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Discover the Real, Unique You. A Diamond With Outstanding Abilities

Updated on August 8, 2017
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Audrey's burning desire to help others to respect and understand themselves led her to the study of psychology at UCLA.

You are a diamond
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You Are a Diamond, Unique and Brilliant

Just think - you are the only one of its kind You are without an equal or equivalent. You are unparalleled! If knowing this isn't enough to get your motor revved up I don't know what will.

Regardless of the kind of hand life deals to you, obstacles of unimagenable proportion can make you stronger and increase your compassion and understanding. With the knowledge that you are not simply unique but that you are a diamond of uniqueness with abilities and strengths you never discover and never use in a lifetime.

You are not defective and you are not flawed. You are a masterpiece. You are not meant to be like someone else. You are meant to be different and this difference is a gift to you and you only.

It's time for you to treasure your uniqueness.

You are unique
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You Are Enough

You are a unique creation and your abilities are also unique. What does it mean to be unique? Let's start out by reading what Mr.Webster's definition of this word is. He simply defines unique as "being the only one." Amazing! There is only one of you and only one of me.

For the next few minutes let's expand on the word unique. What are some of the ways we define our uniqueness? How do we use it - or do we? Can we as individuals change our own lives as we begin to recognize the power and magnificence of being unique?

Do You Consider Your Own Needs?

How Often Do You Treat Yourself To Something Fun Or Special

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How To Discover Your Unique Abilities

A unique person is the opposite of average, dull, or boring, There is no one like you. You are one-of-a-kind. You are an original. You are absolutely unmatched. You are exclusive.

To be unique you must be yourself and not someone's idea of what you should be. You can't be yourself if you don't like yourself.

"The more you like yourself, the less you are like anyone else, which makes you unique."
Walt Disney

Repeat the above quote three times. Each time you repeat the quote you'll begin to feel stronger about the message.

Liking yourself is the power tool for discovering and then using your own special abilities.

"But I don't have any unique abilities" you say." Ah, but you certainly do. Those abilities are there deep inside of you and waiting to be discovered. Don't try too hard to find these gifts. Shhhhhhhhhh...be quiet and listen. They will appear.

Here is an exercise I'd like you to try. Visualize a large diamond buried deep within a cave (you.). Diamonds are found in mines, craters and caves. In this case you are the mine or cave and a diamond is resting deep within you.

Unless you put forth effort and determination, along with a strong desire, your diamond will simply remain undiscovered and useless. You must put forth action.

Just like mining for diamonds, if you keep trying and digg deep enough you will begin to see a faint sparkle. Is that a diamond? Could it be? You'll never know unless you dig deeper and deeper. Your abilities are like diamonds. Once you recognize that what you have is an ability, the next step is to dust it off and polish it over and over again.

As you continue to polish your diamond the sparkle will ignite and blaze brighter and brighter. It will become an obvious part of you and even others will see it. This is how you let your light shine and glorify the one who gave you these abilities.

You Have Endless Abilities and T..alents

You have endless abilities waiting to be discovered. Find your passion to find your talent.
You have endless abilities waiting to be discovered. Find your passion to find your talent. | Source

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You must become bigger than the fear itself
You must become bigger than the fear itself | Source

Say Goodbye To Fear

I have always appreciated Emerson's quote about fear: "Fear is a cruel thief who comes in the night and robs us of success just when it's within our reach" How terribly true this is. And because it is, we must practice how to conquer fear.

If our lives are bound by fear we cease to grow and become all that we could be. We are stuck in our comfort zone and never take risks. We dare not change and yet without change there is no growth.

Facing our fears takes courage. We have to be willing to let go of the familiar to be courageous. Expanding on our level of bravery creates greatness. Greatness and bravery will overcome fear.

Develop a high level of faith in yourself. This will be the foundation for overcoming fear.

Learn to identify your fears. The things that scare us as children may still be lurking somewhere. If you can identify those fears, you will find it easier to release them.

The biggest fear most of us have is the fear of the unknown.

