There is a commonly held belief that we all possess a small spark of the Divine Creator within each of us... our "soul". Its placement wasn't random and reflects one of the roles every human being plays. Part of our purpose is to experience a unique reality and viewpoint for the Creator, allowing essentially the Creator to live through us. Many also regard the process involved in bringing artistic expression to life involves this same soul, where the Creator makes Its presence felt or shown through the new creation.
My answer is that "God" is all of us, each unique expressions of the same unfathomable and unknowable Primal Creator. Affixing human characteristics, such as being of the male gender, is a purely human invention, just like the countless wars waged across the ages because one group wished to enforce their view of "God" on others, and seldom has there not been enormous terror, misery and death attached to these conversion campaigns. The Divine creator, to me, embodies the highest of all energies... that of unconditional love.