I went to a medium and spoke with my sister, Julie. She had answers for me and things said that no one would know. My dad, who I never met before was there too, and told me why he never came into my life. He said my mom wouldn't let him. When I asked her that, she confirmed what he said. I wasn't sure about visiting this medium at first, but my sister's death is an open/cold case and the lady described her apartment in detail and told me what happened to her. I felt better after leaving.