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What Is the Secret to Life?

Updated on April 11, 2018
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Barbara has spent over forty years writing poems, lyrics, and sayings for cards, and interpreting the meanings and messages in song.

The Garden Lesson: The Secret to Life
The Garden Lesson: The Secret to Life

What is the Secret to Life? Are You Asking this Question Often These Days?

Try this thought on for size:

If we try to understand the concept that our soul is completely separate from our body, then this journey we're on is exactly that, 'a soul's journey'.

So what's the point of it all then?

Entertain the thought that you are gifted with an internal knowingness that your soul is separate and distinct from your physical self; that it's an absolute truth.

In other words it's not the physical brain that triggers consciousness, but rather the other way around: Consciousness exists separate from the brain, and it is in fact consciousness, that brings the brain alive to enable a body and mind to live a human life.

When we pass away, our soul then travels back to our Spirit which becomes it's home, until we choose to come back to another physical existence and thus grow our contributions further and advance our soul (reincarnation).

So if all of this is true (and who truly knows for a fact, although personally I believe), then what is the secret to life?

If you're interested read on. There's also a place for you to offer up your own ideas as well, so feel free to do so.

Love: We are here to give love and receive love

We're here to love with all our hearts and to be willing to be loved. Even if we've been hurt by love, we advance our souls when we love again.

We grow most of all when we are being selfless and give love that is hard to give.

Try it when you're feeling someone doesn't deserve love from you for a particular reason. Make the effort to hug them anyway, to be nice to them anyway, to show them that they still matter, anyway. This can be the hardest thing to do, but like anything that's difficult, can give back a joyous reward.

There's a magical feeling you experience when you've arm wrestled and won against your negative emotions about someone; you've essentially focused on them and their needs and in doing so, you've filled up your own cup, and without even realizing it, healed a wound.

Test it out: When you're feeling negative towards someone, instead of going toe-to-toe with them, be compassionate towards them; genuinely smile, rub their arm (if appropriate), listen to them, hug them - this is not easy but the sense of comfort it will give both of you is worth it.

Do it Anyway - by Martina McBride - Sometimes a Song Can Express Things Perfectly - Love them Anyway

This song speaks to doing it anyway; love them anyway, build it anyway, dream anyway - The words are moving - Sing it Anyway.

Absolutely Beautiful, Don't Miss 'Anyway' by Martina McBride

Forgiveness: We are here to learn about true forgiveness

This is the ultimate test for a soul (in my opinion), and from what's shown on the news and what appears on the internet, there's a great number of souls who have yet to master this.

In order to really know how far along you are with forgiveness, think of yourself or someone you love whose had the unfortunate nightmare of being hurt physically, emotionally, or mentally by another person. Can you forgive something like that?

Sounds crazy, but I believe I could. It's not that I wouldn't hurt, or cry, or have moments of hatefulness, or want justice, yes, certainly those emotions would exist - but if you are able to view another person's actions as a soul in training, growing and lost and in need of help as well as remember that you may be at a more advanced place in your soul's growth, then forgiveness is the only logical response.

Your soul is more advanced than theirs, but yet if you cannot forgive even something egregious, is your soul really more advanced? This is the ultimate test as to whether a soul has truly achieved a higher level of understanding.

The truly advanced understanding of forgiveness means there is nothing to forgive

I can't possibly explain it as well as Anita Moorjani does in one of her interviews. Anita Moorgani had a life changing NDE (near death experience), it cured her cancer - What I found compelling about this interview happens at around 17:00 minutes. She speaks about unconditional love and about what forgiveness is or actually isn't - I won't even attempt to summarize it, if you're so inclined, you can listen for yourself; the video is directly below.

Around 17 minutes and onwards for a bit, Anita Moorjani speaks about Forgiveness and her understanding of it based on her NDE (Near Death Experience)

Knowledge: We are here to learn and to share our knowledge

From the time we're born, we're learning. We process information every day, but the most important part of all this is sharing our life lessons, especially with those coming up behind us.

Every life touches another life, and if we approach things this way, then we can learn to be a better community, a better world. It's baby steps when it comes to the advancement of souls and the planet. But if we remember to keep moving forward, we'll inch ahead without even knowing we did.

If you're thinking something silly like you don't have anything to offer, I am going to tell you something with absolute certainty, you do.

There is something you've learned about life, that you can teach and pass along. The smallest sentences said to another person, can make an unknown difference in that life.

Here's a crazy example: When I was 16 and about to start my first summer job, my dad said to me, 'if you don't have anything to do, find something to do' - ok, so that's not a profound life statement, but I carried that bit of advice with me my entire life and it helped me approach my life's work diligently.

So always remember, that you matter, you have something to offer and something to teach.

