head, my heart is breaking I hate feeling like this I need to move on but i carnt shake these vibes off

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      Frog Faerie 3 years ago

      My soulmate and I came together in January. My heart and soul exploded with growth and opening immediately and I went through a significant release that lasted months and left me more open, vulnerable, and courageous in love than ever. He also began to release some very old barriers and trauma very quickly, but later, I believe he got scared and stopped sharing that development with me. Near the end of our relationship, I longed for our closeness to grow and progress, but he was resistant, I think because he was afraid of losing himself. We were together for 6 months and then he broke up with me saying he can't be in a relationship now, but insisting he still loves me and sees me in his long-term future. He always leaves the door open to me, always picks up the phone, and says he's there whenever I need him, but I don't know if I can accept being involved with him in an undefined way now that I feel such deep devotion for him. I feel a powerful and uncontrollable draw to him from deep in my soul and since we broke up, I feel like I might tear in half, being pulled in two directions: one, wanting to hold out for what I want in a relationship, and two, just wanting so strongly to be with him in any way I can. Should I take a break from him and have faith he'll come to me when he's ready to be in a relationship? I'm 37 and I don't think I've ever experienced something so difficult!

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      Sally 3 years ago

      I can relate to Madison, I met my soul mate 3 years ago, we bumped into each other 3-4 times a week, the eye contact was so strong I also could feel sensations running through my veins, I'm 15 years older than him, it was so tense at times it also felt uncomfortable, he has now moved away and I don't see him no more, but still think of him all the time my heart is breaking, but i feel happy in a strange way to have had these feeling, sometimes he just pops into my head and I feel all tingly, I feel this is when he thinks of me. I'm now trying to move on knowing I may never see him again.

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      Madison 3 years ago

      I am not crazy after all! Recently at work, I met a man who is 22 years older than me, and as soon as our eyes met, there was instant chemistry. The connection was so intense it was almost uncomfortable. We always have strong eye contact when we see one another. I think about him all the time. However, I am in a 6 year relationshio, and he is married. I know he feels this strong bond. It is torture because I have to see him everyday at work. I constantly have sensations running through my veins, and I can sense he feels the same.

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      Tiya 3 years ago

      Hi, I think I found my soulmate ! I went to India earlier this year and I randomly met his through a mutual friend! I instantly knew there was something about him! We all went out clubbing and me and him just danced the night away. I totally lost myself with him and then he hugged me and omg all my broken pieces stuck back together! I felt whole again. I am back in the uk and miss him like crazy feel like I'm going insane without him. My heart pines for him. We still talk almost everyday and nothing happened between us in India but this connection/force is just unreal. I'm to sacred to ask him if he feels the same in case he things I'm mad.

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      pisces-taurus 3 years ago from Texas

      Dan1421

      Not all soul mates are meant to be together but to grow and mature. After the spiritual awaking has done the process our soul mates vanished leaving us with a great lesson. Also this girl might just been a twin soul also. Look into Spiritual Awaking Twin Soul Twin Flames. I'm sure you can find the answer when we receive and process the knowledge we will find the answer as to why.

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      dan1421 3 years ago

      This is weird for me, i never go on blog site or comment.. but this feeling been driving me crazy..I recently found out in ex i dated six years ago got married...i have been in other relationship since that time.. but deep down inside i can't shake this feeling that she was my soul mate. i truly want her to be happy. weird things keep happening that reminds me of her..i feel guilty a lot because i know i hurt her and feels likes she hold resentments towards me. even with saying that i can't shake the feeling that she was meant for me. i have never learn from someone in my life as i learned from her, a lot of things i do today are because of the things she tought me and use to say to me... i don't want to wish no bad luck on her marriage or anything like that..but that feeling i have of her being the only women i truly cared for can't seem to go away, i wake up, sleep, dream of her all the time. sometime i feel like i can sense what she is feeling (WEIRD I KNOW) but i can't lied about my feeling. i really loved this girl. i feel like i am going CRAZY because she has obviously moved on with her life..but this feeling that we will eventually be together i cant seem to shake..PLEASE HELP ANY ADVICE WOULD GLADLY BE APPRECIATED

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      pisces-taurus 3 years ago from Texas

      I so glad i found this website.

      I can relate to everyone here with out feeling out of place.

      I recently know i found my soulmate and in the weirdest way,

      he so happens to be my counselor. im 28 and hes 35. I would explain how we ended up with each other but to make the long story short.

      I was seeking marriage counseling and i came across with him. I soon as i met i knew he was the man i dreamed years ago. Now hes right in front of me when i was going to try to save my marriage and ever since i had a spiritual connection with him iv been in a roller coaster. I ignored him at first but it was impossible for me to stop feeling the connection so strong and intense.

      Iv been growing as a person iv seen changes in me i never knew i would be able to change i feel him even when we are not in sessions. Truth is iv told him and hes reaction was joyful. Deep down i know this is not transference love.

      When i asked god to please help me with this situation or send me a sign that it was ok and real what i was feeling and not crazyness, i asked for something very specific for him to remove this painting that belong to his ex wife and replace with something that represent me and first thing came to my mind was the beach im a Pisces so water means alot to me. Sure enough our next session alone because im also working on my self issues even though my marriage is over i still have work to do, the painting was gone and replace by one that had a beautiful sunrise in the beach. I was stunned and felt so happy. He even though i can feel his emotions he keeps himself very professional. I finally told him the truth not all like i should because i feel i would make him feel uncomfortable due to the fact that im his client.

