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And Jesus said-Love Your Brother!

Updated on March 11, 2011

Luke 23:34 "Father forgive them, for they know not what they do

Jesus suffered yet still loved through it all
Jesus suffered yet still loved through it all

1 Corinthians 13:13 "And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is Love

God came to us in the flesh and walked among us, was scorned, ridiculed, beaten and killed, but His love endureth forever. This is the kind of love God wants us to have. A love that can not be broken or changed. A love that will withstand all things. A greater love that overcome's the flesh. God knows the flesh is weak and vulnurable. God also knows the only thing that can save us is love.

So what is this great love and what does it mean to posess it? To attain the love of God is to be changed/transformed into meekness, gentleness, lowliness, kindness, forgiveness and humility beyond measure. In 1 Peter 5:5 it states "Be clothed with humility, for "God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble." This is a love this world has never known or will ever know. To posess it is to know the love of Christ.

We all have fallen into darkness and have shuned the truth. Pride covers us like a blanket for fear our stubborn nature will be exposed. The hope we have is to learn through our trials to love and to be vulnurable to love rather than to be angered or bitter, for this is how God would have us be. To become stronger and wiser and more subseptable to love.

God does not want us to be consumed by pride or a stubborn nature, because they consume and destroy love. In fact, they make a mockery of it. God wants us to be consumed by love which produces forgiveness and humility. Pride is a major stumbling block in our relationship with others and with God. Pride produces stubborness. It is unforgiving and shows no mercy or compassion. It is also a killer of peace, joy and unity. One cannot be lowly or humble if one is consumed by pride. One has nothing in common with the other. They are completly opposite. One opposses the other.

One cannot be a forgiving person if one allows pride and stubborness to overtake them. Here are a few examples regarding forgiveness that come from people who are stubborn and prideful. One may say "I go to God for my forgiveness, not you" or "I love you but I can't forgive you" or "I am too good to associate with you, your damaged" or "I am a better person" or "I am too good for this" or "I don't have time for this nonsence" or "I don't consider you a child of God, so I am not required to forgive you" or "you have repeatidly caused me harm, so you don't deserve my forgiveness. We are all deserving of God's forgiveness. God is the teacher and the judge, we are not to judge as it is written in James 5:9 Do not grumble against one another, brethern, lest you be condemned. Behold, the Judge is standing at the door!

God will surly test until the truth be known, in full ie; fully known, and the tests will be repeated until one excepts and lives by the Word of God.

In Luke 17:3-4 it states, "Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; (rebuke meaning correct, not rid oneself of) and if he repents, forgive him. "and if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, I repent," you shall forgive him". Is this not God teaching us to forgive? And in Matthew 6:14-15 it states, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespassess, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses". If we really took a good indepth look at why we have a problem with forgiveness we would see that it boils down to someone not living up to our standards ie; meeting our requirements. We are to look at our brethern in the sense that we have all fallen short and "forgive him".

Stubborness and pride bind love and unity. This is why we must go to our brother for forgiveness, to break those ties that bind. A greater love is found through forgiveness. Forgiveness brings unity, it unites, which in turn brings us into unity with God. It brings love to light.

If we are to be in the likeness of God, we cannot forsake our brother. A person is denying the love of God when one denys their brother. To deny forgiveness is to be of the flesh. One is living in the flesh and not in the spirit as God would have us live.

I would like to quote some more scriptures regarding the love we are to have, not only for our brother but for our enemies as well. Matthew 5:39-48. "But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away. Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. For He makes His sun rise on the evil and the good. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect. This proves that God is no respector of persons. He sends rain on the just and on the unjust.

This world will never be a perfect place to be, but we can be perfect in our Lord and take heed to His words and put off our sinful nature and love our brother and our enemies as God loves us. Jesus was crucified ie; pierced, whipped, beaten down and a crown of thorns stamped on His head and yet He loved and forgave. He is and was and always will be perfect as He would have us be. We cannot be perfected until we release the chains that bind. God knows all. Even the things that "we think" are hidden from Him.

This does not mean we are in agreement with or take part in, but that we "acknowledge" as it states in Romans 3:23 "For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God". We are all guilty of sin as it states in John 8:7 "He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first".

If there is someone in your life that you haven't forgiven, do it now. If there is someone who needs your forgiveness, give it to them. God requires us (before we go to Him) to go to our brother first and make things right because no one can say I am a child of God and have unforgiveness in their heart....It is written in Matthew 5:23-24 "If you bring your gift to the alter, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the alter, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift". If we want to make things right with God, we must first go to our brother. If we cannot do this, we cannot be right with God. If your heart is filled with pride and a stubborn nature, lay it down right now, at the cross of Jesus. Ask Jesus to remove the turmoil that is stirring within you and heal you and to bring love to light. It's not too late.

