Read my hubpages profile.
I would not be anything but honest. I can say lots of things, perhaps to what you would want to hear, but that does not edify anyone. So when I dedicated myself to being on hubpages, I did not change my name, and I did not lie about myself. I believe that if you are going to be with anyone, they have to accept you for who you are, and not to create a figment of their imagination.
So if you want to know me, read my profile here at hubpages. I can not have any other way but to be honest.