Cheaters, lies, broken hearts and Karma
Gossip is just another hurt within affairs.
Cheaters will get what they deserve!
Understanding this blog is not really about spirituality but more geared toward karma. Payback for the people that choose to lie, cheat and hurt their significant other. There is even a television show , "Cheaters" Where they follow and record the dirty secrets and air them in front of 10 millions viewers. For me , I can't watch all the heartbreak and Jerry Springer type violence.......but it seems to be an effective way to find and punish.
Over the last year, as I have been into some online dating, I have come across a couple of very distraught and broken hearted ladies. The guys were going out with me and others and not being honest with their girlfriends. Only one date from me, as I picked up some very disturbing energy and the words they spoke felt like either lies or scripted .
What is wrong with people? Can they not feel the guilt or wrong on so many levels? Wonder what karma will follow them and then hit them? Cheating is one of the most selfish things one can do for themselves and the most cruel to another.
One lady had dated her man for 14 years......he did not work at all and played at making music , to one day be a star in the christian music industry. Wow What a guy huh? I knew something was up when he called and his number showed as private! His response to me asking why was " Well when I moved here the phone line was already set up and I never received a bill....so I decided not to change it. What a Godly man! His choice was to lie about his Gf or to steal from the phone company! He actually lied about both.
The next situation was a very nice lady that contacted me today. Her Bf and I had one meeting where I live, by the pool. He talked to fast, too much, and was very insensitive to what I believed was of great importance. There would never be a second date! She however is a beautiful soul, one that can capture a person on canvas. She can draw like nobodies business.....very artsy and full of love. This lovely lady has had many trials in life that would leave many bitter with hate. Her love of children was seen quickly thru her art and her words. For two years she has supported this man and made sure his children had Christmas gifts for the holidays. How could he hurt someone that adored him and his children? Thank God for karma!!!!
This could turn into a psychology class.....as to why these smart, beautiful and caring ladies would have fallen for such shallow and selfish , poor excuse of humans. However I will just add my thoughts. ..... Just like men tend to pick the girl next door type, the plain, meek and not full of confidence. They think that chic will never run around, and just be content to break bread with them and then draw their bathwater. Women many times feel if they date a man that is not rich, not drop dead gorgeous and has no violent temper.........that they probably have a good man!
It is always the right thing to treat others with respect and compassion, you will never go worng there.....its when one pays the others way, treats them as royality and puts their own needs far down on the to do list.....that is when one decides they are so special that they can do whatever they like. If you treat your bf/gf like a queen/king.........they will actually start to believe it themselves. Then worse than that is to not treat yourself well and to belittle yourself and allow it! This should not be human nature but sometimes it just is.
There is never a time that it is alright to run around on someone you have made a commitment to!! However if both agree to see other people than that is almost acceptable. I would not ever want that in my life but have heard of couple that are honest with each other and like that lifestyle. Normally I try not to judge! Today is very hard not to.
If someone is cheating on you, they will lie, steal and decieve anyone. You will be cheating yourself out of a loving relationship with honor and honesty. My saying for a few decades now..." I rather be alone than feel alone"
For many moments I thought today" I wish this man could hear her hurt, and hope it cuts like a knife in his heart! However I realize he has no heart! He would have never done this if he did...and that the sweetest revenge for this lady was to make some dates with a few friends, take her child out to a nice outing and to forget his name. He will surely miss her...as she has to be the best thing that ever happened to him.
I made a new friend today within her.......I feel very blessed!! He will regret his actions...for merely getting caught, i feel sure..........That in itself is karma........but what will happen after this...I hope he falls for someone that he adores and finds a heart only to have it crushed..........
Here's to karma!!! CHEERS!