Don't let Satan have power over you and in you. Release it. Let love in and never fear it for it is a new beginning. Once you expose Satan by denying him the power he has in your life you can be free from it. God has great plans for you and He's waiting to begin this journey with you. There is so much more to be gained from God. Lay your broken spirit before Him and be changed/made new....DO it...DO IT NOW!...... AMEN!!!


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      fred allen 7 years ago from Myrtle Beach SC

      The love you speak of is precious and rare. How many times have I been the wicked servant that was forgiven a debt by my King, a debt I could never hope to repay, only to find someone who owes me a small debt and demand repaymet? Far more times than I care to remember. It is self. It is pride. You hit it right on the head. I have no right to demand anything. If I am dead to the world, my treasure would be in Heaven and that's where my heart would be. You have caused me to reflect hard on this. I'm glad God led me here. You have been a blessing to me today!

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      Eunice Stuhlhofer 7 years ago

      very inspiring, engaging and challenging. Thanks for this word of life without which we will not see GOD. Jesus died a cruel death and led us by example so that we can love one another and forgive. Much blessings.

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      heart4theword 7 years ago from hub

      Good words of advice! Forgiveness is one of the hardest things we deal with in life...harder to forgive those who have hurt us, our family or kids. This was a good I had an issue come up this morning? I needed to not let it take hold, I prayed and asked a blessing on this person:) So as you said, I took a stumbling block away, before it set. I am thankful, even when we can't do it on our own..God is willing to help us find a way to forgive others:) Great hub!

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      His daughter 7 years ago

      Loving others is definitely a command we are to follow and it is one we cannot do on our own. God is love and it is allowing His love to consume us that in turn allows us to love others as He loved us. It certainly is an ongoing process to reach that point....More of HIM and less of us! God bless.

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      JeanieR 7 years ago from Sequoia National Forest, CA

      Once you've tasted the power in forgiveness, it calls to you, draws you. It is not addictive because there are too many forces against it. But! What a mighty weapon we have at our disposal...use often and wisely.

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      Dave Mathews 7 years ago from NORTH YORK,ONTARIO,CANADA

      TimeHealsAll: The real trick is to catch them before they are spoken. It is so easy to say "sorry" after, but subcontiously, if we spoke the words we thought the thought first.

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      TimeHealsAll 7 years ago from Las Vegas, Nevada

      Thank you nobody! I realize, and it has taken me some time to do so, that even a person of faith can be weak. Now I realize there will always be tests and trials to strengthen our love for one another and to forgive our moments of weakness....but there will come a day and what a day that will be when we get to see and be with all our loved one's. There will be so much love, peace and happiness one can't even imagine!! Then our trials will be over...amen! I love you too brother! Blessings!

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      TimeHealsAll 7 years ago from Las Vegas, Nevada

      Thank you Dave, I too have been guilty of angry outbursts, but I've gotten better at catching them when they come and made my amends. As much as we try, we can't change anyone. We all have our own unique belief system, and some may not aline with God's will. But God will surly test till the truth be known. My perception of God's will is to do whatever it takes to bring unity, especially if one is willing, but not all believe as I do. It is then that I have to let go and let God bring the truth unto them and have faith that He will in His timing and not mine. Blessings!

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      Robert E Smith 7 years ago from Rochester, New York

      True connection, even between those of faith is very rare. Like Jonathan and David, it is not as common as one may think. Fellowship around the throne of grace will be so sweet for we will rejoined with not only dead loved ones that have passeed away from us but also those alive that we have been separated from for a multitude of reasons. True love does not fade with time so the reunion will be beyond imagination. I love you sister. Bob

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      Dave Mathews 7 years ago from NORTH YORK,ONTARIO,CANADA

      TimeHealsAll: Forgiveness can be so hard. We have a tendency to open our mouth and utter words of hurt usually in anger and then say we are sorry in the next breath. Thing is at that time neither is true.

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      Garnetbird 7 years ago

      I have found God to be very patient--it took the famous Christian writer CS Lewis years to fully forgive his sadistic elementary teacher who had "blighted" Lewis' youth. That comforts me. Good hub.

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      TimeHealsAll 7 years ago from Las Vegas, Nevada

      Thank you lifegate, we too can share in the victories of our Lord!

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      TimeHealsAll 7 years ago from Las Vegas, Nevada

      Bless you Vladimir, you are always an inspiration!

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      William Kovacic 7 years ago from Pleasant Gap, PA


      Thanks for a wonderful challenge on forgiveness."God came to us in the flesh and walked among us and was scorned, ridiculed, beaten and killed"--how very true, but I'd also like to add, He rose again. That's victory!

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      TimeHealsAll 7 years ago from Las Vegas, Nevada

      Thank you Tamarajo, if one is blind to forgiveness then one is also blind to the love of God. If one does not posess forgiveness, one does not posess love.

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      Vladimir Uhri 7 years ago from HubPages, FB

      I love it.

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      Tamarajo 7 years ago

      Excellent exhortation to know the love and God and to be loving to others.

      I enjoyed reading your hub.


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