Do we, really?
Honestly, I am not attempting to argue with you, but I have addressed life with this mantra.......
Here, I am, and this is what I have...........or can do. For me, there is no problem in telling you, that I have no talent in a particular areana.
Is that argumentive, or reflecting the need to prove something?
Is it?, Please, educate me.......there is something about your question or viewpoint that I fail to grasp........be honest and straightforward, so that I might learn.