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Signs Of The Zodiac: Capricorn

Updated on August 23, 2017
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Capricorn: December 22 to January 19

This lens will be focusing on Capricorns. I am a Capricorn myself so naturally I want to celebrate all the great attributes of Capricorns and maybe some of their (very few) negative traits as well.

I was born on December 28th and so was my little sister 11 years after me. It's a horrible day for a birthday as everyone is exhausted after a hectic Christmas and getting geared up to celebrate the New Year. We are the 'inbetweenies'.

Read on to see if I have captured your Capricorn personality, take part in the poll and read the comments, there are some interesting opinions, and of course, we'd like to read yours.

UPDATE I've now included more interactive sections. Negative traits, career/job suggestions and Capricorns as lovers/partners. Each section has its own comments so feel free to ask a question, or respond to one in these sections. I've had to limit the number of comments visible, as the page length was becoming a bit unwieldy. All comments are moderated.

Capricorns are Solid and Dependable

Like a rock...

Capricorns appear serious and pretty boring at times. However, don't let that fool you into thinking that is their true nature. It isn't. It is true that we are reliable and loyal, calm and strong-willed, but we also have a streak of fun-loving, creative loveliness going on. We are great workers, always taking a project to its conclusion. Our standards are high and discipline in the workplace is a must. We also like to have a little respect from employers and co-workers for our efforts. That doesn't rule out the occasional need to kick over the traces and have a lark.

Capricorns are very profound thinkers. They thoroughly explore all options before deciding on the safest alternative. They have good memories and an insatiable desire for knowledge. They are rational, logical, and clear-headed and delight in debate. They thrive on showing off their cleverness and luring their adversaries into traps.

Capricorns do tend to impose their standards on others and this can set them apart and cause friction. This is one of Capricorn's life lessons. We must learn to live and let live.

Capricorns don't let life get them down. We simply buckle down and get on with the job, whether we be high-ranking executives or office cleaners. When faced with adversity, we plan how to deal with it and then deal with it. We do have a tendency towards an immediate negative response - maybe a moan or we say no to something before considering it properly. Once we have worked through a mental list of obstacles, everything is fine and we can get on with whatever challenge we are faced with. We are usually (but not always) organized so that we can tackle more than one project at a time. We love being wealthy, not because we are greedy but because we crave security.

Negative Traits of Capricorn - The Bad Side of Capricorns

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If Capricorns experience failure, they can be prone to misery, and have a hard time keeping it to themselves. Moany, moany, moan. In extreme cases, they can become very depressed and will often alternate between euphoria and melancholy. Meditation may help.

Some Capricorns take revenge on those who upset them. Alternatively, they will simply stop talking to you. They are the masters of the Silent Treatment. Most of the time, they aren't brooding on what you have done to them but they're simply choosing to focus their attention elsewhere. They won't let a negative situation impact their lives for any length of time.

Capricorns like to be right. The trouble is - they usually are. It's best not to argue with them - the worst (or best, depending on your point of view) thing you can say to a Capricorn is, "I'm sure you're right..." and then change the subject. The Capricorn will be left seething having been denied the opportunity to prove their argument in depth.

Capricorns can be grumpy in the mornings. If they aren't grumpy, then they can be bright and breezy to the annoyance of every one around them.

All right, I'm going to admit it. Capricorns are sometimes, just sometimes, a little bit critical. Look, if you're going to do something, then do it properly. Then we won't tell you off. Promise.

Your turn - do Capricorns have a dark side?

Leave a comment or question here regarding Capricorn's less attractive characteristics. If you want more information about a specific person, include their date of birth (day and month) but no other identifying information. For love and career issues, scroll down the page.

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The Queen of Pentacles represents the female Capricorn

Mothering but not smothering

The Queen of Pentacles is a practical woman. She will offer a shoulder to cry on for about 5 seconds but then she expects you to pull yourself together and listen to her bossy suggestions of how you might solve your dilemma. If you want empathy, then this Queen is not your girl. She likes to help but she does expect to see people making an effort to help themselves.

Family is all important to the Queen of Pentacles but she also values her own time. She protects her babies like a she-wolf, but as they grow she will encourage her kids to be independent and self-reliant.

This is the woman you want next to you in a crisis. She's the one who will put the kettle on and mop up the blood. The Queen of Pentacles is a tough businesswoman unless she is called to more homely activities.

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Capricorns: careers and work

All the Capricorn personality types have an affinity with work. They need it. Capricorns cannot bear doing nothing at all and if they can learn something or earn something then so much the better. They don't see the point in doing anything without some reward though it doesn't have to be monetary. They are happy in the achievement of a job well done. If their job inspires them and makes them want to get up in the mornings, then they are even happier.

Capricorns have a wide range of options when it comes to careers. A lot of them choose careers that have to do with money. They make great economists, bankers, contractors, managers, and real estate brokers. They excel at projects that are long-term and demanding. Their love of debate and dialect makes them great politicians. They are good teachers and prefer jobs where they have authority. When working with their hands, they make great scientists, engineers, farmers, and builders.

Capricorns are also artistic and creative, though many would disagree. They make good writers, especially of non-fiction, as their natural tendency is to produced a rounded piece of writing, showing all sides of a discussion, and of course, well-crafted and grammatically correct. They have a thing about spelling.

Note to self: Better check this article very, very carefully!

Ask about your career...

If you'd like to explore some career options, ask a question and include your date of birth (but no other identifying information) here. I can't guarantee to find your perfect path, but you never know, it might spark some ideas. Don't forget to check back to see my reply.