Believe in yourself
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Find your unique abilities
Find your unique abilities | Source
Focus on your strengths and not your weaknesses
Focus on your strengths and not your weaknesses | Source

6 Qualities (Tools) To Bring About Change

In order to recognize our abilities it helps to possess certain qualities. Think of these qualities as tools. Let's take a look at six of the most effective, strong qualities:

  • Being positive. Are you a half empty or half full kind of person? If you see the glass as half full you are sure to find more unique qualities within you. The potential within you is limitless and for the most part untapped.
  • Believe in yourself. Your beliefs control everything you do. If you expect to fail you most probably will which is one important reason we need support from others. Believe in your mission in life. Believe that you can accomplish your goals Whatever abilities and talents you have will not be discovered and reach it's highest level unless you believe in yourself.
  • Keep good company. Surround yourself with people you admire. Negative, critical people drain your energy and add a darkness to your life. Choose to spend time with those that see the potential in you and speak highly of you.
  • Don't compare yourself with others. Instead, focus on your own talents and abilities and make the most of those. You may not have what they have but neither do they have what you have. You don't need a bigger diamond. Just keep polishing the one you have.
  • Focus on your strengths not your weaknessess. If writing is your strength, then work on it continually. Study everything you can about writing. Never become complacent. We never stand still. We either move forward or we move backward. Fretting about your weaknesses will only prevent you from doing your best with the strengths you have.
  • Use failure as a motivating force. Being determined is the best way to overcome failure. Failure is just a word. It is your thinking that labels it as "bad." Be resilient and able to bounce back regardless of how you feel. Learn how to profit from your losses.

Believe in Yourself

Final Words of Wisdom

William Shakespeare said it best: "To Thine Own Self be True". This is the path to self discovery.

You can be the difference that is needed in the world. Set a new standard. Dare to be different. Dare to be you. Others don't determine what your destiny will be. They haven't a clue about what's in you. Don't allow anyone to keep you from being who you are. You don't need anyone's approval or disapproval.

The choices you make every hour of every day will determine your individual results as far as success goes Here are a few suggestions to consider:

  • Learn to say no when your plate is piled high and you're trying to meet deadlines. It isn't selfish to do this.
  • When you do say yes, then live up to your promise. Make integrity your goal at all times. Be trustworthy and dependable.
  • Stand out in the crowd by being who you truly are. We are all wired a little bit different but high values remain the same. Break free of daily bombardment and influences that leave you teetering on the edge.
  • Find your kind spot and reach out to help others. This is the best part of you. This is the truest and most precious part of you. This is who you truly are.
  • You are a diamond with unique abilities. Remember this every time you feel unworthy, unloved, alone, unappreciated and in emotional or physical pain.
  • Somewhere at sometime someone needs you. Search for opportunities to give the best part of yourself to others.
  • Love yourself. Do something kind for just you every day.

Start dreaming again. Start believing again and start hoping again.

There has been only one Beethoven, one Michelangelo, one Churchill, one Da Vinci, one Gandhi -- and there is only one you.

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http://academictips.org/blogs/you-are-unique/

http://www.faithwords.com/ThinkBetterLiveBetter/

Life is the greatest gift that we receive, and the art of living is the greatest art.

— don Miguel Ruiz

© 2012 Audrey Hunt

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      Audrey Hunt 13 months ago from Nashville Tn.

      Hi Marlene

      I'd love to hear your voice. Is there a video available? Thank you for finding this hub inspirational. Have a joyful day!

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      Marlene Bertrand 13 months ago from Northern California, USA

      Very inspirational. Your title, "You are Enough" is a message everyone should take to heart. Oh, and I love the song, "If You Believe." In fact, I sing this song as part of my vocal warm-up routine.

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      Audrey Hunt 15 months ago from Nashville Tn.

      Hi Sandy

      Your comments are true. Only recently I myself said "no." I got caught up in using all my energy to please others. I think loving ourselves is an on-going process. It really felt goo to set boundaries and say "no." Thanks for being here.

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      Sandy Mertens 15 months ago from Frozen Tundra

      Inspirational hub. We are all diamonds. Not all of us have learned to love ourselves and what we are capable of.

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      Audrey Hunt 17 months ago from Nashville Tn.

      jtrader

      Yes, the media is big on emphasizing perfection - perfect image, perfect house, car. Most expectations are misplaced - who could ever live up to them?

      Thanks for making a trip to my area of 'hub land.'

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      jtrader 17 months ago

      Everyone has unique abilities. Unfortunately, sometimes people do go through life mistakenly feeling that they are not valuable. Sometimes society places emphasis on false things.

