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Top five sexy gifts to pamper your wife with that she will love

Updated on October 17, 2016

A gift guide for men

Most men have a very difficult time buying gifts for their wife or girlfriend, this article is to help to take the guess work out of gift giving for your woman.

As a Clinical Sexologist and Relationship Coach, I suggest gifts that promote better sexual intimacy in a relationship. One way for a woman to feel sexy is to have gifts from her husband that makes her feel sexy and loved. When she feels good about herself then she can share the love with her man. Keeping a relationship passionate is not always easy, and sometimes couples forget that they have to work on it. Explore the gift ideas below and open your mind to the possibilities of greater sexual intimacy with your woman.


Sensual massage is a wonderful way to connect

Human touch is so important in any relationship, it adds to the intimate connection between two people. One way to begin to connect again with your partner is to give them and intimate massage. One of my favorite types of massage oils is the soy based candles. When it is lit it will give any room a warm sensual glow, and fragrant smell. The best part is the soy oil is warmed to body temperature after it is lit and turns to liquid. Then you can drizzle it all over your lovers body without worrying about it being cold.

When massaging your lover take the time to make it a sensual massage, creating energy in every stroke and connecting on a deeper level. For a woman, it helps her to relax and let go of any worries of the day, placing her in a mood of sensuality. This is a gift that both of you can enjoy together.

Massage oil candles

Hand Held massagers

Massaging your spouse may get a little tiring so why not invest in a wonderful multi vibrating massager. She will love the feel and your hands won't tire out, so they can be used for other things later in the evening..

One of the best massagers is the Prosepra Penguin Massager:

The Penguin lets you enjoy the relaxing and invigorating effects of massage. Its head delivers infrared heat and 3,000 pulses per minute to provide powerful, penetrating relief.

The infrared heat reaches multiple muscle layers, making the Penguin ideal for targeting large muscle groups, such as those on your back, neck, chest, and legs. And when you want to work even deeper into muscles, simply apply slight pressure and the Penguin will provide a deep-tissue massage.

Now this is something that your wife will love and she can use it on you too!

Best Gift of All Amazing Sexual Intimacy - Intimacy counseling

Give your woman the gift of sexual intimacy, learn how to improve the love making in your relationship with intimacy counseling. Each week you and your partner will learn how to connect on a deeper level, through education, home assignments and open communication.

Intimacy Counseling


Intimate Products

Enhance your love making with intimate products. As a clinical sexologist I recommend that each couple have their own sexual tool box. Having sex toys, massages candles, lubrication, sexy outfits and more, at you disposal when the moment calls, is always a plus. Couples can even shop on line together, enjoying an evening of picking out new products and enjoying on expanding their own sexual tool box. Many times people forget after being in a relationship for some time that sex is suppose to be fun, not a chore or something that has to be done but an enjoyable connection. Having deep sexual intimacy in a marriage is what holds the marriage together and defines it from just being roommates or friends.

Spa Bath Products:

There is nothing better to relax your wife than a hot bath with scented sea salts and bath oils to soother her tired muscles and soften her skin.

Mistral Bath oil will soften her skin and leave her body with the fresh scent of Lavender. This 7 oz bottle of lavender bath oil is luxurious and smells wonderful.

The Citrus Spa Delights Bath set is another wonderful bath spa product. It has the scent of citrus, the magic of lemon butter and lotions, tangy bath gel and soaking balm on the skin. It will help your wife to relax and drift away.

The Citrus Spa Delights is available in Medium and Large (pictured).

Inside the brightly colored straw basket is:

Imported Mineral Spa Water 8oz

Music CD Relax & Rejuvenate

Fresh Citrus Shower Gel 8oz

Fresh Citrus Body Lotion 8oz

Cotton and Sisal Hand Sponge Decorative Floral Bright Striped Ribbon


Spa Towels and Robe

One of the most used items that your wife will appreciate and probably not buy for herself is a wonderful spa Towel and Robe. The quality of spa towels and robe are not like other products, they are thick, soft and luxurious.

Luxury Hotel White Terry Bath Towel is like going to the spa but better because she can use it everyday.

Product Description

Indulge in the Lap of Luxury with this Hotel Quality 4 piece Bath Towel Set. Our 100 % Genuine Turkish cotton Bath Towels are exceptionally soft to the touch and become even softer after every wash. The tender texture of the rich terry is highly absorbent and long lasting. Their double stitched edges offer 5 Star Hotel Quality and are guaranteed to become your bathroom's most elegant essential.

Which Product in this article do you like?

What is your favorite recommended product to get for your woman?

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    • SimonJay profile image

      SimonJay 4 years ago

      I haven't really heard of those candles before will definitely be looking into getting some thanks for the ideas.

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      theromanceshop 4 years ago

      there's nothing better than a sensual massage candle

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      liamsquidoo 5 years ago

      Great job on this lens, keep up the good work!

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      greentiger11 5 years ago

      I massage my wife at least 2 to 3 times a week but the spa robe and towels are a great idea to really give her the spa experience! The

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      Birthday Wishes 5 years ago from Here

      Two of the five I do almost every week... And we both love it! Thanks for sharing.

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      advancedmed 5 years ago

      Great lens.

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      mueedahmad 5 years ago

      All your lenses describes your deep information about sex. It is also a best lens from your collection.

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      Dawn Michael 5 years ago from Thousand Oaks

      @tweeky lm: Thank you for your comment :)

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      tweeky lm 5 years ago

      nice lens

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      Dawn Michael 6 years ago from Thousand Oaks

      @mamamia2011: There you go my point

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      mamamia2011 6 years ago

      Indeed, my husband has given my hand held massager last Christmas and I love it. :)