Can We Read Other's Mind?
Reading other's minds
Today I’m going to talk about other minds and their reading. What I’m going to talk about is not the familiar one from philosophy, which is, “How can we know whether other people have minds?” That is, may be you have a mind, and everyone else is just a really convincing robot. So that is a problem in philosophy, but for today I am going to assume that many readers of my article have a mind, and that I don’t have to worry about this.
What every person always think.
Now come toward the topic that is, “Can we read other’s mind?” Why is it so hard to know other’s mind? Why it is so hard to know about likes and dislikes of other people? Why we can’t change other’s mood and hobbies according to ours.
Brain, a blessing of God.
Obviously brain is the thing which some people use to read other’s minds. Our brain is made up of brain cells that we share with other animals, with monkeys and mice and even with our pets. We can put them together in a particular network.
. There is a brain region in human brains, whose job is to think about other people’s thoughts. This region is given a name called as Temporo-parietal junction. This is a region which makes a picture of some event in our minds.
Possible ways to read minds.
People send signals about their thoughts all the time, however it is too much difficult to tune in others minds. Some people have a supernatural ability of doing this, while other needs a practice. Many people think that this kind of reading minds has no scientific approach. So mostly people do this by other ways like reading facial expressions, through communication, by getting knowledge about other’s comfort and emotions.
Reading other's mind by conversation.
Ways to read other's mind.
Some ways to read minds are following.
2. Covering every possibility.
3. Follow other’s reactions.
4. By conversation.
5. Natural power.
Ways which require practice:-
By praising someone you can perceive the inner qualities of other people. However it is important to use flattery that is based on truth. For example some traits for example hardworking, friendly, reliable, loyal, honest and smart can be used for any gender. By doing this people will start sharing about their lives their like’s daily routine so you can get idea about their thinking by some practice and hard work.
Covering every possibility
Second way is covering all the possibilities. This follows on from the previous technique, but instead of picking out one trait, you focus on two opposing qualities.
Firstly, the positive (helpful) and then the negative qualities are highlighted. Once again, you need to stick to generalities rather than using quantifiable facts.
Follow other’s reactions
Start with a general statement, watch for a reaction, and then move into specifics. Use their reaction to your general statement as a guide to which direction you should go in. For example
“You’re a positive person-wait for a reaction-when things go wrong you always find the positives in the situation. You see opportunities and make the best of things.”
For this your mind and soul should soak up the energy given off by the people and things around. Take few moments to visualize other person in mind. Visualize hairs, eyes, posture, body language and other details. Assume that person as a system and everything else as surrounding. Separate both completely in your mind. Make the eye contact with that person for about 15 seconds and do not stare in laziness. Now starts conservation with that person on any topic. Make sure that energy bond you had created should not be broken. Now more probably he will start sharing his thoughts with you. Despite of his attitude always give a warm welcome to them. So now you are able to link with other’s mind.
Reading minds in a friendly manner.
Some people have a natural ability to read others minds. It is because when we think in our minds about anything we are also sending some kind of waves along them. Such people tune in these thoughts and get idea about other’s thinking. In this phenomenon resonance occurs in reader mind.