I'm not sure exactly what the situation is. Do you mean someone is abusing you and telling you have to do this or that (tolerate the abuse) because you are a person of faith? If that is the case, I do have a hub called "Forgiveness and Disassociation" that may be of some help to you. In other words, if you have someone who continually sins against you, tells you that you have to forgive and then starts the cycle all over again, that is abuse. It's time to forgive them and disassociate with them until they stop harming you and your faith. God has called us to peace. I hope this helps. It would be better if I knew more about your situation, so as to direct you to the right scriptures, for there are many.