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Dirty Talk Examples That Will Transform Your Love Life!
Learn How To Talk Dirty To Your Partner
Want to add some well needed spice to your love life? Learning how to talk dirty to your partner is one of the most effective things you can do to rekindle that missing, or dying flame in your love life. If you have never tried it before, you really don't know what you are missing out on!
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7 Amazing Dirty Talking Tips!
Below you will find 7 dirty talking tips to help you get started with talking dirty.
Dirty Talking Tip #1 - Be original!
In other words… be yourself! Don’t go about it trying to imitate what you have seen in a movie… you might end up messing up or spoiling the moment.
In order to be effective at dirty talking, you have to create your own style… one which complements your personality and will also appeal to your partner.
Dirty Talking Tip #2 - Use your talents!
If you have a good singing voice that your partner loves - that’s a plus! You could start out by singing a sexually charged song and use the power of your singing to drive him wild with desires (maybe you could go old school with “Bump and Grind” or something of your choice!).
If you are good with poetry, you could write him a very erotic poem and read it to him using the sexiest voice you can come up with.
Dirty Talking Tip #3 - Use the most ideal voice tone!
Use the voice tone that you are most comfortable with, one that will allow you to feel much more at ease. This will affect you confidence - making you a lot less likely to feel like you’re making a fool of yourself.
So if you are generally a soft spoken person - use that characteristic to great effect. If you are accustom to being more boisterous - then great... do your thing! Get down and dirty in your own way that makes you comfortable!
Dirty Talking Tip #4 - Practice dirty talking on your own!
If you intend on sharpening your skills, and want to become more spontaneous - you have to practice talking dirty when you are by yourself. Not only should you practice, you should practice new techniques when you’re alone (it’s up to you whether you want to play with yourself while practicing).
You don’t want to be using the same old routine over and over again… Your partner will at some point start getting bored, and find it less stimulating if you use the same methods each time.
Dirty talking Tip #5 - Use your body language!
Your body language is just as powerful as the words you speak when it comes to talking dirty! So whenever you are talking dirty, make sure you practice to communicating with your body as well.
In the middle of talking dirty - telling your partner how you want to be touched… as you describe to him, make sure to demonstrate it by caressing the areas of your body where you want him to touch.
Dirty Talking Tip #6 - Let your hands do the talking!
This tip is a bit similar to tip #5, but this time you are not focusing on touching just yourself, but your partner’s body as well. At this point his heart should be racing with excitement and anticipation... as you touch and stimulate certain areas of his body.
While using your hands to stimulate him… you should say something like - “I’m going to go up and down on you just like this!”(My example is boring; so use your own line here!).
Dirty Talking Tip #7 - Become his Cheer leader!
When I say become his cheer leader… I don’t mean just only do your little groans of pleasure like - aaaaH! Yesss! Yesss! … And so forth. Talk dirty in between those groans.
Cheer-on your partner when he’s making love to you. With every groan, say something like… “Oh babe, I just love the way you make me feel!” (You can add your own variation to this).
This is important to know!
Whatever he is doing to you, give him that assurance that makes him confident that he is pleasing you. So with every YESSS! Include something like… yes babe, right there! But add your own twists.
The most important thing is… whatever you do; it should make you and your partner comfortable. It should also be an expression of who you are. But it must achieve its objective of sexual fulfillment to both you and your partner at the end.
I do hope these tips were of help to you… even if dirty talking is something you are already familiar with, or just reading about out of curiosity. There is a lot more to this subject that is worth knowing about if you intend on taking dirty talking to the next level.
7 Benefits of Practicing Dirty Talking!
- It improves intimacy with your partner
- It makes sex more intense and much more exciting than ever before
- It improves your partner's confidence which will boost his performance in bed
- It makes you communicate in a sensual and a sexual language that goes beyond words or physical actions
- It shows your guy you are exactly what every man desires… a lady in the streets but freak in the sheets
- It makes your partner feel satisfied and will be less likely to cheat, because the therapeutic powers of dirty talking will leave him feeling that he's never going to find another quite like you
- Best of all, the effects will filter over into other areas of the relationship and bring about positive improvements
Dirty talking is great and can take a mediocre relationship to a whole new level. However, dirty talking is just the tip of the ice burg of the things you can do to improve your relationship, or restore the magic it once had.