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what is the reason why relationship fail?
We all need someone to share this life, someone we look to his eyes, someone we hold his hands when we feel scared. I don't think that there is a human being anywhere on earth can live alone without a partner. Look around you now, roses live in a groups, and the moon lives with the stars, and we also learned to live in a groups, but we didn't stop at this point, we began to search for someone special to be our partner in this world, we put him in a beautiful painting in our minds, then we launched it " beloved " "sweet half " " honey ", then we began to feel the feeling that we call it "love". The question that I would ask you now is " have you found that person? " , no matter where you will find it, or how to find it, or when you will find it, the important is " what will you do when you find it? .. Actually, I've experimented with pain, grief and fracture for entire year for one reason is that I didn't ask this question to myself, I didn't have a clear picture of what should I do, the same thing is happening to many people around the world.
After a series of events that tooks place with me, I decided to see well romantic relationship, and I started looking for an answer to the question "what is the reason why relationship fail? Where is the problem? What happens make the relationship ends?" A year were enough to talk with 100 people, I asked them " what is the thing that you think is destroyed your relationship?" In the beginning I felt that the answers are different, everyone was seen this problem according to his own experience, but in the last, I reached a common answer is " no longer loves me, I no longer feel close to him." At this very moment outbursts at me a new question is "what makes us feel love? What makes us feel close to someone? What is the thing being done by that person so that makes us feel the love?" Here I felt that the answers are very close to each other, so that was in a single image in "interst" "when someone cares about us, we love him." .. if I ask you now "who is the person who will love him? Is it the beautiful? Or a person who cares about you?" (Of course it's nice to get the two qualities in one person.), stays we have one problem facing us now, we see a lot of people care, but we don't like them. why? there is one answer is " they care about us in a different way from the way that we like" so what's the solution? I think it's clear before our eyes, because I wil ask you now " what's the way that you see good to care about you?" " how would you like to care about you?" Always remember that roses need someone who will give them water, but they are choosing this person ..