Update: It appears that some have misunderstood. I can't tell you when you are going to get a job - I'm not clairvoyant. Please keep your questions general, and I will gladly impart some information based on your Capricorn type. Scroll down to see which Capricorn type you are.

"God helps those who help themselves" - typical Capricorn motto

Jesus Was a Capricorn

Your Capricorn employee

One thing Capricorns don't need is the approval of others. However, they are gracious in their acceptance of praise and it serves to increase their confidence and therefore, their ability and efficiency. So, if you want a good job done even better make sure you acknowledge your Capricorn's effort, input and expertise.

Capricorns don't take criticism well and it is something they need to address. Make your criticisms suggestions and they will be accepted. Make your Capricorn feel stupid and you risk losing a great worker. Capricorns hate humiliation.

Capricorns are loyal. If they like and trust you, they will walk to the ends of the earth for you. They might moan and grump about it, but do it they will.

Capricorns like to advance. Preferably steadily. They can't handle sudden rises to the top but they enjoy steady progression. They must master each level or skill before moving to the next.

Ridicule a Capricorn at your peril

If you can't love me at my worst...

You sure as sausages don't deserve me at my best!

Capricorns can have problems in personal relationships. They have a very strong sense of fairness, which they apply equally to the other person (partner, child, parent, friend, co-worker) and to themselves. They see a relationship as a 50:50 thing and expect the other person to play the game. They can put up with imbalance in the relationship for a little while but if it feels as though they are being taken advantage of, they will become unhappy.

We are wary of people we don't know very well and take a little time to lower our guard. We tend to have a few good friends, rather than a coterie of acquaintances. It's the security thing kicking in - we like to be with people we can trust. We also like them to know that we are trustworthy beyond doubt. Tell us a secret and we'll keep it.

Capricorns do attract people who don't really understand how we operate. They sometimes think we are little cold and unfeeling. This is not necessarily the case; we are simply not demonstrative in a public way.

Don't engage a Capricorn in a battle of wills. There's no point. The goat will present his (or her) horns, dig in their hooves and you don't stand a chance of winning. This means that Capricorns are less likely to put up with bullying from others. However, if a Capricorn goes rogue, he or she can indulge in domineering, and yes, bullying behavior.

Once Cappies feel safe in a relationship, they will unleash their witty alter-ego. They love to be entertained by their partner or friend, so someone who gets their sense of humor and who can ping-pong it back to them is treasured.

At odds with their practical and often rigid-seeming ideals, is the Capricorn's interest in the occult and, indeed, spirituality. Capricorns feel a very strong connection to the earth but at the same time they are aware that they, expressed as humans, are just a small part of what they really are. They know that they are powerful beings.

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According to Gary Goldshneider and Joost Elfers, authors of "The Secret Language of Relationships", you can classify the Capricorn into four distinct groups according to which period they were born in. Each group has subtle differences in the way they relate to other star-signs.

The following (summarised and rewritten), is just a tiny sample of the information given in this huge (over 800 pages) book.

Sagittarius - Capricorn Cusp: Dec 19 - 25 : The Cusp of Prophecy

The person born into this group experiences a strong push/pull influence from fiery Jupiter and cold Saturn. Thus they have positive and negative attributes of both. For example, they may feel cheerful and fun-seeking, and then feel guilty that they aren't working hard enough. They often have difficulty expressing their thoughts and feelings, so may lapse into silence. They do not seek approval, and because of that, they often receive it. As they age, they often develop a strong sixth sense. They are good judges of character and have fully functional bullcrap detectors.

Strengths: psychic, inscrutable, intense Weaknesses:frustrated, antisocial, oppressive.

Best Relationships:

Love: Pisces-Aries Cusp, Taurus-Gemini Cusp, Gemini lll, Leo lll, Libra ll, Scorpio-Sagittarius Cusp, Sagittarius lll, Capricorn lll, Aquarius l, Aquarius lll, Pisces lll.

Marriage: Gemini-Cancer Cusp, Cancer lll, Libra lll, Scorpio lll, Sagittarius l, Capricorn ll, Aquarius ll

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Capricorn l: Dec 26 - Jan 2 : The Ruler

Emotional expression does not come easily to those born in this week; often creatures of deep feeling, they can get all wrapped up inside a cocoon of repressed emotion. Since love relationships are a direct means of liberating such feelings, their mates and lovers may be indispensable for their mental and physical health. Capricorn ls are usually extremely faithful.

Strengths: capable, hard-working, concerned. Weaknesses: dogmatic, bottled up, tyrannical.

Best Relationships:

Love: Taurus ll, Taurus lll, Gemini ll, Virgo ll, Scorpio lll, Aquarius ll.

Marriage: Taurus l, Gemini l, Leo l, Virgo l, Libra l, Libra lll, Libra-Scorpio Cusp, Sagittarius lll, Capricorn l, Aquarius l, Aquarius lll.

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Capricorn ll : January 3 - 9 : Determination

In their personal lives, Capricorn lls are happiest when they have a partner with whom to share the joys and sorrows of everyday life. They can live alone but most often choose not to do so. They may well insist, however, that their work is an inviolable area that they have no duty to share with their mate.

Strengths: resilient, resourceful, theoretical. Weaknesses: Naïve, armored, workaholic.

Best Relationships

Love: Aries ll, Cancer-Leo Cusp, Leo lll, Virgo l, Scorpio l, Sagittarius lll, Capricorn-Aquarius Cusp, Aquarius lll.

Marriage: Pisces-Aries Cusp, Aries l, Aries lll, Gemini ll, Cancer ll, Cancer lll, Sagittarius-Capricorn Cusp, Aquarius ll, Pisces 1.

