I have not celebrated "Christ Mass" for 4 years now. When I was young, we read the Nativity story from the Bible, but it was all about eating and ripping into gifts.
I don't know any child who doesn't see it the same way. I know of no merchants who don't see it as a way to make some serious cash. As they say, "Christmas makes or breaks" many businesses.
Even before I really took a hard look at the Christmas tradition, I always felt bad this time of year (as a young adult). It just seemed Jesus was forgotten in all the hustle and bustle of commercialism and consumerism. Things were always so busy and loud...I could hardly hear myself think. It got so bad that I just could not wait for Christmas to end.
I dare say that anyone who says they can find Jesus in "Christmas" is either delusional, are good at lying to themselves, or can justify just about anything.