      Inspiring hub!

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      Audrey Hunt 17 months ago from Nashville Tn.

      Hello Reynold Jay

      Great to see you here. I enjoyed your comments very much. You are kind as well as supportive. It's people like you that keep me writing here on Hub Pages. I'll be reading your "Born to Be Rich" and am excited about learning from you.

      Again, thanks for your encouragement!

      Audrey

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      Reynold Jay 17 months ago from Saginaw, Michigan

      Your Hub reminds me of my own "Born to Be Rich" that encourages everyone to do their very best. In that I have read only this one HUB I don't know if you have written books. This has the makings of a book here. When I reached the VOTE, I saw that I lead a very balanced life in a heat beat. All the essentials of the things that my up my life are there, none being more important than another and each one at the top of the list. It was interesting to see how the vote was slanted and not surprising in that HUBBERS are creative individuals and will tend toward different goals than others might. When I see that HOME is at the bottom of the list, I realize how fortunate I am to live in a fine home ( in my senior years) simply because all the other aspects were important all my life. I now live a wonderful home and can enjoy the fruits of my labors. Well done and it is easy to see why you have a HIGH SCORE. I see comments from some of my favorite people and that makes me happy to see them here. Well done!! If Don reads this...Hi Don!

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      Audrey Hunt 18 months ago from Nashville Tn.

      You have graced my hub with your presence my friend. Thanks for taking the time to be here. Blessings to you.

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      rdsparrowriter 19 months ago

      Thank you for this encouraging message :) Keep being a blessing :)

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      Audrey Hunt 20 months ago from Nashville Tn.

      Dream On -

      Your comments are both touching and inspiring. You have a beautiful gift of understanding others. Sometimes folks just seem to get caught up in materializm and forget that love is found only in the act of loving others. Only when we serve our fellowman do we discover our own love. We are filled with the capacity to love beyond our wildest dreams.

      To love and be grateful for who we are builds our capacity to reach out and love others - good or bad. And yes, life is simple. Not easy...but learning to live with simplicity allows us the freedom to stay focused on a peaceful path.

      May you continue to walk in inspiration, peace, hope, joy and love.

      Your friend,

      Audrey

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      DREAM ON 20 months ago

      I have many thoughts on my mind at any one time. When I read your hub I see stars. The same stars I dream about every night. They are loving people for who they are in the inside and unfortunately today is materialistic. What amazing beauty we all hold. I love and am speechless when people care so deeply for each other nothing else matters.Your hub shares all the greatness and a unique estacy. What happier feeling than feeling loved by ourself. For all our accomplishments but even better for all our mistakes. I am a man of few words and if you could see into my mind you would see the biggest, whitest, brightest, purest cloud of white filled with delight. Showering the world with love. I think life is that simple. Then reality changes things. Why I don't know. You will continue to be my inspiration and above all a kind and generous friend. Thank you from my heart to my words.

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      Audrey Hunt 21 months ago from Nashville Tn.

      sujava - Thank you for finding my hub highly motivating I appreciate this.

      Sandyspider - Thank you for your kind comments. So good to see you.

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      Sandy Mertens 22 months ago from Wisconsin, USA

      Very positive and inspiring.

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      sujaya venkatesh 2 years ago

      highly motivating Voc

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      Kristen Howe 2 years ago from Northeast Ohio

      My pleasure Audrey. I agree with you 100%.

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Thank you Kristin - I appreciate your lovely words. Thanks for the vote up. You've made my day. So glad to have met such an exceptional person as yourself. Take care my friend.

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      Kristen Howe 2 years ago from Northeast Ohio

      Audrey, this was a beautiful and inspirational hub. Well said, too. God Bless You my friend! Voted up for beautiful!

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Shyron - Thank you for reading my hub. I love your comments and appreciate your votes and the sharing. Hugs and love to you. Audrey

      Hello PsychGeek. I''m so glad you liked my hub and found it to be inspiring. We have to live with ourselves for a long time so why not love and acknowledge the beauty we each have. I feel your own beauty through your comments. Thank you!

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      PsychGeek 2 years ago from UK

      I love the message in this Hub that is so positive and inspiring all of us to be true to ourselves and learn to love, accept and develop who we are as individuals. Great Hub!