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Capricorn lll : January 10 - 16 : Dominance

A vivacious and interesting mate can be good medicine for those born in this week, taking their minds off career concerns and allowing them to relax and have fun. Capricorn 111s often need someone at home who can lighten their mood when they walk in the door.

Although responsible, Capricorn llls are not dull by any means. Many have an arresting, even eclectic demeanor that can be highly charismatic, or at the very least can cause others to watch them in wide-eyed astonishment.

Strengths: professional, surmounting, maintaining. Weaknesses: unheeding, outrageous, self-sacrificing.

Best Relationships

Love: Aries-Taurus Cusp, Gemini l, Cancer l, Leo-Virgo Cusp, Virgi lll, Libra l, Scorpio-Sagittarius Cusp, Sagittarius-Capricorn Cusp, Capricorn lll, Aquarius-Pisces Cusp.

Marriage: Pisces-Aries Cusp, Taurus l, Taurus lll, Virgo l, Libra ll, Scorpio ll, Aquarius l, Pisces l.

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Capricorn - Aquarius Cusp : January 17 - 22 : The Cusp of Mystery and Imagination

The vivid and expressive individuals born on the Capricorn - Aquarius cusp generate excitement wherever they go. Those born on this cusp can only fully respect individuals who share daily chores and duties with them. Capricorn - Aquarians often seek hard-working dependable mates rather than beautiful or intelligent ones. Outside their permanent relationship, however, the impulsive Capricorn-Aquarius may be magnetically attracted to vivacious and exciting individuals.

Strengths: exciting, entertaining, lighthearted. Weaknesses: chaotic, difficult, eruptive.

Best Relationships

Love: Piscs-Aries Cusp, Aries l, Aries lll, Taurus l, Cancer l, Cancer-Leo Cusp, Virgo l, Scorpio lll, Scorpio-Sagittarius Cusp, Capricorn ll, Aquarius lll.

Marriage: Aries ll, Taurus-Gemini Cusp, Gemini lll, Leo l, Pisces lll.

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If you think you are in love with a Capricorn or you are a Capricorn and are wondering if a certain someone would be good for you, then leave your question here. I will need both dates of birth (day and month is sufficient). Check back to see my recommendations.

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Capricorns and health

When it comes to their health, Capricorns are generally very robust. They don't like to talk about anything that is really bothering them and will often hide health concerns from family, but will moan and groan about minor aches and pains. Capricorns have a tendency to have bad knees, bones, and skin. They are subject to strains, fractures, and other leg problems. They tend to hold in worry and suppress emotions which can lead to digestive problems. They often suffer from are anaemia, deafness, rheumatism, and rickets.

Northern hemisphere Capricorns should take a good all-round vitamin supplement and get their lazy backsides out into the sunshine as much as they can to encourage the production of Vitamin D.

I can certainly attest to the knee thing. Ouch!

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Capricorn Links

A few more things

  • Capricorns prefer rich earthy colors.
  • Capricorn birthstones include black onyx, garnet and turquoise.
  • Sissy Spacek, Rudyard Kipling, J. Edgar Hoover, Mel Gibson, Dolly Parton, and Martin Luther King are all Capricorns!

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      Antonia 2 years ago

      Hi, I was born on the 22nd December which makes me a Sagittarius-Capricorn cusp. I am definitely more of a cap than a sag and by looking at my best matches in love and marriage I am really confused as to see that Virgo or Taurus isn't in there... I have been told these are the best match for Capricorns? It does say that Cap II is a good match and my best friend/bit on the side is born on the 5th Jan and our connection is pretty amazing so I'm guessing your article is correct. Just confused about the Virgo and Taurus?? Great page by the way!

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @Vito-d123: Hi Vito, you can tell when she stops talking to you, or if she has to talk to you she will do it in a closed off way, i.e. may not meet your eye or stares directly at you with no hint of humor or softness. Why? You're not being given the Capricorn cold-shoulder, are you? If you are, just keep smiling; it may melt her inner iceberg.

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      Vito-d123 3 years ago

      What are signs that a Cappie woman is mad at you? I may have teased her and... well you know? *Sorry if I have already asked this question. I wasn't sure if it went through or not. Thanks!

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @Vito-d123: This can be an explosive combination with many confrontations. Most relationships between Scorpio ll and Capricorn lll burn out very early on. The key to finding harmony is to recognise your differences and look for common threads. If you can discover small areas where you agree, you can use these to build a good foundation. You have to avoid mutual repression of feelings as it can act as a block for the relationship to develop into a deep and meaningful love. Good luck!

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      Vito-d123 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: 3 nov and 12 jan

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @Vito-d123: Hi Vito, sounds like you have made a connection there. Be aware (read some of the other comments on this page) that Cappies can suddenly have a change of heart and pull back before making any definite... commitment (wrong word, too binding - you get what I mean?). Of course Capricorns are pragmatic and they know that to get out before it gets going is the best thing all round, so if that happens you need to understand her motives.

      You haven't given me any dates of birth (day/month) so I can't give you much more. Play it softly and see what happens.

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      Vito-d123 3 years ago

      I'm a Scorpio female and I noticed that I am able to make this Capricorn female smile or laugh. I know it really isn't anything but I noticed this because she doesn't do it often. Other people have noticed as well, the attention she gives me. When I am withdrawn, she is withdrawn. When we first met she was always around, popping up out of nowhere and disappearing. I am beginning to lose my mind, there is something special about Cappies, this one in particular. Signs???

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @sctt823: Okay, I'm going to take a chance and go with woman born on 6th August and man 12th January. I am in the UK and we write our dates day:month whereas the US writes them the other way.

