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Quiz: Is Your Partner Faithful?
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Do you suspect the faithfulness of your partner? Do you fear that he or she may be cheating on you?
It is important to come to grips with your feelings. Perhaps you're just being paranoid. In any event, running through this quick quiz of warning signs of infidelity may help you to get a handle on the truth. Ask yourself these questions:
How Did You Do?
Be honest with yourself, but also fair to your partner, to find out the truth.
Quite often, the very fact that you feel that there is something wrong with the relationship is a negative sign. Perhaps it means your partner is unfaithful, perhaps it merely means that you are unhappy with the relationship in some way.
Don't forget to pay attention to your intuition. Sometimes your conscious mind will overlook things that will be picked up by the subconscious. So give due credit to your inner signals.
Also, be aware of some of the other common signs of infidelity
Is your partner wary of sharing his or her email passwords with you?
Does your partner regularly come home late from the office due to "unscheduled meetings?"
When you pick up the telephone at home does the caller hang up without saying a word?
Does your partner fail to make good eye contact when you discuss important issues regarding your relationship?
Does your partner not wish to discuss your relationship at all with you?
Sometimes, trust Is best...
Remember that any healthy relationship is based on trust. No quiz can give you the final answer as to whether your partner is faithful or not. In most cases, it is better to trust your partner until incontrovertible evidence of cheating comes up. Don't risk your relationship due to undue jealousy or suspicion.
On the other hand, if you are truly unhappy with your relationship, it could be a sign that your partner is not the right one for you.
How To Avoid--and Resolve--Problems with Relationships
This may come as a shock, but starting a relationship is the easy part. Maintaining it is what's difficult!
When you think about it, a relationship is just a fragile bond between two people that must be maintained to keep it going. Whether you be a man or woman, you need to realize that to keep a relationship viable, you must concentrate on making your partner happy. This is the best way to avoid the stress of a breakup. And if your relationship should break up, the last thing you should do is engage in recrimination and self blame.
After a breakup many people turn the relationship over and over in their mind, wondering how they could have done things differently. They may even plan out apology letters or other things to get their ex back. Instead, they should mull over why they have reached this point.
Consider yourself: do you know how to make a woman happy? If you're not sure, you may want to consider the following advice.
The first and most important key is to be yourself. Many guys think that they are not good looking enough to attract a beautiful woman so they try to change their appearance. Instead, be yourself and be confident. Believe it or not, self-confidence is more attractive to women than any surface characteristics.
You can also form a bond with the woman by seeking out common interests. A hobby or other shared passion can bring two people together. A genuine shared interest is best, but you can also develop an interest in something she is interested in.
One of the best things you can do is show how important she is to you. There are many ways you can do that. Show that you are thinking about her. Give her small presents or send her flowers from time to time, especially on special occasions.
If you pay attention to what she is interested in when the two of you are out shopping together you can get a lot of clues about the kinds of things she is interested in. You will impress her when you show that you not only listen to what she says but you keep your eyes open to what she likes.
The most common mistake is to think that once you land a girl, your hardest work is over. If you think that after the "honeymoon," either real or symbolic, you can disregard how you look, you are wrong. Furthermore, do not look at other women when you are out together. Maintain your sense of humor. Be ready and willing to make her laugh and have fun.
Also, be willing to try new things. In the early stages of a relationship, everything, from the dates you go on to the way you kiss, will seem new to each other. After a while, however, these things will start to become routine.
Get to know and make a good impression on her family and friends. You want to become a part of her life as a whole. Make a good impression on her parents. After all, they will help her to validate her choice of relationships.
Be aware of her feelings and sensitive to her mood. If this effort is too much for you, then you should reconsider entering into a relationship in the first place.
Women can be emotional and if they start to feel a distance in their relationship they may not even know why. If your woman should need some space in the relationship, then try to forget about it for a while. Go out with your friends, have fun, and give her the space she needs.
Give yourself one or two months to make changes in your life. Show that you're not totally dependent on her and that you are willing to respect her need for some space. This is a good time to figure out what you want out of life as well as from your relationship. You may even find this is a good time to compare your life with her to your life without her.
There was a good reason why the two of you formed a relationship in the first place, and that basis for the relationship should remain even after a couple of months apart. If getting back with your significant other is meant to be, this is the time at which it will become apparent.
On the other hand, you should avoid overanalyzing the situation. It's best to allow time to provide the answers you want. Just play it cool.
Such a strategy will allow you to make gradual changes in your life and in the ways in which you perceive your relationship.
After a little time has elapsed, you will have a better idea of how to proceed. At this time, you will be in a better position to decide whether you want to get back together with her or you are ready to move on with your life.
If you still desire a reconciliation, it is time to get a grasp on her feelings for you. Be casual and humble, do not be demanding of your ex that she should take you back.
If you have concluded that you don't wish to be alone, call her and arrange for coffee together. This is not for talking about getting back together, but to simply share what has been going on in your lives.
If you still love her then it will be worth the effort!
Flirting with Married Women
There are two reasons why people flirt. The first is just to have a fun, person-to-person interaction. The second is to meet someone for a possible relationship. A man will flirt with a woman to attract and seduce her.
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