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15 Surefire Signs He Loves You

Updated on May 4, 2011

Dating is a challenging task for most people. For others, figuring things out is quite easy. In general, men know how to deal with a relationship and they can make a woman feel loved and desired even if they don’t have feelings for her. Your boyfriend might be a jerk- that’s the cruel truth. In order to find out whether he cares about you or he only wants to have someone to be with when he is feeling alone, pay special attention to the following love signs:


1. He Loves to Watch You

He stares at you for prolonged periods of time. If you catch your boyfriend staring at you all the day long, then he is interested in you and enjoys being with you. 

2. He Stops Dating Other Women

Although most men will chat at some point in life, those who are in love will be faithful at least in the first months of a relationship. If your boyfriend tells you that he wants to stop dating other women and he keeps his word, then he really loves you (at least for now). 

3. He Wants to Know How You Feel

You find that is he constantly texting you.  If your boyfriend is calling you and sending you text messages on a regular basis, it probably means he loves you and wants to take your relationship to the next level.

4. He Confesses You

Your boyfriend often tells you things that he doesn’t tell anyone else. This means that he trusts you and he is in love with you.

5. He Says “I Love You” Often

Most men are afraid to share their feelings and show their sensitive side. If your boyfriend says the “L” word more often that you’d expect, than you should believe him. If he admits that in public, there is no doubt that he really loves you. 

6. Your Boyfriend Shows His Weaknesses

He lets you see him in moments of weakness. For any guy, showing weakness in front of a girl is unacceptable, but if he truly loves you he will show it.

7. He Wants You to Meet His Parents

In general, a guy will ask you to meet his parents only if he wants to take the relationship to the next level. Even if he doesn’t care about what they think, he makes the relationship official by telling his parents about you. 

8. He Disagrees with You

When you’re talking about something, he isn’t afraid to disagree with you.  When you’re in the first stages of dating, he will likely agree with everything you say.  However in the later stages he is more likely to speak his mind. That is because he knows that you like him the way he is. 

9. Your Boyfriend Makes Future Plans

Whether your boyfriend talks about going on a trip together or he asks you to move with him, pay special attention to his words. The fact that he includes you in his future plans is one of the main signs he loves you and wants to spend his life with you. If your boyfriend uses “we” when talking about future, than you are part of his life. 

10. He Tries to Get Things Work Out

He encourages you to help work out the major differences between you two. He is not afraid to admit that both of you need to fix some issues in order to improve your relationship.

11. Your Boyfriend Makes You Feel Comfortable

When you’re with him, you often find yourself laughing and having a great time. This shows that you’re relaxed in his presence, and that he really cares about the way you feel.

12. He Wants You to Meet His Friends

A guy won’t take you out when he meets his friends unless he cares about you. The fact that he wants you to get to know his friends and that he tries to show them how great you are shows that he is proud of you. If your boyfriend loves you, then he will want to share with his friends how happy he is to have found a girl like you.

13. He Is Truly Interested in You

Your partner asks you about your dreams and your desires, and he wants to know everything about your future plans. He asks you what you need, and feels concerned if something is wrong with you. 

14. He Enjoys Spending Time with You

When you’re in the park or on the street, your boyfriend walks very slowly.  This shows that you both want to spend as much time as possible together. 

15. He Can Comfort You When You Have a Bad Day

Your boyfriend knows how to make you smile even when you're having a bad day.  If he gets uncomfortable when you are upset, then he is not ready for a relationship with you. . If you feel you can automatically turn to him when 'times are tuff', and he is able to make you to feel better, then you have a guy who really cares about you. 

For a full list of love signs, check out Super Love Tips!


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      maramerce 3 years ago from United States

      I hope I find someone like that someday. It's been forever since anyone wanted to spend time with me.

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      diana 6 years ago

      Great tips! Keep writing!