Jhn 3:8 The wind (Pneuma.. Spirit) bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit (Pneuma...Spirit).
Confused people try and live a Religious lifestyle, their Religion might be called Christianity, and just that might not even be true Christianity, but false Christianity.
There is no "Defined" lifestyle if you are a "Born Again" Christian, because your life depends on where God takes you.
Yes you can do all the good things but it does not move or manipulate God. Christ is the way...the path. He leads you from inside you.
That is a lifestyle that depends on Gods move.