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Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend

Updated on December 12, 2012

How to Get a Quality Girlfriend

You know what? There are a million random tips on how to get a girlfriend already out there. And they may help you to get just any old girlfriend. But, what about if you have standards. As in, you actually want to get a quality girlfriend?

It's not as easy as attracting just any woman, that is for sure. That does not mean that you need to hunker down with the first broad who comes your way, though. As long as you have a little self control and an idea for what you want out of life, you should be able to attract a woman who is fun to be with, who gets you, and she just might be pretty to boot.

First Things First.. Enjoy Yourself

Don't Stress Out Over Women

You can do a lot of improvement to your social life just by learning not to stress out about it. See, when someone is stressing... everyone around them can sense it. And for most people, stress is a bad thing. So, if you don't want to give off any bad vibes... learn how to enjoy yourself. Don't be that guy who is always thinking about every little detail. Don't be the guy who is awaiting the perfect moment. Just be IN the moment and enjoy yourself.

When most women start to list the things that they want in a boyfriend or a guy that they are dating... they usually list him being fun close to the top of the list. And why not? If you had your choice of who you could spend time with, would you want to spend time with someone who was stressed out and giving off bad vibes? Or would you prefer to be around someone that knew how to cut loose, how to have a good time, and was just plain old fun to be around?

Seriously, a lot of guys are just too uptight when they are looking for a girlfriend, and so, they wind up making it more tedious and more nerve racking than it has to be.

How to Get a Girlfriend
How to Get a Girlfriend

4 Secrets to Help YOU Get a Quality Girlfriend

The Cat's Coming Out of the Bag!

Some of the biggest secrets about getting a girlfriend are not really all that secret. It's more like, they are often overlooked more than anything else. If you really want to be able to get a girlfriend, you can't overlook the things that work.

Here are 4 secrets that will help you to get a quality girlfriend:

1) Have standards on who you will date.

You know and I know that most guys don't have much of any standard on the women that they date. Basically, if she will say yes to a date with them, that is all that it takes. That might sound cool, but it's really not setting you up for success. If you want to get a girlfriend who is a quality woman... then you better set some standards.

2) Be open to dating more than one woman.

This may "offend" some people, but you know what? Who cares! If you want to really get to know what it is that you want in a woman who becomes your girlfriend, then you have to get some experience. That means, that you have to do some dating around. It's not such a bad thing after all, and when you are open to dating more than one woman... you will come that much closer to attracting a woman who is what you really are looking for.

3) Dress for the role of being a good boyfriend.

You don't want to look like a slouch the day that your path just happens to cross with the woman of your dreams do you? Well, since you don't know when that is... then you want to be in your best appearance as often as possible. Get used to dressing as nice as you can, because you never know when that next trip to the store will also be the one where you bump into the right woman.

4) Have stuff to talk about with a woman.

This kills many guy's chances with a really good woman. They have NOTHING to say to her. Well, you have to be able to start conversations and those conversations better get her attention and get her intrigued. This is why it is a MUST that you develop some interesting hobbies, so that you have something that you can pull from to talk to her.

Is It Hard to Get a Girlfriend - Honest Answers Please

Tell me if you think that it is hard, easy, or just plain impossible to get a girlfriend. All men have different experience levels, and different experiences when it comes to dating. Tell me YOURS.

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Don't Bog Yourself Down When You Get Rejected

Ask any guy who has learned to do well with women and they will tell you that it just did not happen overnight. They did not wake up one morning as a guy that could get any woman that they wanted to. They all had to deal with getting rejected and you will too. It's inevitable that you will have to deal with this and you can't let it bog you down. You can't make it seem like getting told No, is the worst thing in the world. I know that it can feel that way at times, but it's really not that big of a deal. Think about it.

Would you be upset if you asked out 5 women and 3 of them said No to you? Well, if you think about the fact that 2 of them said Yes, then I doubt that you would be too upset that 3 of them rejected you. At the end of the day, you would have 2 women to date, and not many men have that. So, it really comes down to the way that you look at things. And if you do get rejected, bounce back from it, because it really does not mean a thing in the grand scheme of life.


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