      Partnership between Leo ll and Cap lll is usually very stable. The relationship is based upon practical matters and both take responsibilities seriously. However, it is also a passionate relationship as the physical aspect matters to both partners equally. This is an ideal combination to run a business together successfully. Long-term relationships and marriages generally last until death do us part.

      Advice: loosen up and don't forget to have fun. Life doesn't have to be serious all the time. Good luck!

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      kevin7654 3 years ago

      Boy - Jan 2, 1983

      Girl - July 27, 1981

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      sctt823 3 years ago

      Girl 8-6-61. Boy 1-12-65 would this pairing work?

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @kevin7654: I can't really tell you a great deal more other than your Capricorn l turning his back is generally a sign that he is not prepared to play games at the moment. Capricorns MUST know where they stand in a relationship. If he thought for a moment that you didn't want him, then he will just walk away. Capricorns love to flirt as long as they believe the other person is interested. Your Cap was born in the same birth week as me, so I know how it goes :-)

      If the relationship gets off the ground then it will be... interesting. It is likely you will be a quirky, fascinating couple. You will present a united front to the world and people who know you will consider you to be energised and also slightly eccentric. However, bear in mind what I said previously - it's an unstable match.

      I can't give you more than this here, but if you want to arrange a private professional reading (tarot) by email, then you can reach me via the contact button top right of this page. Good luck.

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      kevin7654 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: Hi this is the leo lady using my friend's account. I didn't want to create my own and thus just asked him to do it for me. I would really appreciate more thorough insights regarding this match. Thank you again.

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @kevin7654: Hi Kevin, thanks for getting back to me. I am going to answer your question in a very general way as it seems that you are asking about a third party, rather than for yourself. If this was a tarot reading, I wouldn't be able to ethically carry it out. However, as I say, I will keep it very general.

      This is a relationship that is often based on fantasy. Each partner finds a sort of relief from stressful reality. There is fun, flirtatiousness and passion to be had. But... it can all be very superficial. There is no depth; no strong foundation so it doesn't usually endure. A classic example of this paring is Mick Jagger and Marianne Faithfull.

      Having said all that, if the pair can get beyond the first few months, they have a chance of a lasting marriage because each has a strong sense of responsibility and commitment. Whether it would be based on love... well, that's debatable.

      Hope that helps.

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      kevin7654 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: Regardless, there is definitely something to this relationship that is unexplainable, we would really like your insight on this union. Thanks again!

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      kevin7654 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: The cap man, who was totally pursuing the leo woman, has now distanced himself and seems to be testing the leo lady. The leo lady is pretty annoyed by this. Is this normal in this union? Nothing "bad" happened between them and it is still early on as they are still getting to know each other. Leo lady is very confused by this behaviour as everything was going really well for both sides. Although distraught initially she is about to move on. Is this normal for this union and will it just get worse?

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @kevin7654: Kevin, you have sent the same message three times - each time without a question. What do you want to know?

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @safiaasghar: This is a really nice combination. You relish the differences and are both happy to encourage the other in their pursuits. It's a quirky, happy relationship with a basis in spirituality.

      Your Capricorn ll will sometimes need to keep the various aspects of his life in separate compartments - for example, keeping work and social interests apart. That's okay and there's no need for you to worry when that happens, it's just the way it is with Cappies.

      He will love that you have a wide range of interests and will be willing to explore all kinds of topics with you. Keep these mini-adventures into the unknown as a major part of the partnership and you have a good chance of being with each other to the end.

      Have a wonderful time! I shan't say 'good luck' because you don't need it. x

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      safiaasghar 3 years ago

      my Date of Birth is march/22/1990

      his date of birth is January/06/1988

      he was the one to approach me. now we both want to marry each other. your suggestions and tips to make our relation better are highly required

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: we do have a deeper understanding of everything. we've shared allot of aspects such as children, religion, culture and the like... i just dont know why hes taking forever!

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: So 17 Jan & 24 May. He is Cap-Aquarius cusp and you are Taurus-Gemini cusp. This is a combination, where having fun is high priority. You look for things to do that are adventurous, wild and crazy. What you need to do is balance this fun aspect of the relationship with a deeper, affectionate and more mature side. Sometimes, the inability to do this means that you get relationship-lite instead of a lasting love.

      Just relax and see how it goes.

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: It seems to me that it is normal behaviour for a guy who enjoys being with someone. x

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: and is this behavior normal for a cappri?? in regards to this aspect?

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: my date of birth is 05/24/89....

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: You don't need help, little munchkin, everything is going great. Just stop trying to second guess and go with the flow. You are falling into that thing that lots of people do... where's this going? Where do I stand? What does this mean? Why don't you simply enjoy the fact that you are interacting with this nice guy on an equal basis?

      You haven't given me your d.o.b. so I can't tell you if this is a good combination, astrologically speaking, but it sounds to me like everything is going well. xx

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      Hey. so i met my Cappi (January 17, 1989) two years ago. He is a great GREAT guy. sweet, funny and caring. I told him i liked him more than a year ago... However he told me hes attracted to me and finds me attractive but does not know where those feelings are then he left overseas to teach but we stayed in contact the whole duration (skyping and texting) Now hes back and hes so attentive,Touchy (randomly rubs my back, long and multiple hugs) and flirty. Hes a real gentleman. i'm confused as to what is going on...is he being friendly or is he actually trying to mend the semi-rejection. We went to lunch and he picked a spot secluded and we just sat there and ate our lunches while we talked...then he drove me home and got out of the car to hug me. HELP?

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @bashton38: It seems as though her offer to help you was genuine but you misinterpreted her motives. Cappies are usually straight-up - friendship is friendship and romance is romance. Once you know a Capricorn, you will discover that they have clear boundaries.