Do you believe the secret to life is as it's described here: To Love, To Forgive, To Learn and Pass on Our Knowledge? Perhaps there's something else you would l

Do You Believe We are Here to Love, Forgive and Pass On Our Knowledge?

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© 2013 Barbara Tremblay Cipak

What do you think? In your mind, 'what's the secret to life'...Why are we Here?

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      Barbara Tremblay Cipak 

      3 years ago from Toronto, Canada

      Cynthia, thank you for another lovely and thoughtful comment

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      Cynthia Sylvestermouse 

      3 years ago from United States

      To love, to be loved, and to learn to forgive are certainly a huge part of life's lessons and I believe some of life's greatest blessings. While I do not personally believe in reincarnation, I do believe there is a life hereafter in heaven, but regardless of which one any of us personally believe, I agree they both have an emphasis on loving and forgiving.

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      Barbara Tremblay Cipak 

      4 years ago from Toronto, Canada

      Thank you @arachnea, appreciate that very much

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      Tanya Jones 

      4 years ago from Texas USA

      Very powerfully written and a great read. Saw this on The Writers Door.

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      RuthieDenise 

      4 years ago

      I really love your lens. I think a lot about forgiveness and love and helping others. It is hard for me to forgive but I make the choice to do it. If God can forgive me I can forgive others. As you say in your lens, reach out and touch someone and let them know you care.

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      Barbara Tremblay Cipak 

      4 years ago from Toronto, Canada

      @David Stone1: beautifully said

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      David Stone 

      4 years ago from New York City

      Hard to believe there is any secret - since all of us know whatever it is we want to know. Nothing is hidden, although the longer we delay awareness, the more work we may need to get there.

      Not a secret, I think, but gifts that unfold, one after another.

      Why are we here? To live fully, and that's different for everyone. Popular books like to provide simple formulas, but I don't think it's a one size fits all universe. And like I learned from Wayne Dyer, "Be open to everything," and you'll find the truth given to you.

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      Treasures By Brenda 

      4 years ago from Canada

      I'll be honest and say I haven't thought a lot about it but your theory, To Love, To Forgive, To Learn and Pass on Our Knowledge sounds reasonable to me.

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      Michael Yoshinaka 

      4 years ago from Honolulu, Hawaii

      Well put in this lens about loving and forgiving especially after the hurt. We always need reminders as imperfect humans and to make it happen and follow through.

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      blestman lm 

      4 years ago

      Great lens. Lots to tap into. In my mind love and joy are the true ingredients of life. Anything less is just surviving, not living

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      Barbara Tremblay Cipak 

      4 years ago from Toronto, Canada

      @ecogranny: What an incredibly thoughtful comment, and I certainly agree with that interpretation of the 'secret to life' - I'll bet in the end we'll find out there were just two words that mattered to the most - 'love, forgive' - so simple sometimes that we can't see the forest for the trees - thanks again for your time on my lens

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      Linda Hoxie 

      5 years ago from Idaho

      The secret to life is just that...a magical secret yet to be discovered. All we can do is to live every moment, as if it is your last. Love like there is no tomorrow, forgive others as if it is the last time you will ever see them. Learn and Grow. I am thankful that the secret of each of our lives is not revealed, but part of our own individual journey to discover. What a beautiful lens, and a beautiful soul that wrote it!

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      Kathryn Grace 

      4 years ago from San Francisco

      I would like to think that author Lewis Thomas had it right in his book, The Lives of a Cell, when he said that humans are the otters of the universe and our purpose in life is to play. Encapsulated in that philosophy was much of what you cover here: Loving ourselves and others, finding ways to love and live joyfully in the face of adversity, and forgiving one another, for it is not possible to play with delight when one's heart is full of bitterness.

      I just want to say also that I am delighted to find this lens and this discussion here on Squidoo. I so much enjoy meatier pages written from the heart. Thank you from mine.

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      adragast24 

      5 years ago

      Good question, still don't have the answer.

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      SBPI Inc 

      5 years ago

      I believe that each of us is a gift from God, that we carry within us a Soul which is pure consciousness and Unconditional Love. Because we are Human and live among other Humans we construct our reality by adapting to the society norms which are accepted by those with whom we live. This functions to create Separateness and distances people through cultural differences. I believe in the Oneness of all Beings in that we share in the gift of life. You may, f you choose, read my article in support of your lens presentation at http://www.squidoo.com/as-we-came-to-be.

      Excellent lens and thank you for sharing with all.

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      Barbara Radisavljevic 

      5 years ago from Templeton, CA

      Interesting concept, but I believe we only live here once and that the decisions we make here determine where we will spend the next life. I suppose we will both find out soon enough how it all works out when it becomes reality.

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