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      Shyron E Shenko 2 years ago from Texas

      This is very inspiring, voted up, AUBI and shared.

      Blessings and Hugs

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Hello dear Bobbi - My spirit has been lifted high today with a visit from the dearest lady on HP. Your kind words bring me the energy I need to take on the day.

      You are truly a magnificent diamond Bobbi. Your light shines so brightly that it reaches out to everyone warming them with love and purpose.

      I am blessed to have found you on HP and thank you for your constant support and friendship.

      Be happy, enjoy good health, live in peace and give yourself a big hug!

      Love,

      Audrey

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Daisy - Thank you so much for sharing my hub on FB. A very nice birthday gift. But that is what you are about. Supporting others. Yes, you are absolutely a diamond.

      Thank you Vellur for visiting my hub again. I appreciate so much your kind and beautiful words.

      Audrey

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      PurvisBobbi44 2 years ago from Florida

      Dear Lady,

      I will tell you like I told Bill Holland you need an elevator for me since you are so popular---it takes forever to get to the bottom.

      Joking aside---you are so talented yourself, a mother, author, music teacher and I am sure the list goes on and on.

      Your diamond shines so brightly until I had to put my sunglasses on to write these words. Honestly---you are one of the best all around people on HubPages---a friend to all.

      I voted up ++++ and I am sharing this with Twitter, G+, pinning on my re-pin board and H+---Great Hub.

      Bobbi Purvis

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      Nithya Venkat 2 years ago from Dubai

      Came back to read again, a brilliant and positively inspiring article.

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      Daisy Mariposa 2 years ago from Orange County (Southern California)

      Audrey,

      I've returned to read and share your article another time.

      Happy Birthday!

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Hi Catherine - I appreciate your comments. Coming from a professional speaker such as yourself I'm delighted to hear from you. We all need to be reminded from time to time how special we truly are. Have a pleasant day!

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      Catherine Giordano 2 years ago from Orlando Florida

      You can never hear it to often--you are special., you are beautiful. I write some inspirational hubs myself and many of the speeches I give (in my other career as a public speaker) are about positive thinking and believing in your yourself.

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      Catherine Giordano 2 years ago from Orlando Florida

      You can never hear it to often--you are special., you are beautiful. I write some inspirational hubs myself and many of the speeches I give (in my other career as a public speaker) are about positive thinking and believing in your yourself.

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Deborah-Diane

      It's so great to see you here! Thanks so much for reading my hub and taking time to comment. I'll be over to visit you. :)

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      Deborah-Diane 2 years ago from Orange County, California

      Wonderful! This Hub could help many people discover their own talents and work to develop them. Well done!

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Lady Guinevere

      I'm very happy to see you dear lady. So sorry you've not been able to post or read. How kind of you to let me know that you've been reading my posts. You are an outstanding support for me and I do appreciate this so much!

      Thank you also for sharing this hub. You've certainly made my Sunday a great one.

      My best to you -

      Audrey

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      Debra Allen 2 years ago from West By God

      I just had to come back here and say Hi. I know that sounds weird, but I have not been able to read or post for such a long time. I miss your posts. I do read them and re-read them. I just thought that you would like to know that. If I had not done so before I am going to share this wonderful hub again. Have a Great Sunday!

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      ChitrangadaSharan

      How nice to see you again my friend. I'm delighted to know that my hub is inspiring. I appreciate your sharing on HP!

      Beaddoodler

      Thanks for being here. My goal with this hub was to inspire others. You've confirmed that I have. Your sharing is much appreciated.

      mary615

      I'm still reliving the story you wrote about the mouse and grandma. I just love it! Thanks for finding my hub inspiring. It's always so special to read your comments and know that you've spent time reading my hubs.

      Love,

      Audrey

      Team Wiseman

      Thank you for finding my hub uplifting and refreshing. So glad you read the comments which is something I love to do on each hub I visit.

      You've given my hub such wonderful ratings along with a thumbs up. And additional thanks for sharing with your whole crew. :)

      My best to you and yours.

      Audrey

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      Team Wiseman 2 years ago

      What an inspiring article you have put together here. This is definitely a great hub to read daily just to get in the positive mood required to live a happy and healthy life. Truly uplifting and refreshing.

      What a great read! The comments are astounding, it took me a long time to get down here...

