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sissy men and the women who love them

Updated on August 10, 2011

am i a pervert miss?

of course you are, dear. but what's wrong with that? the last time i checked, not a single soul was ever really hurt [at least not physically] by wearing a frilly gown or a tutu or some beautiful silky knickers. you are not a freak. you're just expressing desires and passions differently. some women will love it, some will HATE it and others will want to borrow your outfits! hopefully you can have the first and last and stay clear of the middle. poor things. no, you're not bad for wanting to dress feminine. you're also not BAD for wanting to have your wife or girlfriend accept you for everything you are. in fact, if you don't have that, i suggest finding it before your time is up. we should ALL be found guilty of being ourselves at heaven's gate. the other sins are still in question at this time. being truly, uniquely YOU is nothing to shame one's self over. it's for your mistress to shame you, if that's your choice. [it's my personal favorite, but that's really neither here, nor there.] i want you to know you're gorgeous.

will i ever find her?

absolutely you will. as soon as you are READY to find her. i promise you, the woman for you is out there. she is willing and ready to let you service her as maid, as friend... and giggle like one of the girls. she will make sure you shop with her and you can rest assured she has bitch potential, Goddess potential and great best friend potential. it all depends on how open you are to receiving these gifts. just like any relationship, you have to be willing to dive in and get hurt. that can be the sissy's biggest issue. for one thing, sissies need the UTMOST trust. they need safety. trusting early on, in fact, too early on in a relationship can lead to a lifetime of bad decisions. i think this is why many men stay out of the whole fetish completely. some men, well, they love the risk. the fact is, every single feminised male will be different and unique in some way. i am learning that what my previous sissy wanted, my current lover has nothing to do with. there is no suckling, for one thing. while i miss it slightly, it's just not his thing. but his panties. his corset and my flogging hand gets a lot of use. you have to be ready and open to love. this is a time of reconciling your manhood with your girlishness. those frills and frocks are waiting on you. and the woman who will love them? she is ready too. she's dominant and possibly controlling [such as i am] but i'll bet her heart is pure gold. she will ADORE being spoiled, and not expect it. she knows what is best for you, she will lead and let you melt in her lap. my favorite task as a Domme [and yes, we have them too!] is allowing my pet to rest his head on my breast or in my lap and petting him. this gives him the feeling of complete servitude and submission. it's a very feminine act. women cry on one another all the time. [or most of us with close girlfriends do] and it's nice! why wouldn't a boy desire that? i say, if a woman cannot let you cry and pout in her lap, move on. she's not the one for a sissy.

what should i do right now?

well, besides stop touching yourself you naughty, naughty sissy boy, you SHOULD start believing in your emotions as valuable. sure, work is hard. you've had your nose to the grindstone for years, now, have you not? no breaks. no tasks to come home to. just a sort of frown on your face as you leave the office. [another night alone, or WORSE, another night hiding who you probably were meant to be deep down.] you cannot imagine the fun and thrill of finding yourself able to explore who you need to be. i think you should let it out. go enjoy a pink cocktail! [even if you have to make it yourself.] put in an umbrella. CELEBRATE your sissy side and put on those satin panties and have a couple of tugs and then go to sleep. but seriously... why not talk to someone about it? find a friend you can trust. go to a therapist. or even write or comment here. you are not alone. the world is cruel and even though *I*, too, am cruel at times, i love to see the vulnerable, crying sissy side of men. a man who is trying to control me does nothing for me. in fact, i am so spoiled i just want to kick them for trying to treat me like ANYTHING other than a Goddess. well, obviously, that's not going to happen every time i am out. so even miss m pouts. :P be a good boy. write yourself a letter. start a little journal and PASSWORD PASSWORD PASSWORD if you must. write about how satin makes you feel. how the vulnerable side juxtaposes to your strong powerful executive side. learn to explore both, and balance the good and bad of both. finally, love yourself enough to take care of you. go back to the gym. fit into that little nightie you have wanted for years. patiently reach out to women who *do* accept sissy boys and even other sissy boys. be playful. go to the cosmetics section [in another town if need be] and buy gifts for "your girlfriend." be your own girlfriend! or take your wife out and buy her something beautiful. watch her eyes light up. stop being a selfish sissy and learn to contribute to beautiful women. share secrets. but above ALL else, love yourself. let yourself be loved and celebrated. find a woman who will adore you because of your sissy fetish... not despite it.


