Biblical Principles on How to Treat Others
Everyone has heard the Golden Rule: "Do unto others, as you want done unto yourself?" It's an old theme, but one of the greatest lessons we can ever learn. Despite this universal truth, too often we recite the words right, but we use it in the wrong contexts. Most of us treat the verse as if it said, "Don't do unto others, as you don't want done to yourself." For instance, you may scold your child for teasing her brother, "Would you want him to pick on you like that?" "No." "Well, you should do unto others, as you want done unto yourself." Although that is great teaching, it's passive. In order to treat others the way we want to be treated, we must be active. If we see a man who is hungry, in their shoes, would we want to be given a sandwich? Or someone you know seems really withdrawn, would we want someone to reach out to us if we felt that way? Truth is, if we want to live as Jesus did, then we need to put that verse into action!
"Do to others as you would have them do to you."— Luke 6:31
An Active Verse
order to put this verse into action, we need to step out of our comfort
zone, and help others. It's kind of like when a teller makes a mistake.
Just because we don't scream at the teller who gives us 20 dollars
instead of 200 dollars doesn't make us a good person. How would we want
to be treated when we make a mistake. Would we want to be treated with
patience, understanding, love. Face it, we all have made a mistake in
our jobs, and some of us have made huge mistakes. How would you like to
be treated? I think in a way it goes back to the saying from the
nineties "What would Jesus Do?"
From a Christian perspective, Jesus died for our sins, because He knew if He were a sinner like us, He too, would want to be forgiven. He healed people, because He knew if He couldn't see, He'd want sight. He also gave harsh reprimands, because again He knew if He was not walking an upright way, He'd want to be called on it. None of these things did He do passively, but actively.
"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves,"— Philippians 2:3
Act Out What You Want
becoming active, we need to look inside ourselves. What are some blessings
that you wish you were given that you are capable of giving to others? Has God been providing these blessings? Do
you try to bless others in this way? When you see someone struggling
either emotionally or physically, do you help? If you were that person
would you want help? These are things we need to ask ourselves. Should
we expect others to assist us financially, if we have never helped
others? Should we expect a friend to be there for us, if we are not
there for them?
We are a society of me-me-me! We often think of the injustices of our own lives, yet ignore those around us who are often in greater need than ourselves. For instance, if you are reading this, you have the Internet, or the ability to access it. How many people don't, because they can't afford a computer, transportation to the library, etc. We worry about how we are going to pay our bills, but what are our bills: necessities or wants. There are so many people who go without the most basic necessities that we are capable of giving. We need to become proactive in our lives.
"The point is this: whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows bountifully will also reap bountifully."— 2 Corinthians 9:6
Pay It Forward
It seems funny to me, that one of the greatest examples of this is a secular theme, yet Christians often will pride themselves on their giving ways. Too often, those who don't know Christ and His ways are able to exemplify this concept much better than many Christians. The bottom line is pride.
The philosophy was very well put in the movie, Pay It Forward. We should be paying it forward, because the moment we begin to pay it forward, we are building up treasures in heaven. Recently an article in a magazine talked about this lady who spends every morning packing hundreds of home-made lunches. She takes these lunches around her town where the homeless live, and hand delivers them a sack lunch. For many of these people, this is the only meal they get all day. Not only does she give them a meal, she often hugs them and listens to them. Wow, what an amazing Christian example, yet I don't know if she is a believer or not. Still this is what Christians should aspire to be, servants of God's people. God's people are not just other Christians, but every single human He created!
There are hundreds of ways we can do stuff just like that, but are so involved in ourselves, that we forget to store our treasures in heaven, and bless others.
They say 20 percent of the church, does 80 percent of the work, and 80 percent of the church does 20 percent of the work. Which category do you fall?
Practical Ways to Live This Out
- Pay for the person's meal in line behind us at a fast food place
- Donate your old clothes to a homeless shelter
- Buy shampoo, soap, etc for homeless shelters and women's shelters
- Give canned goods for a can drive
- Give money to a charity you believe in
- Volunteer your time at a place you respect
- Send a friend whose needing food or supplies a package from alice.com (grocery store online)
- Get involved in a church ministry
- Get Involved in the Numerous Holiday Missions during Christmas time!
"But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. For he looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like. But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, he will be blessed in his doing."— James 1:22-25
Don't Be Hypocritical
becomes especially true in forgiveness, for God even says, "Then the
angry king sent the man to prison to be tortured until he had paid his
entire debt.That's what my heavenly Father will do to you if you refuse
to forgive your brothers and sisters from your heart" (Matthew
18:34-35). So many times non-Christians, are turned off by the Christian
faith, because of our hypocrisy. We preach forgiveness, love, non
judgment, kindness, yet we don't live these out.
They see us gossip about how this person does this or that, and yet we do the same or similar thing. It's important that we act the part of who we want to portray. And to think about not just what we shouldn't do, but what we should do? Is there something you feel called to do? Someone who needs help, that if you were in the same situation, you too would want someone to help you?
So I pray, "Dear Lord, open our eyes to the needs that we are capable of fulfilling in others. Help us be judges of ourselves and not of others. Guide us,teach us, and thank you so much for loving and forgiving us. In Jesus Name... Amen."
© 2010 Angela Michelle Schultz