      Thumbs UP!, Beautiful, Awesome, Useful and Interesting!! Sharing with my whole crew

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      Mary Hyatt 2 years ago from Florida

      Thanks for this! I think we all need inspiration, and this Hub certainly gives me just that!

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      Jennie Hennesay 2 years ago from Lubbock TX

      Very inspiring and well written. Had to share!

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      Chitrangada Sharan 2 years ago from New Delhi, India

      Came back to read this wonderful hub once again! Getting inspired and feeling positive. Thanks and sharing on HP!

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Samprita

      Thank you for reading this and leaving such a nice comment. I appreciate it. I'm happy you are sharing this with others.

      Take care,

      Audrey

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      Dr. Samprita Sahu 2 years ago from Indore, India

      Truly inspiring!!! Thanks for such a great hub!!! Most of us, at some point of life start doubting our abilities... More so because of the previous failures. But as you said, we got to believe in ourselves... If we don't believe in ourselves why would anyone else? And also liking yourself for who you are...

      Thanks again and sharing it....

      Samprita

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Thanks daydreamer13 for stopping by. I appreciate your taking time to read and comment on my hub. Have a great day! Audrey

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      daydreamer13 2 years ago

      This is very interesting. Thank you for this. Well done!

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Maria,

      Your mama...one very wise lady. Is it any wonder you are filled with unsurpassed wisdom yourself?

      Honoring our uniqueness and our qualities is the only way we can be ourselves.

      The beauty in accepting and loving ourselves leads us to doing the same with each other. You are the perfect example of this.

      Love your comments Maria and I thank you for voting Up and across and for sharing.

      Love,

      Audrey

      tillsontitan,

      How wonderful to see you again Mary! One of the benefits of aging is how we can often find more time for reflection.

      And speaking of benefits...I have gained enormously from you these last 6 years, both as a reader of your hubs and getting to know the glorious Mary! Thank you for all your support.

      Audrey

      fpherj48

      Dear Paula,

      Being healthy is absolutely #1 because as you say, without good health we cannot enjoy life. I experienced this a few years ago and know this to be true.

      You are a natural 'sparkler.' You absolutely light up all of Hub Pages! And as far as being unique...you are the top of the heap.

      Thank you, dear Paula and keep on shining!

      Hugs,

      Audrey

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      Paula 2 years ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

      Audrey...This is an amazing and uplifting moment I'm sure to keep in my heart. I can't help but be taken aback to find that having superb health comes in 3rd. in your poll......None of the rest can be of much importance if we are not healthy enough to achieve and enjoy!!

      There are sparkling diamonds amongst us......we all may have a chance to sparkle...Peace, Paula UP+++

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      Mary Craig 2 years ago from New York

      I read it before and now I've read it again. You are certainly our diamond shining and reminding us we can shine too!

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      Maria Jordan 2 years ago from Jeffersonville PA

      "Diamond girl....YOU sure do shine...!!"

      Thanks for getting me singing, smiling and learning all in one fell swoop, dear Audrey. This article sure is evergreen...because no matter 'how late a gal is to the party', there is wisdom and insight to be gained.

      You remind me of my Momma telling us 'how very boring the world would be if we were all the same'...as her gentle way of teaching us to 'be ourselves'.

      Beautiful, my friend...Voting UP and UABI and sharing. Love, Maria

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Joanna14

      Thank you for your comments and for the information on your hub. I will be sure to check it out.

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      Audrey Hunt 2 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Brite-Ideas

      Your comments are wonderful! Life is indeed full of endless challenges. It sometimes takes all the self-confidence and empowering thoughts just to meet these obstacles. Thank you.

      PurvisBobbi44

      Thank you, special lady, for your supportive comments. Take good care of yourself. Audrey

      Tamara14

      You're a good mother and teaching your girls empowering truths to help them through life. Thank you.

      Tashaonthetown

      Nice to see you here and glad to know you enjoyed my hub. Thank you.

      rasta1

      What is loving yourself on a supernatural level?

      I'm not familiar with this. Thanks.

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      Christine Hulme 2 years ago from SE Kent, England

      So true- something I like to remind myself of every day. I find Joyce Meyer's Daily Battlefield Of The Mind particularly helpful with this, which is why I wrote a hub review on it.

