I take your point about the remark, and yes, I guess that I'm talking to you. I see a smile and I see beauty. That to me is a great start!
It is occasionally hostile here, I agree. What do you do? Any friends that you like? Sometimes friends offer us support so we feel secure, loved and happy. Being happy brings out the best in us and inspire others: parents, peers, colleagues, to be their better selves.
Any interests? Perhaps you like helping others. You may also do sports to keep your body healthy and fit.
It is good to see you looking healthy, and engaging. By your question, you seem to be doing it with wisdom, care ...
Bravo! I commend you, Virginia. Be good, be loving; try to serve. This will widen your heart and enhance your beauty. Have a great Sunday!