      I dont know weather to move on or stay and see what happens???????

      i cant even believe this man from my dream and that i asked god for so many years to send him because i needed him was actually in my face one day. We are so connected that i feel him healing as well as iam and hes energy is just making me fall in love in a very strong way i cant even describe. Help or guidance anyone?

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      Elle 3 years ago

      Please help me! I am glad I came across this site two days ago.

      I met this man on internet more than a year ago. We got into a long distance online affair , for ten months we communicated everyday and both believed that we are connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. We were both unhappily married and we both made each other happy even across time zones. We believed that what we had was special. I knew in my heart that I have come to love him and that I believed he felt the same way. But we never professed our love for each other very openly. Until the time when we finally met, the most unforgettable moments of my life, though very briefly. He told me we would meet again in a couple of months. When it was time for him to leave, I couldn't help but cry and bravely told him how I felt about him, over the phone, that I love him. That was the last time I talked to him. I knew that he did come back but he never tried to see me again. In fact he never sent me messages again, and never answered mine. All I could think of was that maybe he got afraid of my feelings for him. I have never felt so hurt in my life, it really did tear me apart. I couldn't eat and sleep well for months, like a part of me has died. I would cry and all I could ask was Why? I wanted answers. The thing is that I always believe that somehow he still cares for me and thinks of me. I also believe that things happen for a reason. At the start of our relationship, I also got myself deeply interested in spiritual awakening. My quest has helped me a lot and seen me through my pain. I sill think of him but it no longer hurt as much.

      Now, just two days ago, just befor I went ro sleep, I suddenly had a flashback I couldn't control. I felt so bad because I thought I have already moved on and the pain was all gone. I thought of him and ended up crying all my heart out, saying his name aloud and asking him Why.That was when I came across this site. I wanted to know why I still feel this way and how I could stop myself from thining of him, and worse, from loving him. Then I read from posts about just letting it go or just let the feeling flow..I read all the posts and comments till I fell asleep.

      The next day I got a bit busy and was able to check emails late afternoon. What a aurprise when someone viewed my profile in a networking sitte and I found out it was him! Does it mean that he still thinks of me? I haven't heard from him for seven months now. I used to send him mental messages that worked almost everytime. Could it be that my thought and feelings, the pain and the longing that I felt the other night somehow got to him?

      I am separated from my husband, and on the process of getting an annulment.

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      Miley 3 years ago

      I met a boy when i was 18 in college. I fell in love with him the moment he kissed me under my bunk bed. We dated for a while and every time i saw him it was like i couldn`t breath and i couldn`t stop smiling. I was his first girl friend and his first love. What we shared was magical. When i kissed him it felt unreal like it was too good to be true. I guess it was because eveen though i was in love with him i met him the same year both of my parents died. I was not mentally right, and i told him that before we dated because we were best friends. After i hurt him he hated me. He couldnt look or talk to me. He still hasnt talked to me and its been almost 6 years. I have had other boy friends since then and i have loved but i can not shake him. Even not speaking to him in almsot 6 years i have dreams of him even when i think im over it. I think of him and i cant help but smile my heart beats for him. I just feel like i will always love him. I feel crazy, insane. I try to convince myself i am so i can get over it but i cant. He recently added me on instagram and liked my picture. When i saw he likes my picture i felt like i was going to faint i couldnt sleep all night. Now im back to square one. I cant get him out of my head. I hit him up and he did not respond. Do you think you can feel so strongly like this for someone and them not feel the same?

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      fairy 3 years ago

      Oooh I Feel for you...find a spiritual healer and see if you can get some healing perhaps ethereal cords cut..it is temporary albeit..having compassionate and a understanding person to off load to helps... keep busy occupied and try and find the joy in having aamazing connection with someone trust the process..

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      sammie13 3 years ago

      Hi

      Find your own peace in the storm. Face the process, stay focus on goals, Family and friends.Take care of yourself, and learn the authentic you.Nothing fix it but time,but those things listed above will comfort you. Its okay to not be okay.I pray your strength get strong each day.

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      GoshIneedHelp 3 years ago

      This is my question. Relative to many of the stories I've heard above, my heartache is very fresh. I feel that I'm definitely aching at the soul level and I'm letting my feelings completely control me. If feel that if I were mentally stronger, I wouldn't allow this to happen so intensely. Meanwhile, the obsession has begun, the heart is totally fractured and I can't do anything else but think of him at present. Issue is, I don't have time to be heartbroken right now. I have to find a job ASAP before my reality gets frightening. Question is, how do I get into a better headspace so that I can prepare job applications and rigorous interviews, all amid my fresh despair. Please folks, help me. Strategies, techniques, psychics, hypnosis......please let me know what works (even as a temporary fix).

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      Sammie 3 years ago from Florida

      Hi,everyone

      It's been almost 3 yrs now that we've broken up. I thought I was going crazy cause I've tried everything to get over this. It seem like it was just yesterday. My feelings for her has not gone away, not a little bit. When we was together we was inseparable, noone believed we wasnt together anymore. It happened as if something was being control by someone else. I've tried to move forward but I can't each time It end up with someone being hurt. I hvnt spoke to her in a year cause its to painful. I thought I'll give myself some time to soul search, get on track with God and heal, but I manage to do all but heal. There's time when I'm not thinking of her or I'm having fun with my friends and low and behold the thoughts of her. Still able to feel her lips. Wondering if she's moved on and forgotten about me. Surprise she pops up on my fb status, just to like them even thou were are not friends on fb, but we never say anything to each other. I really just wanna get pass this. I thought I was the only one that felt this way until today.

      Thank you for blogging.