Should we take a survey of who enters the church? Absolutely not, we should welcome all people. We should teach from the Bible and we should not hide or hold back any scripture, we should present all scripture as it is written. We may give our interpretation of scripture and we may counsel those who inquire about their or our interpretation, but we must be considerate of others. We were not always so perfect ourselves (just joking here)
I am a heterosexual, but I can love men deeply and without the need for intimacy, but for those who are unable to surpress those desires, I would offer my love, as a fellow child of God, but I may not be able to understand or accept their affection as unsinful, not that I am any less prone to sin.
The Bible we have spells out homosexuality, adultery, gluttony, theft, etc. as sin and to recognize any sin as not sinful, one might as well change the Bible to suit themselves. But in all things charity or love, as in compassion and tolerence.