- Gender and Relationships
My Relationship Issues
I have been in a lot of relationships. But i fell in love my best partner whose name i will not like to mention about 5 years back. We were together for about 5 years. Spent good time together. A little bit misunderstandings and eventually we got apart recently. I wanted to share some of the things which made our relationship suffer a lot. I hope you will try to adhere to the tips. And believe me it will help any one in establishing good trust, confidence and a better relationship.
You partner is not just a partner
Make one thing sure that your partner is not just a partner. He is determined to share his whole life with you, so do not think of him/her as a partner only. Make sure that you both share your feelings, experiences and secrets as a friend. First you have to make sure that you are good friends as well as partners and soul mates. And a friend sweeter than honey and higher than the mountains of Himalayas.
Being in a relationship is more than just two human beings spending life together. You have to compensate, appreciate and support your partner. You have to support him/her in every phase of the life. In every good and bad. Compliment each other every now and then.
Let bygones be bygones
Yes, just forget what both of you have had in the past. Do not let the past ruin your future. Just concentrate on the future to ensure that both of you have a healthy relationship in future.
Give your time to each other
Do not get consumed in making money or with outer things. Give proper time to who you love. Spend time together and make time for yourselves. Time spent between you and your love would be the time worth anything to you in the longer everything will come and go but this time will never come again .
Give control to each other
Relationship is a mutual understanding mostly, so make sure you give a little bit control of your lives to yourselves and share the control. If your girlfriend wants to take charge or control of something or some issue, let her. And same in the case of a boyfriend.
Common goals in life
Always try to find some common aims or goals in your lives. You are living together doing everything together. This is the bond which will never be broken. Start syncing your every day lifestyle. Share thoughts, share common goals and targets in your life.You will not only succeed in achieving your goals but also in your love life.
Anger related issues
And mostly boys start getting angry at little things. I recently read an article shared by my friend on tip fuss, and believe me i do not know the author but he/she has opened the heart out and enlisted some of the best tips for boys on how to strengthen the relationship. And its worth a read.
In the end i would wish all of you a very happy social and love life,