      The fact that she obviously tried to maintain the friendship shows that she was willing to forget the mix-up. However, like all Capricorns, she will walk away from a situation/person if rebuffed too often. The only thing you can do is to say 'hi' and smile when you see her. She'll probably continue to ignore you for a couple of centuries but may relent eventually. Whatever you do, don't try the romantic thing again. Your love is waiting along another path.

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @Vito-d123: Capricorns will flirt outrageously when attracted to someone. Neither male or female Cappies are coy. They will make it known very clearly when they are interested. Equally so, if they are not ;)

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      bashton38 3 years ago

      So I met a Cap. She tried to help me further my career and started to open up to me. I was withdrawn trying to fight my feelings for her and eventually I made a move. She turned me down but tried to move on from it and stay friends with me. I withdrew because I couldn't control my feelings. She tried to stay friends but I had put my wall up. Now it seems as if she is ignoring me. What can I do to fix it?

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      Vito-d123 3 years ago

      How do Capricorn females show that they are interested in someone?

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @aman145: Capricorn llls are quite physical but they also have a strong moral code, which can sometimes make them seem disinterested in sex. However, once they are in a 'safe' relationship, they are able to relax. Good luck!

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      aman145 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: thanks for replying, Are the people born on 12 January 1983 quite sexual?..Somewhere it was written when i checked the compatibility that there would be sexual problems/frustations?..maybe ill not be able to make him satisfy sexually?..theres attraction but i dont know abt the other thing as we haven't gone to the physical side yet!!!

      thanks

      Jas

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @aman145: Hi Jas

      Not a bad combination at all. This is usually a very physical and passionate relationship. You have lots in common, especially an appreciation of beauty and design.

      Marriage can work out but there could be some problems - these are niggly, minor differences that arise out of your very contrasting personalities. Unfortunately it is these small irritations that can escalate and destroy a relationship. You must be aware of this, especially the fact that Capricorn llls have a bit of a dark side. They need lots of peace and quiet and are unable to tolerate chatter for very long.

      My advice to you would be to put marriage on the back burner until you have known each other a long time.

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      aman145 3 years ago

      Hi,

      My DOB is : 24 May 1985, and the guy I like His DOB is : 12 January 1983

      is this a good match? is succesful marriage going to be possible here?

      thanks

      Jas

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: Of course not. Once committed to a relationship we are the most loyal women (& men) on the planet. However, if we feel our loyalty is being taken for granted, then we are out of there, quicker than a rat up a drainpipe.

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: I'm sorry I meant to say do cappie women cheat?

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: Will who cheat on whom?

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: Will they cheat on you?

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: Hello Brian, yes, Capricorn women fall in love. They can be extremely passionate and are 110% loyal, as long as that loyalty is reciprocated. Later in life, when she has been through the mill a bit with all that passion, she may well decide that security is the better option.

      Pisces and Scorpio can both suit a Capricorn women... but they are usually difficult relationships Earth+water = mud :D Capricorn will always be the driver in the relationship but the creativity of Pisces and the intensity of Scorpio will bring out the best (and worst) in her.

      Good luck with your Cappie!

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: Hi Annie, I can only speak from my own experience but when someone reaches out, friendship-wise then I reciprocate. However, if I realise that the person may have other motives that don't jive with me, then I will begin to pull the shutters down. Scorpios are intense, indeed, and that intensity might also be too much for a Cappie. It's not that Cappies can't do intense; they do... but they have to feel 'at one' with the other person.

      I think she is probably not gay... or doesn't think of herself that way. She may well be intrigued but her own feelings are scaring her. I'm not sure what to say, really. My advice would be to back right off, smile when she smiles, talk to her when she talks but remove the 'threat'. Hopefully the friendship will resume and one day you can talk openly and honestly with her - cos that's what we like - straight talking, so to speak :) We have to know where we stand. We don't like not knowing what is going on, and we can't do subtext.

      Hope it all works out for you, Annie.

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      Do capricorn women fall in love for love or will they ultimately choose security over the right guy? I know experience makes all the difference but I am talking about a text book Capricorn woman. Career oriented, aloof, and focused. Who suits a cappy woman better out of the two: pisces or scorpio? I know that these are a lot of questions but I crave your insight.

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      I have had a crush on this Cappie woman for the past year. I don't know if she is a lesbian or not but we really connected. I don't know what it was exactly but I felt something that I usually don't feel with most woman. I'm very intuitive like that. She sparked up a convo with me one day and I told her that I wanted to do better at work and she reached out to help me attain that goal. In the beginning it seemed that she would go out of her way to get my attention, be supportive and try to find out things about me but as I grew feelings I started to hold back and she started to cool down. Her friendliness turned in to more of a business-like manner and she became hot and cold with me. I know that I can act weird (being that I am a Scorpio) but as expressive as I can be these strong feelings scared me. Anyways thinking back I remember how before I cared for her so much I wasn't afraid to flirt with her or hold eye contact. I would hold her gaze and she would look down and away as if I frightened her. I started giving her space and every know and then she would stop by to see me and say hello. when I was in central park my friends said they saw her laughing with her friends and when she looked in our direction her face grew serious and she was watching me. I looked at her and she just kept watching me until I turned away. It was so obvious It's been a couple of days and I still haven't heard from her. I really don't know what else to do because when it comes to her feelings her walls are so high up.

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: She was trying to work out if she fancied you or not. Take no notice. If she wants to date you, she'll ask.

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: You ask her and if s/he says no, then you know :) Cappies like straight talkers they hate it when people don't come out and say what they want/mean.

