How to stop curse and cursing you
People curse very often. It become a habit and we use it ignorantly.
It doesn't matter whether the person cursed is a friend or a foe. Many
do it out of habit. People use different words for cursing. There is
no need of a big issue to curse the other. For silly matters people
Curse is the opposite of blessing. It is a rude or offensive word or phrase that some people use when they are very angry. And it is a word or phrase that has a magic power to make something bad happen. It is something that caused harm or evil. Mothers use curse to express their anger and frustration towards their children. Not all mothers does that. Good mothers control their tongue. Children when they get angry, pronounce curse to their parents, teachers, fellow students and whoever comes in their way.
It all comes out of frustration and anger. If you love someone, you'll never curse that person. If you hate some one, you will do it very often. It is better to keep away from those who curse frequently.
Why we should not curse
We should not curse because the curse may be return to you with two fold or manifold effect. If the pronounced curse is not resting on to whom it is intended, it will return to you. With manifold effect. That is dangerous. We don't know whether the person is worthy to receive your curse or not.
A strong desire is needed to control your cursing habit. Remember, the curse you pronounced may come into your way with manifold effect. Or God will return that curse to you. See what God told to Abraham "I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you."
See, if you bless a person to whom God loves to bless, you will be blessed. So, bless people always. We do not know to whom God loves to bless. Also note, God said to Abraham that "whoever curses you I will curse". So cursing blessed people means we are cursing ourselves. Who want to curse himself. No one want to do that.
First one cursed is the Serpent. He became cursed because he misguided people to go against the will of god. So the LORD God said to the serpent, "Because you have done this, "Cursed are you above all the livestock and all the wild animals! You will crawl on your belly and you will eat dust all the days of your life. What a terrible situation.
To Adam he said, "Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you, 'You must not eat of it,' "Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life. Man is also cursed because of his disobedience.
Then Noah built an altar to the LORD and, taking some of all the clean animals and clean birds, he sacrificed burnt offerings on it. At Genesis 8:21 The LORD smelled the pleasing aroma and said in his heart: "Never again will I curse the ground because of man, even though every inclination of his heart is evil from childhood. And never again will I destroy all living creatures, as I have done.
A list of cursed people are giving below:
"Cursed is the man who carves an image or casts an idol—a thing detestable to the LORD, the work of the craftsman's hands—and sets it up in secret."
"Cursed is the man who dishonors his father or his mother."
"Cursed is the man who moves his neighbor's boundary stone."
"Cursed is the man who leads the blind astray on the road."
"Cursed is the man who withholds justice from the alien, the fatherless or the widow."
"Cursed is the man who sleeps with his father's wife, for he dishonors his father's bed."
"Cursed is the man who has sexual relations with any animal."
"Cursed is the man who sleeps with his sister, the daughter of his father or the daughter of his mother."
"Cursed is the man who sleeps with his mother-in-law."
"Cursed is the man who kills his neighbor secretly."
"Cursed is the man who accepts a bribe to kill an innocent person."
"Cursed is the man who does not uphold the words of this law by carrying them out."
It is better to leave that habit of cursing. If you bless, blessing will be return to you manifold.
Do you want blessing or curse?