Well it might have been me, been wheelchair bound for 20 years, I am not a religious fanatic but I do love Jesus.
Am I unfortunate? I was just unlucky enough to be in the wrong place at the wrong time twice.
One hit from another human being with his fist and my subsequent hitting the floor did damage to my brain and inner ear.
Later after being in the wheelchair I was hit again this time by a truck. Lost the total use of my body from the waist down and my memory for 9 years.
I am still alive so actually consider myself lucky. As for allowing suffering, I have had my fill of that, but not because of the wheelchair. I lost the 5 closest people to me within a two year period.
This question I asked myself many times why didn't God take me and let them live. I still want to know why I outlived my son. No parent I know wants to live through that although many do.
Does Jesus love me, why would he not, he came to save the sinners and helped many a disabled person.
In 2005 I had a healing by members of a christian fellowship, I am still in a wheelchair but my memory was returned to me. Is it not Christs love that gave me what I needed most.