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      Mary Norton 2 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      Vocalcoach, you do live what you have written here. You live your unique you and it is beautiful. I am really amazed at the support you are giving people here. I want to read this over and over again. Fear still dominate me sometimes and there is no reason to allow that to stifle me but allow it I do.

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      Marvin Parke 2 years ago from Jamaica

      I am starting to learn to love myself deeply on a supernatural level.

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      Natasha Pelati 2 years ago from South Africa

      An interesting article I thoroughly enjoyed it

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      Tamara Kajari 3 years ago from Zagreb, Croatia, Europe

      I needed to read this, thank you. So motivational... I find myself amazed every now and then by the fact how majority of people (at least here where I live) don't realize how much they could accomplish. Me too, often. I teach both my daughters not to accept that but to strive constantly.

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      PurvisBobbi44 3 years ago from Florida

      Hi,

      This was awesome, beautiful and amazing---just like the writer. I will be back to read more hubs.

      Thanks,

      Bobbi Purvis

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      Barbara Tremblay Cipak 3 years ago from Toronto, Canada

      Wonderful article! The world needs more of this; there are always issues and things coming at us in life, but if we believe that we can overcome, we're at least heading in that direction. As you said so well, we are all unique and I believe as many others do that every person has something to offer.

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      ChitrangadaSharan - Thank you dear friend for confirming that my hub is inspiring and motivating. This was my goal in writing it. Too many people just don't believe they are like a diamond. We must all make an effort to change these toxic beliefs.

      I thank you also for sharing my hub on HP. - Audrey

      Treasuresofheaven - You are so welcome and I am thankful to you for your encouraging comments. Happy Days! - Audrey

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      Sima Ballinger 3 years ago from Michigan

      Beautiful! You are a great example of one who believes in herself! Thanks for a good article filled with inspiration that I can use everyday.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 3 years ago from New Delhi, India

      Brilliant hub and what better way to say, 'Believe in your self'!

      I found this article to be truly inspiring and motivating. Wonderful for everyone to read and get inspired! Therefore sharing it on HP! Thanks!

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      moonfairy - (I love your name) - Yes, you are so right. We "have to allow it." Thanks!

      schoolgirlforreal - I'm delighted to see you again. You light up my hub page! Thank you for the great votes and for sharing this on FB ~ Audrey

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      schoolgirlforreal 3 years ago from USA

      Oh my goodness how many comments you have! And what a wonderful and encouraging hub! Uniqueness, I love the Walt Disney quote and it's so true if we repeat that over and over, and DARE to be ourselves we Will be more unique! Voted up, useful, and awesome and will share on fb! :)

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      moonfairy 3 years ago

      thank you for this hub....we ARE all unique with amazing abilities....we just have to "allow" it!

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Jodah - You've made my day and I thank you so very much. If we all could only see the brilliance that lives within, oh my, what we could accomplish!

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      John Hansen 3 years ago from Queensland Australia

      I love this hub Audrey. It is one of the most motivational I have read. Well done voted up across the board.

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      NadineMay - Thank you s0 much for your kind and uplifting comments about my hub. I'm very glad to hear that you like the images.

      Vellur "Pearls of wisdom." I love this phrase. I'm always delighted to see you dear one. ~ Audrey

      Anita lesic - Good to hear your comment. Where is Zagreb? Thank you.

      lisavanvorst - Hello. I thank you so much for reading my hub and leaving me such inspiring comments. You are indeed a diamond!

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      thoughtforce - You're comment about most of us living our lives to be something that we aren't instead of being who we really are is profound! Thank you so much for this. And thank you for seeing my own diamond (which I ignore way to often.) ~ Audrey

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      Lisa VanVorst 3 years ago from New Jersey

      This was a beautiful, motivational and inspirational hub. Thank you for writing it. The pictures were beautiful. You definitely inspired me to be optimistic and stop the negativity affecting me both physically and mentally. Thank you.

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      Dream Lover 3 years ago from Zagreb

      well written ;)

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      Nithya Venkat 3 years ago from Dubai

      Great hub positive, inspiring and filled with pearls of wisdom. Great write. Voted up.

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      Nadine May 3 years ago from Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

      What a beautiful post Audrey. Very uplifting. Thank you for sharing your gift of encouragement to others in this way. I also love the images you have chosen for this hub. Well done.

