Please Don't Call Me A Senior Citizen
NOTE: The information provided below is solely the opinion of the author of this Hub
"I Love Life" - Elise Curran, my seventh grade teacher who lived to be 100 years old
I will cut to the chase.
First, I am a non-conformist. I do not follow the piper. I want to be myself and referred to myself by my name only: Lea Tartanian.
That being said, I am not happy with being a part of a society that tacks on me the term, "Senior Citizen" when age 49 disappears.
How dare they? Who, on earth is responsible for this?
Just last week during an appointment with my foot doctor he grumbled, "I just turned fifty, and I have already received a letter to join AARP! I threw it in the garbage!" I told him I did the same thing.
I cringe when an individual says to me, "I just had a senior moment;" "It's hell getting old," "I am old and decrepit," "It felt good that they (young people) spent time with an old antique like me." When someone makes a statement like that, it places the listener in an awkward position. What is he/she supposed to reply?
Even one of my close friends said to me (she was in TEARS), "I don't know what I'm going to do when you die." (WHAT???)
I responded, "I am not going anywhere!"
Let's get one thing straight: I do not do 'senior moment.' I do not do 'AARP.' I do not do senior citizen discount. I will never join the Red Hat Society. I do not lean over my shopping cart at the grocery store and shuffle along. I NEVER take a shuttle. I refuse to spread the kind of karma that screams, "I've got one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel."
This is why I am currently writing a book containing reasons why I LOVE the second half of life.
I cherish this time of living instead of existing. I did not wait until retirement age to quit my job. I left a lot earlier than my peers.
Why? Because I decided money is not that important. LIFE is important. I wanted to get up each morning with NO PLANS.
And this is what I am doing:
My morning walks savoring nature without the stress of having to go to work.
Barnes & Noble. I LIVE there!
I read, and I write.
I keep a prayer notebook and I go through it every day...a lot of my hub friends are on it.
Movies! I am a movie addict, and I have been to more matinees that I can count.
I hug our four cats even though they own me.
All the above I do first thing ahead of routines and obligations.
Money? I took a huge cut in pay. And I don't miss one cent. I could have worked a few more years and made more...but I decided the art of being alive was more important to me.
I have decided I do not need one thing in this house. I am slowly weeding out everything. I have three or four sets of clothing. That is all I need. I literally threw away all my work clothes the week after I quit my job.
Back to the Senior Citizen aggravation.
Pulitzer Prize-winning Journalist William Ecenbarger published an article in the Christian Science Monitor titled, "'Senior Citizen' is a euphemism that just doesn't fit."
He writes, "...don't call me golden-ager, oldster, coot, curmudgeon, geezer, fogy, old-timer, prime-timer, retired person, mature American, season citizen, silver fox, young at heart, chronologically gifted...and please, please, don't call me a senior citizen." (NOTE: I WILL ADD TO THIS LIST ELDERLY AND MATRONLY).
He continues, "what's wrong with 'senior citizen?' For starters, it's a condescending, demeaning, patronizing euphemism. It is the latest incarnation in the age-old struggle to find a term for old that is linguistically, ethically, and most of all, politically correct.
"'Senior Citizen' connotes shuffleboard and pinochle, rocking chairs and golf carts, frailty and dependency. There are far too many 70-year old hang gliders, computer whizzes and marathoners for the stereotype to have any validity at all."
Finally he concludes, "I blame a lot of this on vote-hungry office-seekers and officeholders slobbering over our 'senior citizens' in the belief that it is somehow bad politics to call old people old. Junior Citizens hear me out! The American Heritage Book of English Usage traces the coinage of 'senior citizen' back to a 1938 article in Time Magazine. That makes it 66 years old. Time to retire it."
I believe William Ecenbarger summarized his article perfectly with his statement that the stereotype of 'senior citizen' has no validity at all and that is IS time to retire it.
Just as I cringe when a store clerk says to me "Happy Holidays," instead of "Merry Christmas," I shudder if I see the word 'senior' on a movie ticket or Senior Citizen Discount meals listed on a menu in a restaurant. Do they think I am so poor I cannot afford an extra 50 cents?
Not once in my life have I ever said to ANYONE, "I am old."
Being referred to as a Senior Citizen is, to me, an insult. Therefore, please do not call me that. I am Lea C. Tartanian, a female adult, who is living her life to the fullest. Like BillyBuc, I am squeezing as much passion out of life as I can.
Blessings to all, Sparklea
Comments
Sparklea, I came across Billy Graham's new book you mentioned; well, his latest and I will try to give it a go during the holidays. I do love that man so hope there will be much of interest. Could be someone else helped write it if it didn't grab you right off. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we all could have a husband like him? He would never be alone with a woman for any reason to protect his reputation throughout life. But he had a wonderful wife and a wonderful life; keeping his eye on the prize of eternity and our savior, Jesus Christ.
Sparklea, no it is Parkinson disease, thanks I never even though about perephial disease. Anyway, it all is not good, and exercise is very important. Blessings, Stella
I feel bad because I can't do all the stuff I use to do before PD, but I will never stop trying. I still walk just a little slower, and do most of the same things. Age is just a number and I don't feel like I am done yet. I enjoyed your hub and feel the same way on most of what you have written. God Bless
Congratulations on four years at HubPages. I am so glad you joined.Where does the time go? I have been trying to do more stretching exercises my body isn't as limber as it use to be. I also turned fifty last year and I am trying to do everything I can to keep active.
