neither.. they are just selfish losers that are miserable with their own lives and feel they should just treat eveyrone else the same way...
treat others how you want them to treat you..
fun brings fun, negative breeds negative, love brings love and warmth and hapiness.. evil brings lonliness, anger and hatered and those kind of people will just die alone and miserable but unfortunately will create so much hatred among others.. which takes a lot of hard work for kind hearted loving people to undo.
i grew up with angry abusive parents.. my adopted brother is a selfish loser that poses nothing but negativity on everyone around him and is verbally and physiclaly abusive.. (i disowned him years ago) and i love people, laughing and making others smile.. has nothign to do with the way we are born.. my birth family is proof of that, and so am i.. my birth family were abusive, my adopted family were, but i'm so far from that its ridiculous.. i find the worste things in l ife can also help me find a reason to smile. why, cos its who i am.
if it were genes.. or upbringing.. i'd be a druggy, an alcaholic and a angry loser all in one.. but i rarely drink, and never alone. have never touched drugs of any kind, i chose to be different and to be myself.. its comes from the inside and how we feel about ourselves.. for years i hated myself, i changed that and everyone tells me i'm one of the nicest people they know.. genes my a"""" its who we are on the inside, its what and who we chose to be.