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      how do u kno if a cappie doesnt want to date u?

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      So I made the mistake of telling this Capricorn girl that I was interested in her. Unfortunately she turned me down. I think I caught her off guard because I never gave her any outward indication that I was interested. A week later I was walking down the hallway at school and I noticed her staring at me but instead of turning away and pretending like she wasn't staring at me she just kept staring... What was that about?!

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: Sorry to hear that, VD. However, just because she is seeing someone doesn't mean that you guys haven't created some kind of connection. For now, simply move on with your life.

      Just one thing - you don't actually know what she is thinking or how she is feeling. You might think you know, and you might be right, but it's more likely that you are not. Don't read things that aren't there. Blank stares are for warning people off, so let it go.

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: I was completely wrong. She's already seeing someone, she didn't say so but I found out on my own. I feel stupid but at least I tried. I'm not taking it as bad as I expected but I am still in denial. Although she didn't verbally say it her giving me back the note was her way of saying no. I keep trying to hold on but it is what it is. I was at work one day and I saw her coming. She was laughing with friends when she noticed me on top of a machine and she stopped smiling and just stared at me, I couldn't take it so I just turned around. Then she did the same thing the next time she saw me, another blank stare. I know that she does this because she is only concerned and confused about me. (And that is only because of Cappies caring nature) I just wish it meant more. Sorry for being so emotional, I do realize that you are not a therapist. Cappies just get us Scorps worked up.

      Thanks for the readings!

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      myraggededge 3 years ago

      @anonymous: My son shares your birthdate, so I sort of know how you are dealing with this. His calm, laid-back exterior hides a seething mass of very strong feeling. Your Cap-girl instinctively knows this, which is why she is mirroring your caution.

      This an exciting match; the potential for confrontation is huge... both negatively and positively. Your disagreements will be like WW3, but some relationships can thrive on the occasional massive thunderstorm to clear the build up of sludgy static. The fact that you are so cautious is because deep down you are terrified of lighting the blue touchpaper (sorry for all the tacky metaphors), and setting off something that might be uncontrollable.

      When you eventually break through your self-imposed barriers, it is imperative that you both have some frank and open discussions about your mutual tendencies to repress your feelings. You have to have some agreed-upon safety valves that will allow you to 'let go'. These might be verbal or physical or both. It might be a good idea to have some kind of mechanism for you to end an argument once it begins to reach the point of no return.

      Your relationship can endure till the end, if you both want it to. There is no question of total loyalty and fidelity. You both realise that you will never have this depth of connection with anyone else (although that would not preclude you falling in love, if this was to falter in the early stages).

      Meanwhile, you have to continue taking it slowly, but not so slowly that the relationship does not progress. How you do that, is the part you have to work out for yourselves. Write her a letter telling her how you feel? Caps like to have time to think and work it out. A letter is something she could go back to over and over while she processes her own feelings. Good luck!

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      anonymous 3 years ago

      @myraggededge: Thank you @theraggededge... is it possible for you to elaborate on this combination? I feel very strongly about this cap because she cares for me like no other. It is hard for me to determine whether she only sees me as a friend or would like to be more. Even after a year we haven't opened up to each other very much, both of us being extremely cautious. Even though she doesn't say much her actions say otherwise. Sheâs always so attentive towards me but that still doesn't necessarily mean anything. We obviously have a strong yet unusual connection and it unease's me just as much as it excites me. I want to get closer to her but it is hard for me to open up because of my cautious nature as stated earlier. I'm just so confused. I don't understand why she cares for me when she seems so withdrawn from others yet when I try to get close she runs. So many possibilities*sighs*

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Nice to meet you too, VD.

      Lots of passion here but lots of tension too. Keep the communication channels open.

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hi there CaA, don't worry if I don't get straight back to you. I am not always on Squidoo, so no need to re-send messages. I'll get to you as soon as I can.

      There may be an imbalance between the partners in this pairing... Pisces-Aries Cusp needs a lot more reassurance in a relationship than Cap lll is able to provide. Cap lll is self-sufficient emotionally whereas P-A cusp is more needy.

      In other areas, however, P-A cusp can be very driven to reach goals and targets and may push Cap lll aside in order to reach them. The key is for you both to become more self-aware and realise when these issues are arising. Make a pact to talk yourselves through any conflicts and you may be able to resolve your differences.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Scorpio Nov. 3rd and Cap Jan. 12th

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      I am capricorn woman born 1/16/67. He is an aries born 3/21/77. Your thoughts in this combination.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      thank you :)

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @myraggededge: Check back later on the tarot page. I'll be doing your reading soon.

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hi tee, it looks like I already replied to you below. I have had several messages from you with the same dates of birth but different names. The answer is still the same :)

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      what do they say about capricorns born on December 26?

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: This is a difficult relationship to maintain, particularly if the partners are young. Aries-Taurus cusp gets frustrated with Capricorn l's inability to display their feelings. It's as though you cannot reach the real person, even though you know he's there.

      If you are both older then you can overcome the problems that two dominant personalities present, and build a strong relationship. It means holding your emotions in check and concentrating on each other's positive traits.

      My advice for you, Merrr, is not to invest too much into this relationship. Play it cool, and just see where things go. Don't raise your expectations too high for the future - instead enjoy the good times right now.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      my capricirn man December 26 me april 20 we get along so well but we both get busy but seems like hes always busier we make plans and then disappears he even said I.live you first why is that? do you think were a good match?

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hello Forgetmenot, You are a Cap ll and your boyfriend is Aries-Taurus Cusp. This is a pleasant combination; you have a lot in common and you both enjoy discussing all manner of things. Neither of you is materialistic, believing that there are more important things in life. Despite this, this is a down-to-earth and practical relationship.

