My ten commandments would include being considerate of others, being responsible to AND for ourselves and those whose lives we create. Another of my ten commandments would be to never create life when one does not have their own life (mental, physical, financial, etc.) in order, this one occurs so much without any thought to this terribly important and special lifetime job that it is downright worrisome.
More of my ten commandments would be the importance of holding ourselves accountable for our success and failures, being proactive, curious, and tactfully honest...even when the truth may hurt. I would say the last three of my commandments would be to find something(s) you truly enjoy and experience joy everyday, to be charitable in some capacity, and to recognize that your happiness is not dependent upon others.