It's different for me, I do have a relationship with my Gods, but they don't give me rules.
Life gets too complex for lists of arbitrary rules. There's human laws (social contract), there are different circumstances, there are morals and ethics to consider and debate, consequences to consider, and answers aren't always that easy. I'm charged with the responsibility to think hard about how my actions (or inactions) will affect not just me, but my family, friends, society, etc.... and to always do my best to do my best.
Thankfully, They (my Gods) are there for guidance and I and I can look to them to help me figure things out.