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Saying “I Love You” With Flowers, Gems, Chocolate, Gourmet, Wine, Chick Flicks and Other Gifts

Updated on October 5, 2010



Love is always bestowed as a gift - freely, willingly and without expectation. We don't love to be loved; we love to love.
Leo Buscaglia

Birth Month Flowers

  • January – Carnation
  • February – Violet
  • March – Daffodils
  • April  -  Daisy
  • May – Lily of the Valley
  • June – Rose
  • July – Larkspur
  • August – Gladiolus
  • September – Aster
  • October – Calendula
  • November – Chrysanthemum
  • December – Narcissus



January: Garnet
February: Amethyst
March: Aquamarine
April: Diamond
May: Emerald
June: Pearl
July: Ruby
August: Peridot
September: Sapphire
October: Opal
November: Citrine
December: Blue Topaz

Anniversary Flower

1st - Pansy

2nd - Cosmos

3rd - Fuchsia

4th - Geranium

5th - Daisy

6th - Calla Lily

7th - Jack-in-the-Pulpit

8th - Clematis

9th - Poppy

10th - Daffodil

11th - Morning Glory

12th - Peony

13th - Hollyhock

14th - Dahlia

15th - Rose

20th - Day Lily

25th - Iris

28th - Orchid

30th - Sweet Pea

40th - Nasturtium

50th - Violet

Love is an Action Word

There is a flower and a gem for every occasion. Chocolate goes with all of them. Some gourmet comfort food, a little ambiance, a bottle of wine and a good movie can make a special occasion or date night at home a memorable event. Keep the event simple or make it as extravagant as you like.

Beginning with the table, consider using what you already have in terms of tableware and linens. If you prefer, buy new tableware and linens for yourself or as a gift. For a theme such as Italian cuisine or a luau or a favorite sports team, paper products from PartyCity or similar retail stores will serve you well.

The center piece can be a fresh bouquet of flowers. Use the key at the right as a guide for selecting flowers by birth month, current month or anniversary year. Pro Flowers will deliver wine, chocolates and gifts as well as flowers. The Chocolate Source, however is the source for gourmet chocolate. It would be worthwhile to order any chocolates separately. If desired, formal invitations can be sent or emailed, and formal attire required.

Chicago Steak Company and Mackenzie Limited are excellent choices for gourmet steaks, seafood, side dishes, hors d’oeuvres, and desserts that are shipped to your home. Chateaubriand or Beef Wellington with twice baked potatoes and a green bean casserole for the entrée and a New York style cheesecake for dessert are my recommendations. Maine Lobster, Alaskan King Crab Legs, Chesapeake Bay favorites, Smoked Salmon or caviar might appeal more to seafood lovers. Chicken, pork and Italian sausages are also available.

Soft music, candles, dim lights and the smells of fresh flowers and gourmet food create a calm and soothing ambiance. Season permitting, a fire in the hearth of a rustic room would add to the soothing quality of the evening.

If it’s a birthday or anniversary celebration, use the keys to the right and below to match a gem and flower to the occasion. Of course a wedding proposal would traditionally be made with diamonds. A pearl set with a necklace, earrings and bracelet would be a good choice for any occasion. A charm bracelet with a meaningful charm that signifies a shared event or cherished memory is another idea that will also serve as a reminder of this special occasion. Wind the evening down with a chick flick from Lifetime or a thriller from HBO.

Anniversary Gemstones

1st: Gold Jewelry, Pearl, or Peridot

2nd: Garnet.

3rd: Pearl or Jade

4th: Blue topaz or blue zircon.

5th: Sapphire or pink tourmaline.

6th: Amethyst or Turquoise

7th: Onyx, Yellow Sapphire, or Golden Beryl

8th: Tourmaline or Tanzanite

9th: Lapis Lazuli, Amethyst, or Green Spinel

10th: Diamond Jewelry or Blue Sapphire

11th: Turquoise, Citrine, or Yellow Zircon

12th: Jade or Opal

13th: Citrine, Moonstone, or Hawk's Eye

14th: Opal, Agate, or Bloodstone

15th: Ruby, Rhodolite Garnet, or Alexandrite

16th: Peridot (evening emerald) or Red Spinel

17th: Watches or Carnelian

18th: Cat's Eye or Chrysoberyl or Aquamarine

19th: Aquamarine or Almandine Garnet

20th: Emerald, Yellow or Golden Diamond

21st: Iolite

22nd: Spinel

23rd: Imperial Topaz

24th: Tanzanite

25th: Silver Jubilee, Tsavorite, or Green Garnet

30th: Pearl Jubilee

35th: Emerald

40th: Ruby

45th: Sapphire or Cat's Eye

50th: Golden Jubilee, Imperial or Golden Topaz

55th: Alexandrite

60th: Diamond Jubilee or Star Ruby

65th: Blue Spinel

70th: Sapphire Jubilee or Smoky Quartz

75th: Diamond Jubilee

80th: Ruby Jubilee


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    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      true e-man, you do not, but everyone else does!