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      Christina Lornemark 3 years ago from Sweden

      Brilliant article and a great boost for the every reader. Isn't it sad that it will take most of us so long time to really discover our own qualities. We spend so many years trying to be someone else and constantly compare ourselves with others. Great hub as always and you really are a real diamond Vocal! I wish you a wonderful day,

      Tina

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      jtrader - I'm happy to see you here. Appreciate your vote so much.

      SandySpider - Hello Sandy and thanks for being here. It's really nice to hear that you found my hub positive and enlightening. You are a terrific writer and one that I respect and admire.

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      Sandy Mertens 3 years ago from Wisconsin, USA

      Very positive and enlightening hub.

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      jtrader 3 years ago

      Encouraging words :-)

      Voted up and beautiful!

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      This is the best birthday gift of all, Nell. How like you it is to remember me and celebrate with one of my own hubs. This is also my favorite hub. From one diamond to another - let's keep sparkling. Thank you ~ Audrey

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      Nell Rose 3 years ago from England

      Happy Birthday! And yes you are a unique person, so this is totally right for today! lol! voted up and shared, nell

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      brakel2 - Thank you so much for returning to my hub and posting it on FB and sharing it as well. Your comment " We are what we believe " is so true. We must believe that we are 'good enough'. We must believe that we are worthy of being loved.

      I'm glad that you appreciate the pictures I selected. I am moved by your comments. My heart is full. Sending you a hug and keep sparkling ~ Audrey

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      Audrey Selig 3 years ago from Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

      Hi Audrey -I came back to read this lovely story again and to post it to Facebook and to share it. The message in this hub is so great for self esteem and so truthful. We are what we believe. The other fascination are the vibrant photos that back up the story. Just looking at the pictures makes a person feel inspired and ready to embark on a great journey of success. You are a great lady. Blessings. Audrey.

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      kidscraft - I want to thank you for your fan mail. This is how I found you. I just treated myself to your fantastic hub on "The Owl," and enjoyed it immensely.

      Your kind comments have given me a "warm, fuzzy, feeling.:) " I agree with you 100% about how children should be taught this message as soon as they start school

      It was, in fact, my kindergarten teacher who, through her love for me, gave me the first love that I so longed for and needed. I will never forget "Miss Butterfield."

      Keep shining, my hub friend. You are a precious diamond. ~ Audrey

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      kidscrafts 3 years ago from Ottawa, Canada

      What an amazing and inspiring hub! I will come back to this one as I want to do some meditation.

      "Discover the Real, Unique You, A Diamond With Outstanding Abilities" should be taught as soon as children start school. I remember that I was going through a rough times with my parents when I was an adolescent and it's the time and the kind words of one teacher that made a difference in my life. I suppose he was able to see something shining a little bit :-)

      Thank you very much for this awesome and beautiful hub!

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      KatyAnnSmith - How wonderful to see you here.

      I admire you very much for wanting to be who you truly are. I'm certain it will happen. When we have the courage to be who we are, what a freeing experience it is. I'm in your corner ~ Audrey

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      rcorcutt ~ Thank you for the uplifting comments. So glad you liked this. Take care.

      JPSO138 ~ Hello there. Thank you for your kind and uplifting comments. Makes me feel good. We are all so awesome. So pleased that you liked my presentation. Peace to you.

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      Audrey Hunt 3 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      skin-care-natural ~As we come to believe in our own talents and good, it matters not what the world thinks. Thank you.

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      Kaitlyn Smith 3 years ago from San Diego

      This was an AMAZING post and very inspiring also. I am so glad I took the time to read this hub because it defines what I am trying to do right now which is finding myself and not trying to be what everyone wants me to be. Also I would like to thank you for commenting on my hub. It really helped me to become more confident in my writing.

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      JPSO138 3 years ago from Cebu, Philippines, International

      Very inspirational and worth pondering upon. I love the way you presented everything as well as the pictures that go along with the hub. Simply awesome!

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      rcorcutt 3 years ago

      This was an awesome HUB. Very interesting and thought provoking.

      Thank You

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      Audrey Hunt 4 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Hello brake12 (Audrey) - I read your comments carefully and 'inhaled' every line. Your husband needs to recognize you as the beautiful diamond that you are. It's good for him to recognize this in you also. I admire your positive, healthy, and clear attitude. Thank you, Audrey, for being here and I so look forward to connecting deeper with you and your beautiful attitude.

