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Searching for Love Online to Learn Too Late the Soul Mate Was Available at Home!

Updated on October 18, 2020
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Writing is my passion. I have an undying thirst and quest in the field of writing. Some eat, drink or use drugs when stressed; I write.

Some people take desperate measures to meet a guy/girl online when the very person who knocked at their entryway is directly in the home with them. But you know the best thing about discovering love reestablished in life is most of us realize what and where our limits are.

The illusion of this story is to share how we rarely set aside the effort to acknowledge what we have at home. We choose the wrong partners and try to get together with people who do not know or belong with us. Now to share a tale that had a very sad ending.

Malcolm was so bored and annoyed with the things going on at home that he spent an unhealthy amount of time on the Internet. He joins Social Media looking for someone or something to fill the emptiness he felt. And without self-knowledge, he had a hard time figuring out the woman he was sharing his life with.

After connecting with a high school buddy on Facebook, Malcolm meets a young lady, Name Emma. A woman who edifies him, so he spends more and more time sitting in front of his computer chatting with her. Malcolm's friend base proliferated, and he had more than a thousand friends in a month term.

Malcolm was a business owner who knew only a few females, so he joined a private Facebook group for single males and females looking for companionship. He met Emma from the group, and all Malcolm wants to do is sitting in front of his computer and learn more and more about her since she was the most significant thing in his life.

Meanwhile, Sara was tired of hearing the tap, tap, tap of his computer. She wanted to feel loved, to feel needed, but she would not get it from Malcolm. Sara felt lonely and was rarely excited, but she is even less thrilled when Malcolm lock himself in the office with that darn laptop.

She thought there is only one thing for me to do, and that was to get a computer and get on the Internet too. She wants to find someone online that would give her the love she most desires and, Sara hopes to find a man that needs her and will give her the attention she so desperately needs.

Sara also wants someone who would take the time to listen to her and give her that full respect that as powerful for him as unconditional love is for her. There are a lot of sites for finding love. She was uncertain whether to join social media or a dating site.

When Sara joined a Social Media group for finding the love of your life, she didn’t have the foggiest idea which famous locales will permit her to expand her status. Sara posted her bio; she wrote, I am an Indian accent NYC, 27 years of age, five feet, and six inches.

I earned my Bachelor of Arts in televising reporting and business in Phoenix, Arizona. I am also a singer-songwriter for which I am famous for such hits as “We all want to be Loved” and “I will take care of my King and give him All He Need.

I have a loving heart although I love singing in the spotlight, I prefer to go unnoticed to society, yet want attention from the man of my dream as I shower him with much appreciation.

The biography satisfied her, and she was happy with the old photo she had cut out of a magazine, so she joined the online dating service. Sara was tired of feeling lonely and disconnected from the relationship she thought she had at home. She was ready to find love. The picture did not look like her so, no one would know

Primary technology rules the world today, and many people rely on computers to find love. And because so many rely upon the Internet as the key research findings. It has triggered all kinds of utopian and dystopian perceptions around the world. The impact of the Internet on society can be an enormous convenience or a tremendous problem. Some people so depending on the Internet that it difficult for them to envision their existence without it.

Looking for love on the Internet rarely works because many put on a bogus front and neglects to conceal their genuine personalities. I am not saying that searching for love on the Internet is entirely wrong, yet dating on the web limit you, and it brings about thousands of scam artists.

Meeting a guy face to face also has things you must look out for daily. However, some people turn to the Internet because meeting another face-to-face thing keeps going wrong. And from what I read about online dating, it not a refreshing change — it consists mostly of liars, trying to cast their net as broad as possible.

Although some people put themselves on the line to the possibilities of love, some put themselves at risk and refuse the chance of love. And when you are comfortable in your mediocrity, you choose to be blind to love because you are someone who has had bad experiences with dating or with a previous marriage.

Many are searching for any form of guide to help ensure a higher success rate in love. There are many hidden dangers a female should know in the world of Internet dating while searching for love online, but one thing, in particular, is a Pickup Artist (PUA).

A Pickup Artist (PUA) is a guy who will act impeccably and accommodate a female in every way until he has slept with her. They spent most of their time leaving a long trail of broken hearts behind them. So ladies, please watch out for the signs so you might have the best internet dating experience.

Sara begins to review her matches and read different emails, she views an email about a forty-six-year-old divorced father of two searching for an attractive female to bring out the best in him, but she felt he was a creep and a bore.

Nevertheless, that was until that one email that turned her head. He called himself Will, and he seemed fitting to her somehow.