      The downsides in a long-term partnership is that Aries-Taurus need a lot more affection than Cap ll. You have to understand that this is a necessity for the relationship to work. Caps can be offhand sometimes; it's just how we are and we need constant reminding that others can't deal with this.

      Marriage is a decision that only you two can make. Have fun!

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Hi,

      I'm a Capricorn, DOB January 7th, 1990. My boyfriend's DOB is April 20th, 1988. Is this a good match? Will we continue to grow together and be a strong couple? Is marriage in the cards?

      Finally, if it isn't too much trouble for you, what type of Aries (I, II, III..etc) is he?

      Thank you for your time and consideration. I'm looking forward to your response.

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hi Sonia, I have no idea whether you and your man will get married or not. I am just giving you advice based on the general characteristics of people born during your birth weeks. Nothing is carved in stone, and you have free will to make it work or not. You are thinking that I can give you personal predictions but I can't. Your destiny is of your own making. x

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      @myraggededge: Hi...sorry to bother u again...actually im muslim and hes muslim tooâ¦am only looking for marriage with this guy and nothing elseâ¦every relationship in this world has differences..no relationship is going to be 100% perfectâ¦so u saying theres no chance of marriage with this guy and even if the marriage takes place..its gonna break soon?..thanks

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hello Sonia, I'm afraid you are asking me too many questions. I can't do predictions here, and I certainly couldn't tell you if he likes you or not. You could try asking him.

      You are welcome to request a tarot reading using the links on the page - ONE question, please.

      Meanwhile, I can tell you that this combination have good chemistry, strong physical attraction and are both fascinated by each other. However, marriage is not usually so successful, as the differences that were initially so interesting become merely irritating over time. My advice, if you do get together, would be to enjoy the relationship, especially the fact that you appreciate the same kinds of things, but don't push for wedding bells. Good luck!

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Hi, I like a guy whose DOB is "13 January 1983" and my DOB is "24 May 1985", what kind of guy he is? and does he like me?, is there chance of me getting married to him?..and can you tell me if i have one marriage in my life?..DOB of mine as shown above is "24 May 1985"

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hi angelic,

      Here's a plan... just for now don't think about a future career, just get any job or, if you are already in one, then start where you are. Make a big effort to focus in the present moment and do the best you can do and be the best you can be in this job. Put thoughts of a career to one side.

      Now, because you undoubtedly have an uncanny knack of attracting coincidence and you also have a well-developed intuition, you will find that opportunities or pathways will make themselves known to you. Say 'yes' to these opportunities, however unrelated to a career they may seem. One of them could lead to something very interesting. Remember - live in the moment. Good luck!

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      i am a Capricorn woman( dec 25) and i have no idea what career i want in life and its driving me insane,any help?

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: It depends if he understands where you're coming from. He needs to realise that you sometimes get all wound up inside, uptight and tensed in mind and body. If he can live with that, and discover the key to helping you relax, then the relationship stands a good chance.

      You could view the relationship as a retreat from the world, where you both feel safe enough to relax your outward personas and display the 'true you'. Problems could arise if you do that Capricorn thing of insisting on 'rules' - Taurus lll will simply rebel big time and walk away. Good luck.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      hiiii. im born 12/31/98 and i want to know if a guy born 5/13/93 would be good for me

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Yes, this is a nice combination - more sensuous than sexual. They have a lot in common, and taking the more pleasant route is key for both. It certainly could last a long time - you will love planning your home together but be prepared for disagreements - but they will be of the better kind, iykwim? Good luck.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      His: 2/15/86, mine: 12/29/81 Our bond and chemistry is off the charts, will it last?

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hi Sandy. This is a very stable combination - Leo lls can inspire Cap llls to stretch themselves career and creativity-wise. Not hugely passionate, the fires of romance will smoulder along quite nicely. This relationship would work well for any joint venture, including business or the bringing up of a family.

      As an active Leo, you may find that Cap resists your more 'out there' ideas, so be aware of this tendency and introduce your ideas gradually - you may have the grand plan in your head but Cap needs to take it step-by-step. A good way of doing this is to plant the seeds and then let him think the ideas are his - you get what you want and he thinks he invented the wheel :) Good luck!

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Him 15th Jan, Me 8th Aug - We get along well and seem to have a very similar sense of humour, are we compatible

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Tut, Cathy! I've deleted my previous response but much of it still stands - you still have structure-loving Cap l trying to deal with fluffy-cloud Pisces-Aries. If anything, the differences are even more pronounced. Success in a relationship is dependent upon Joe accepting your need to lead and your yearning for 'knowing where you stand' and 'where the relationship is headed', and you accepting Joe's need to express individuality in his unique 'out there' way without criticising him. Emotional storms are inevitable.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Joe is 3/23/70

      I'm so sorry for the wrong date and thank you so much.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      @myraggededge: Are we going to make it? This seems so hard.

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Question?

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Cat-12/27/75 Joe-3/6/1970

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: The key energy in this relationship is individuality. Both partners (Libra llls and Cap llls) have a strong need to be independent, but at the same time like to create their own enclosed world. This partnership could have 'issues' with stubbornness and control. However, if you could make a pact to deal with these problems, perhaps by creating a code-to-live-by, then the relationship would have every chance of long-term stability.

      As his birthday is the 11th, then he could well have Libra ll tendencies, which would explain why you are intrigued - Libra lls are playful and persuasive at times but can be sharp and critical at others.

      You might want to just gently explore the possibilities with this one... take it on a slow, day-by-day approach and see where it goes. Have fun!

