The bible is full of allegories, euphemisms, metaphors, parables, and exaggerations.
The exaggerations are used to make an important point .
In Luke, Yahshua is not saying for us to hate our families. He is telling us to love and serve God.
Honoring our parents is one of the commandments
Honor thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee
Commandments are given in the order of importance. The first commandment is the most important
I am the LORD thy God, which brought thee out of the land of Egypt, from the house of bondage.
Thou shalt have none other gods before me.
Yahshua (known as Jesus) made it clear and told us to Love God
Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
If you don't believe exaggerations are used, let me know and I will show you many.
You really should make room for your family