      Beautiful thoughts to you ~ vocalcoach (Audrey.) :)

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      Audrey Selig 4 years ago from Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

      Hi Audrey - I love the photos in this hub along with the wonderful message. It is so easy to find fault sand beat yourself up over them. It is a brilliant idea to think we have a diamond within us that will shine forever. That would make anyone feel good. Your comparison immediately makes us think of the positive qualities within us. I am going to tell my spouse that I am a diamond. Sometimes I tell him I am amazing to get a compliment. Seriously, we need to be diamonds, as we all have good qualities that outway negative qualities. Thanks for sharing this lovely piece. From another Audrey

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      Audrey Hunt 4 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Skin-care-natural ` What you say is true. Thanks for mentioning this. BTW, I love your hubs!

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      Clara Myers 4 years ago from USA, East Coast

      We all have gifts and talents but sadly the world does not always appreciate them and we begin to believe the lie that we have no talent. Don't believe the lie!

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      Audrey Hunt 4 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      justmesuzanne - I'm so very glad to see you here, appreciate your kindness and look forward to seeing you again soon.

      The vote up and wonderful ratings and sharing are much appreciated. ~ Audrey

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      justmesuzanne 4 years ago from Texas

      Lovely thoughts! Voted up, awesome, beautiful and shared! :)

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      Audrey Hunt 4 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Epi - You are magnificent! And to hear those treasured three words from you fills me with supreme gratitude for the day we met, three years ago right here on HP.

      Please tell Little Miss Tiffy I will use her warm wishes and good energy along with Mister Gabriel, dressed in white and hears with his heart and not his ears. God bless them.

      I'm healthy at last and choose to be happy and keeping busy here at HP hoping to make some money :)

      Thank you dearest man for taking your precious time to pay me a visit and fill me with happiness.

      I'll keep my eye out for your card and welcome this very lovely gesture.

      Many hugs and endless love to you Colin ~ Audrey

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      epigramman 4 years ago

      Audrey I came here just 3 words on my mind - I love you!!!!!!

      I am also sending you warm wishes and good energy from Little Miss Tiffy who was my mum's cat and she is now 18 and a certified diva, lol, and Mister Gabriel, my adopted cat who is all white and completely deaf.

      I am hoping that you are happy, healthy and keeping busy - you are one of our bright shining diamonds here at the Hub and it was a grand day when we both met - lake erie time ontario canada 6:56pm

      I will send you a nice card of flowers on your FB page so keep a look out for it ....

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      Audrey Hunt 4 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      Scarlett Rain - I'm so glad you liked this hub and that it was helpful for you. It was such a joy to write. ~ Love, Audrey

      Dear carolina muscle - You live this principle of loving yourself first and it shows in your magnificent hubs! Thanks my friend ~ Audrey

      passionate77 - Thank you for enjoying this and you're so right about the effect of improving the personality. Thanks also for bookmarking. Sweet blessings to you and a big hug. ~ Audrey

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      passionate77 4 years ago

      so beautiful and well written post, really enjoyed a lot and found it so helpful in personality improvement too. i bookmarked the page as well. thanks for sharing vocalcoach and stay blessed dear!

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      carolina muscle 4 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

      Another wonderful post-- it's so important an idea! If others are to love you, you must first love yourself. It's a terrific hub !!!! :)

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      Scarlett Rain 4 years ago from Bakersfield

      Simply wonderful, this is a very helpful hub. I enjoyed reading this.

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      Audrey Hunt 4 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      just-about - I'm sorry to hear that your daughter was so ill. Glad she's recovered. Unfortunately for we mothers, we don't always recover as well or as soon as the children do. It takes so much out of us.

      Your diamond is shining brightly and glad you are now moving forward. Good for you! Hugs.

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      just-about 4 years ago

      Thank you so much - I've just had a few difficult weeks during which my daughter was very ill. I couldn't "do" much for her and it left me feeling deflated about myself. She recovered and is getting on with her life - I wasn't. But now I shall polish my diamond and move forward.

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      Audrey Hunt 4 years ago from Nashville Tn.

      suzettenaples - Thank you for finding my hub uplifting! It's really amazing when you think about all the people on our planet and yet we are all unique and different. We must concentrate on our own diamond and not the differences. So glad you came by!