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Passionate, intense, emotions with this Libra man. I've known him many years, but always in the periphery until recently. His birthday is 10/11. Mine is 1/16.

      We have strong distinctive personalities, and at times I tend to recoil from his acerbic manner.

      Anyway, how do these b'dates line up in the astrological sense?

      (There's just something about this man that intrigues me immensely.)

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: This is a powerful combination - you are a Libra/Scorpio (air & water), he is a Sagittarius/Capricorn (fire & earth), so there is a mix of all sorts happening here. There are fundamental differences in temperament, so you will have your work cut out reconciling your viewpoints. Be aware that he prefers to restrict both partners in a relationship, while you will inevitably be pushing the boundaries of freedom. However, if you manage to accommodate each other, then you may find that your future lies in setting up a business together or working together in some way. Good luck!

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      I don't think I'm in love with a Capricorn I know it. female October 25 born 10:47am Madison Illinois ,him December 24,1957 @4:28pm St. Louis MO

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Question?

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Goatgirl 01/16/71

      Dude 10/13/74

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hi Shochenet, they correspond exactly to the Capricorn ones, just go by the dates but change the months. The Secret Language of Relationships is the book you need. I'm not an astrologist, I'm a tarot reader, so can't tell you anything about other signs. Capricorn is my interest because I am one :)

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      @myraggededge: What is a Taurus II, III? If I may ask What's the specific dates for that?

      Which book would tell me in simple practical easy to understand way Capricorn (and any sign including moon sign) comparables? Thanks for your efforts helping and enlightening us. You are appreciated.

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: It's here on the page. Go to the section "Capricorn l" and you will see which signs are most compatible with yours.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Date of birth: December 28. (Year needed? Time of day needed?). My question is this weird one: Can you tell me what's the best relationship/marriage/love - any or all of these best for me? Maybe I should go look for a specific date of birth and take it from there. Please give your best answer. Thanks a lot.

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Two Cappie 1s in a relationship can either work really well... or not. The good thing about it is that you *know* each other. You know where the other is coming from. You recognise yourself in the other. To make this work, you have to base your relationship on agreements. You need to determine who will be the decision-maker in the various aspects of your life together. In some you will lead, and in other areas, he will. Your watchword is 'flexibility'. Be prepared to let go of some of your Capricorn, "This is the way it's done..." traits.

      This is a sensuous partnering, rather than a passionate one... and that means it could last a long while. There will be conflict - you are both as stubborn as mules - but remember, 'be flexible'. Good luck.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      @myraggededge: Now I think I know why you told me to wait two weeks.

      His-12/29/78

      Mine-12/29/81

      Now I realize I wasn't confused just blind to what was in front of me. So do we have a fighting chance?

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hi ConfusedCaps, there is often a struggle for dominance in this combination. And, yes, in the beginning this can be very stimulating in a relationship because it can be transmuted into a flirtatious competition, which is conducive to passionate encounters. However, that is unlikely to last and the need to be in control reasserts itself in both partners. You will have the edge, being born in the 'Week of Determination', and what you are experiencing is your partner giving in to you. He knows at some level that he can't achieve his directive to dominate -- so is backing off.

      Now you know this, it is possible that you could restrain your natural inclination to steer the relationship and allow him to take charge, make the decisions, take over the running, if you like. Wait a little while and let him make contact in his own time. Then when things get going again, you can make the conscious decision to hand over the reins. Of course, you may not want to -- in that case, you may be better off moving on. Good luck.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      I'm a male Jan 6 1984 and he is Dec 26 1983 been talking/dating for six months at first was very passionate but now kind if distant. He recently just got out of a 9yr relationship and said he's not ready for another just yet...Should I stay around or let him go? How's our compatibility?

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: You are confused, aren't you! See how it goes and ask me in a week or two :)

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      @myraggededge: Thank you so much I really appreciate the advice.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      @myraggededge: His Birthday: 12/29/1979

      My Birthday: 12/29/1981

      I have another one that I wanted your opinion on. He just popped out of no where and now I'm questioning my previous decision. We have so much in common that it is scary.

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Definitely a difficult combination. There tend to be power struggles that see-saw back and forth. You may not see the communication problems as power struggles but that is probably what they are. Often one partner's self-esteem is inadvertently bruised by the other. Cancer lls are far less confident than Capricorn ls, so always bear that in mind.

      It is possible to get through and create a good long-term relationship, but it does require an honest reassessment of the communication problems and a resolve by both of you to deal with these *as they arise*.

      Somehow you have to bring the crab out of his shell and approach the subject with him. I think I might be tempted to write it all out, sharing my deepest feelings, and then just waiting to see what his response is. You can only try your best. If he doesn't want to take it forward, there's not much more you can do. Best wishes and good luck.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      I was born on Dec 29, 1981 and the person I am interested in was born July 6, 1979. We seem to have difficulty communicating and I feel like I am always rubbing him the wrong way. He hasn't confirmed nor denied this but he has disappeared into his shell. Now I am not sure what to do or if I should do anything. Something in me feels like he is the one. Please help.

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      myraggededge 4 years ago

      @anonymous: Hi Ali, I think you answered your question in the very first sentence. If you think you are obsessed, then he does too... and no-one, absolutely no-one enjoys being the object of need. He ran scared. And as a Cappie, he will slam the door behind him. It's unlikely he will return, so use it as a lesson learned. x

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Hi,

      I'm 9/23/68, he is 1/16/64

      I'm kind of obsessed with this guy. Very strongly attracted and it seemed like we were getting close and then he backed off. Completely. Is it likely that he will come back. Could there be some kind of relationship that works between us? Thank you!