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      sissy joanne 4 months ago

      I think the reality is that women in general want a man not a 'girlfriend'. I always wonder though if there are just a few, very few, women who might just become so in love with someone they might be prepared to give these things a try. My own experiences are that if you give off the natural (sic) sissy vibe most women will avoid you anyway. Those that don't will probably be even more weird and difficult to live with than the sissy is. It is, for example, one thing to be a sissy but you can still have your feet on the ground: you are not obsessively jealous, or hopelessly neurotic or incapable of getting on with the requirements of leading an otherwise sensible life. The only woman I ever met who enthused the dominant lifestyle was, by her own admission, a medical headcase. I think it boils down to wishful thinking, and at age 58 and having realistically given up ever being able to fulfil this extraordinary lifestyle with anyone who is not so desperate as to be impossible to live with, I also have to say that I assume there is still the requirement to find the partner in some way attractive; such has not been my fortune. I ask for no sympathy whatsoever. No-one ever said life would be fair! I cope by using the adage that if I can' t have it I don't want it.

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      Big kitty 5 months ago from Orlando

      Pretending to be a girlie girl sissy has always been a favorite time well spent. I mean who doesn't want to act girly once in awhile. I wear those short 50's petticoats under skirts and dresses all the time and they will make any guy feel really feminine forever.

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      Your Name 18 months ago

      help me find a wife

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      BobbyHoskinsPanties 20 months ago

      I have been wearing panties for a long time. Started with my moms, moved to friends and strangers, and slowly starter acquiring my own. I love it and do not plan on stopping. hehe

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      jenni 2 years ago

      I passionately want to dress in matching panties and nighties, curl up by the fire, cuddle and tenderly kiss you forever. Are you out there

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      Ross 2 years ago

      I'm 20, I have a little pencil skirt and I keep putting on her pants in front of her and saying I like them and I feel sexy, but she says I'm gay, and I'm not, I just want to be a sissy loved by my gf for who I am.

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      miss mummy 2 years ago from USA

      Danny, I will say a prayer you find this experience. Big, squishy hugs...

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      Danny 2 years ago

      I have had an fem fettish for about 60 yrs and have never found a woman who would love me so I married and divorced many times where do you find a good woman who would love a cd?

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      Danny 2 years ago

      I have had an fem fettish for about 60 yrs and have never found a woman who would love me so I married and divorced many times where do you find a good woman who would love a cd?

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      Warren 3 years ago

      I love this viewpoint of sissydom.

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      Kristin 3 years ago

      I am a sissy man I love heels and toying my self I want to become a woman in the worst way but I need to know where to go and how to do it I love my heels in the worst way leggings and I want to find a woman or another like me to be in a relationship with or a man to and pay for me to do it for them

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      gjui 4 years ago


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      Serena 5 years ago

      Awww. That was soooo sweet. Just the type Goddess I am craving to be with.

      Maybe you ARE the She Who Must Be Obeyed for me!?

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      Will 5 years ago

      Hi, I am 18 and I am very submissive, and like to dress up in women's clothing, I really want a mistress/master. Will You help me? My email is

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      Jessicacd11 5 years ago

      I a married now and my wife hates that i want to dress as a women. I need to be able to be myself and it seems I will never be able to I'm 28 and the years keep going by. Everyday I don't wake up in lingerie it hurts. I don't know what to do

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      jim 5 years ago

      I never knew i was a sissy. I knew I loved aggressive women, but was lucky enough to find a woman that let me know. she knew and helped me. She was and is a caring dom. I love her

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      5 years ago

      I love putting sexy knickers on when my wife goes out I'll dress up in french maids out fit

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