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martyrs of marriage

Updated on April 13, 2015

Martyrs of Marriage

Martyrs of Marriage

Both men and women are Martyrs of marriage. Every day their are suicides due to family problem. That is why i have decided to write an article about this topic.Then why we cannot lead a happy married life?? What really matters is love in whatever we do. But we are completely confused and are trapped with greed and lust. we forget that our main goal is to attain love and only love and love is non other than god himself. The goal of marriage is love but we try to look out for hell lot of other things in marriage like security, success,materialistic gain blah.... blah...... with never ending demand. If we really want all this things then we can go and do some business.Yes guys it means we marry and try to do business that is trading of love like if you love me i will give you this and vice versa. Where their are demands and expectation love can never find a place their and where their is love nothing is needed because it is more than sufficient. Once you are self sufficient and you are doing a good job now society and parents are very much worried about you because you have to marry and settle your life as per the protocol of life. As per my knowledge from society and parents life is a beautiful journey so how can it be a protocol. Now as per them if you are not marring then what the hell are you going to do. Now the whole world is stuck at a dead end if not marriage then what. Now this is a million dollar question asked by parents and society if not marriage then what and we don't have a answer to that because of lack of enough experience and awareness. Now we hunt for that answer and look what we get in form of experienced and intelligent people which is the same parents and society. Now the question arises what our parents and society wants. Society is here to enjoy the moment and parents are concerned because they are old and can leave this world anytime so they want to see grand children faces and then die peacefully so and so. Now both parents and society approach us as if they are sales person of marriage and tell us lot of beautiful things about marriage and the person who is going to marry is a customer on one end ready to receive the product. If by mistake Consciousness grows in that person and he asks the sales people who are marketing marriage that, can we find love in our marriage? our sales people immediately says yes because that is not much of their concern. Their are lot of god men from different religion in India. People from different religion often argue about the genuinity of their religion and god men and often fight with other religion stating other religion and god men as false and importer but i am really confused when i see all god men from different religion are telling the same thing and we are shedding blood of our innocent brothers and sisters like fools telling that our religion and our god men are correct. JESUS CHRIST- A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another PROPHET MUHAMMAD- Do you love your creator?Love your fellow being first.Shri krishna-That one i love who is capable of ill will and returns love for hatred.Living beyond the reach of i and mind,and of pain and pleasure,full of mercy,contented,self-controlled,with all his heart and all his mind given to me - with such a one i am in love. Guru Nanak-Even Kings and emperors with heaps of wealth and vast dominion cannot compare with an ant filled with the love of God. Gautam buddha- If you truly loved yourself,you could never hurt another.Judaism religion - One of the core commandments of Judaism is "Love your neighbor as yourself" (Leviticus 19:18).Mahvira(Jainism religion)-Anger begets more anger, and forgiveness and love lead to more forgiveness and love.So love everyone.The only thing i want to tell through this article is LOVE LOVE AND LOVE CAN BE THE ONLY REASON FOR MARRIAGE. IF THEIR IS ANY OTHER REASON FOR MARRIAGE THEN WE ARE ON THE WRONG PATH.

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      Asma Shaikh 3 years ago from Mumbai, Maharashtra, India

      u r ryt...The Society needs to much widen nd broaden way of thinking abt the concept of Love.

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