God/The Univere's Plan
Sometimes we get fustrated when things don't go our way. We wonder when things are going to change. When are we finally going to experience love or get our dream job. It isn't until later on that we find out that everything happens for a reason.
God has a plan for you and so does the universe. Whatever you believe in there is a plan for you. You may not see it at the moment but later on you will.
Just because other people jump from relationship to relationship does not mean that it is for us. Sometimes it is better to be single. When you are single you have your freedom and you could experience life. Sometimes you meet people and if you were in a relationship there would be no way that you could experience life with this person (Dating or not).
Think of past events and dreams you had prior. Think of all of the positive things that you have experienced and know that if it worked out on your timetable you may not have had those experiences.
So have faith and take risks. Go after you want but let life take you wherever it is it wants you to go. Don't regret anyone you meet or anything you do because sometimes we met people who we never want to forget. At the right time everything will fall into place. It may not be on your timetable but you will have that amazing life that you have always dreamed of.