    • epigramman profile image


      8 years ago

      .....I don't have to DO ALL OF THAT - in order just to say how I feel about you ...... sincerely!!!!!!

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      Ahhhhhhhhhhh!!! You're very welcome, Denise.

    • Denise Handlon profile image

      Denise Handlon 

      8 years ago from North Carolina

      Kim--actually, not b/c it is my birthday flower, but daisies are my favorite flower. I like their purity and 'innocence'. It was the flower I carried in my wedding bouquet. And, sweet pea--well, that's my nickname for my 2 yr old grandson... Thanks for adding April, :)

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      There. It's fixed Denise. It's Daisy, but sweet pea is an alternate.

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      OOPS! Hmmm. I didn't notice. Soooo sorry! It might be both. I will definitely fix that. Thanks for pointing it out.... and for reading and commenting anyway!

    • Denise Handlon profile image

      Denise Handlon 

      8 years ago from North Carolina

      Kim-I enjoyed the information you gave but was bummed to find that 'April' was left out of your list of months for 'flower of the month'. I'm sure it wasn't intentional, however, that's my birthday month, LOL ! (I believe it is either the sweet pea or daisy-can't remember). Maybe an edit to stick it in (hint hint). Nice work.

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      Hi Nell! Thank you for stopping in for a read. (I'm working on a poem right now, and feel compelled to rhyme with Nell! so, what the hell I think I shall) sorry! I can't be helped. I really do appreciate your stopping to read and comment!

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      Nell Rose 

      8 years ago from England

      Hi, this is great, I can never remember the dates that go with the flowers and gem stones etc, this one is definitely bookmarked so I know where to find it, thanks nell

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      Send me your address Micky Dee and I'll some flowers, chocolate and gourmet your way. Love you. Loving me back is not required. Although, taking the time to read and post a comment is clearly an act of love! Thank you for that my loyal friend.

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      Micky Dee 

      8 years ago

      Beautiful hub as always Kim! I wish I were still alive to enjoy romance! I'm afraid my real love life passed away. God bless you!

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      @e-man. I wish I could have seen your face when you saw that hub! I saw Micky Dee's comment on one of you hubs, and hadn't "seen" him for awhile, so I went to his profile page and saw his epigram to you. I wanted to stay up all night until you posted a comment, but better judgment got the best of me again and I got a good night's sleep instead. (sorry) Take good care of you e-man. Your kind words have become my daily sustenance.

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      @triosol. Thank you!

    • epigramman profile image


      8 years ago

      ..everytime I land on these hubs with my epi-man space craft I feel love .... and in particular with this one - hunger - lol - but I also hunger for your hall of fame comments and your support because without people like you there would not be people like me!

      I just came over from Mister Dee's hub tribute - awestruck and frankly overwhelmed - exactly the same feeling I had when I saw your tribute hub (another greatest hub of all time) ..because it came from someone like!!! And that means a lot!!!!!

    • triosol profile image


      8 years ago

      beautiful hub. voted up.

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      Good. Glad you find it useful Jake, and I hope it meets your needs for many anniversaries to come. Love your profile pic!

    • JakeMcMurphy profile image


      8 years ago from Chicago

      Awesome stuff! I copied the anniversary flower list and pasted it to a file for later use. This stuff will definitely come in handy!

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      Thanks Vern. I'm not sure I'd have room for cheesecake after the entree. I would wait til after the movie...but maybe just a taste. It would be good with a glass of wine. Thanks for the tip on Trader Joe's.

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      Vernon Bradley 

      8 years ago from Yucaipa, California

      An abundance of handy information, Kim. A gem of a hub for those of us who might be a little ignorant at a given special moment or night.

      Trader Joe's has the best New ork Cheesecake for only 6 something. Not very many ingredients, just cheesecake minus all the chemicals found in other store cheesecake.

      I like knowing what stones for what year. That is cool.


    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      if you can't see it, try

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      well thanks dahoglund. I'm enjoying the Axe commercials myself! I appreciate your taking the time to read and comment.

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      Don A. Hoglund 

      8 years ago from Wisconsin Rapids

      Interesting hub.

    • kimh039 profile imageAUTHOR

      Kim Harris 

      8 years ago

      thanks alekhouse.

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      Nancy Hinchliff 

      8 years ago from Essex Junction, Vermont

      Interesting kim, thanks.


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