Sparklea (Lea C. Tartanian) Have you ever tried boxing ?You throw one heck of a punch. I love your spirit and enthusiasm.
I reread your hub again thinking that we have to make every moment count. Because in the future we may not be able to write like today. I spend a lot of time in nursing homes and I look at the shape their body and minds are. Now they can't write even if they tried. It scares me. I get too emotional.That my story will never be told. Then I think what was their story. Maybe they were doctors, lawyers and even writers. Maybe just good old mom and dad. A wonderful sister with no family left. Now left alone where they should be comforted the most. It burns me up. To see anyone sad and unhappy when there is no need for it. I can go on and on like a scratched record. Repeating the same story until someone listens. Hoping one day there will be less sadness and anger in the world replaced by love. I received your comments and sent you an email. Please let me know if you received it. As always enjoyed your no nonsense approach to life. Have an incredible day.
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After 60 is consider a senior here, fifty is still in middle age .
I can relate to what you are saying. I just turned 65 and besides the fact that I just started Medicare, everything else is still the same. I'm not changing what I do for enjoyment, what I eat, when I sleep, or anything else. I plan to remain as active as I have always been. I feel like that is what actually avoids the aging mental process, even if the body grows tired at times.
I love when people try their best and keep trying to do things that make them feel good and then find ways to share it with the world. How far have you come with your book so far?Life is a challenge always experiencing the unexpected. I hope you get plenty of rest too. Good night talk soon.
Sparklea It is almost 5;00 A.M. I worked last night and I came home to your kind comment. I read this hub and comments. You are very wise. Show the world your talents and deep passion. I am so blessed to have a friend like you. I am off to dreamland but soon I look forward to reading more of your work. Make it a great day
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Have to agree with you on this, and there must be some ploy behind it all we are not getting! I have actually heard people talk about the senior benefits like quarter coffees and free drinks and food discounts; get real and then too I always wondered at the seniors getting all the discounts; heck they are usually the only ones with any money!!
Didn't know about your book; good luck with that and I am sure it will be a wonderful read! ^+
Great theme for consideration what age we are and how we have to be called. A 'second half ' of our earthly journey is more interesting when we decide the longevity first half of ' my ' limit. When I was younger I liked the #120 because the Creator has declared a mortal's days will be hundred and twenty years. Pretty cool, eh ? Son when realized how fast those days are moving by my connoting stopped at thirty nine in order to be in best physical-mental condition while maturing in wisdom and knowledge and never become an 'old' man, in this culture popularly label "senior" citizen... It's a wrong design for a person getting from very own son a congratulation to frothy-nineth anniversary of the twenty ninth birthday. It was then... Though a limit has been set recorded in the Book, some people lived beyond that age negotiating extension due to righteousness relationship with the heavenly Father. God isn't in hurry to take anyone hastily out of this earthly realm, unless due to mistaken identity some individuals cause their own premature ending... So, the answer each person has to answer for himself/herself ' what do you want?' You dear friend have made exceptionally important point for your entirely BOOK , quitting your employment at your term and choose to LIVE... Great decision, and I am positive the right decision since in your daily walk you are delighting in the Lord the faithful One will give you the desire of your heart.
Voted up beautiful and interesting.
Be blessed of the Lord and a blessing as you already are.
Good for you Sparklea! This is a great message and I'm sure your book will be a huge hit. We all age but there'ss no rule saying we have to act old. I don't feel like a senior citizen and certainly don't act like one, even though here in Australia you can obtain a senior's card and some benefits from age 55. I too retired early and am enjoying the extra freedom. Money is tight but we get by, and there are more important things in life. Thanks for sharing. Voted up.
Hi, my dear vibrant and full of life, friend, Lea! Wow, I love your perspective here ... why don't you tell us how you really feel about the subject : ) ... Oh, you did and with great passion. I love it when a person is so passionate about something and is not afraid to tell the world exactly why. You have given us all much food for thought.
After having been healed of breast cancer, I so welcome each new birthday and realize there is a reason why I am still here.
Your book is going to be amazing and I just know it will make the New York Times Best Seller! Anyone who writes with such passion about living life to the full no matter what age, is sure to inspire many who have been brainwashed into thinking they are "old". I will certainly be mindful of my words about myself and aging, so thank you dear friend.
All I know is that when I look at you all I see is a young, beautiful woman, Lea, my friend.
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God bless you and thank you for always keeping me and my family in your prayers
Oh, I am with you on the "Merry Christmas" too!
What an interesting perspective. I suppose I make the mistake of acting old from time to time. But I think I did that more in my thirties. Sometimes I feel old after an hour workout or carrying a 50 lb pack for several miles. Chasing my 5 year old around for a full day wears me out.
Interestingly if after reading you for a couple of years now someone were to ask me to guess your age I would have been dumbstruck. Some folks just don't seem to have an age. You gave me a lot to ponder here. Thanks.
YOU GO, GIRL!!!!!!!
I love it!
I just got a call from my best friend who I haven't seen in twenty years. We had so much fun talking about our lives together, and so excited that we re-connected. First thing he asked me is if we could play catch if he brought his baseball glove. I laughed so hard....yes we'll play catch, just as we've always done, and we'll have a blast doing it.
Old? I don't think so!
blessings my friend...now I have to go pet the rabbit. :)
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