He seems so comfortable in his style of writing; he had encouraged her to open up and tell him about who she really was. That sounded so reviving. She signed her letters “Emily” and although it was not her name, that is whom she had always wanted to be.

Sara reads: “Dearest Emily.”

After receiving your email, it came like lightning through a blue, clear sky, and as I read, the tears glistened my face in the form of a heavy moonlight. I know it might sound weak for a man to cry, but I so long desired my life to be so fervently, only having the whisper come back empty. Your message struck like a fire consuming my heart, leaving my body sighing.

He wrote after one month of heart-rending correspondence.

“You never need to feel solitude again. I vow I will always be here.”

She loved reading those words and looked smugly over the dinner table at Malcolm that night. He slurped his soup and then hid his face behind the newspaper. She could never imagine Will ever slurping soup.

Sara imagined Will whirling her away to foreign places. Her heart leaped with love every time she thought of him. He was everything she ever wished for and everything Malcolm could never be.

Although Will emails her by the name Emily, Sara felt it was about time she shares with Will her actual name as she was getting caught up in a giant spider web of love for him.

As Sara read each email, it was as if he were her ideal guy and his words naturally — flowing as smoothly as the water dropping from a beautiful waterfall, and she recalled her broken engagements as she views them.

Sara found herself not only saving the emails but re-reading them over and over. In the emails, Will asked Sara a series of questions, which she answered and emailed back quickly.

As Sara returns each email, she knew she was falling hard for Will. Finally, Sara knew she must face the essential question. Sara kept asking herself, can the beautiful love I am experiencing and desires from exchanging emails turn into a lasting relationship form from the sharing of heart-rending emails?

Sara thought she was ready to put the love to the test. And put her broken heart behind her as she could not stop thinking about Will

Sara was prepared to let down her wavy brown hair and love again, and her heart raced with every email she opens and read.

Ladies, there have been countless sad stories about different females who seem to search for love on the Internet only to learn their perfect man was at home the entire time. It is heartbreaking to notice the love of your life is in front of you when it is too late.

Ladies never hold Mr. Right to an unexpected standard or a picture-perfect standard and assume the person you with can’t meet your expectation.

Also, never think the relationship you in should go perfect step out of the box and remember the relationship depends on the needs of both parties, not just you.

Also, remember it’s up to you to reveal Mr. Right as the perfect man you control the direction of your life. You must be able to focus on and manage your lives as much as possible.

Never take the relationship you in for granted because sometimes one cannot see that the person you are initially with appeared to be your perfect man right under your nose until it is too late.

Except, before Sara could see the love she had at home with Malcolm’s He died, Sara had to go through the motions of the funeral and arrangements, but it was not until much later when the guests had gone that she walked into his Office.

Will had not written in four days, four days when she needed him most. She typed an email, with such sadness in her heart:
“I love you, Will. and I want us to be together always. Maybe even as man and wife.”

She imagined his arms around her. She envisioned his body next to hers. She knew that she could love him and that nothing could ever come between them.

She thought he would write tonight, but when she checks for it, there were no emails in the inbox. Reaching down into the drawer of Malcolm’s desk, she continued to sort through bundles of paper until one bunch caught her eye.

Wrapped in pink ribbon were folded up messages, printed from the computer, and as she opened the first one, she suddenly realized her loss was more than she ever expected.
When she read the words: “My dearest Will” in the first letter she unfolded, sent by the person she called herself, Emily.

Sara befell more pain than she could ever imagine, but it was too late. She had wasted time searching for love online only to realize her soul mate was available at home.

Do you agree some people are searching for love online when the love of their life are right under their nose, and they can't see it?

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This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2015 Pam Morris


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    • Pam Morris profile imageAUTHOR

      Pam Morris 

      5 years ago from Atlanta Georgia

      Thank you for the nicely written comment and helpful word. It greatly appreciate and make perfect sense.

    • dashingscorpio profile image


      5 years ago from Chicago

      Voted up and useful!

      "Also, remember it's (up to you) to reveals Mr. Right as your perfect man, you control the direction of your own life."

      Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.

      Online dating is just another (tool) for meeting new people.

      Ultimately we have to have our own "mate selection criteria" or process.

      If anyone finds they are having one bad dating experience after another they need to re-examine (their) mate selection process.

      The only thing all of your bad relationships have in common is (you)!

      Hopefully with age and experience comes wisdom.

      It's not how you meet but whom you meet that counts!

      Always use good commonsense when dealing with strangers both online and offline! One man's opinion!:)


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